Chapter 3590 shirk responsibility
In the memory of the gangster, he injured his classmate for the first time. After telling his father in fear, his father arranged for a subordinate, who quickly arranged for someone to entertain the victim's parents. Soon, the child who was beaten returned his own money.
Transferred school.
This was the first time that the gangster with a flat head tasted the sweetness. He didn't have to pay for hitting someone, and others had to leave in despair. From then on, he became the bully in the school. He could hit anyone he wanted. If he couldn't beat him, he would go back to his father.
If you file a complaint, this person will naturally be dealt with by the person arranged by his father, or he will transfer to another school, or he will give in and become his younger brother.
Then there was the first time he harmed a girl. After drinking a little wine and being stimulated by his younger brother, he forcibly dragged a female classmate into the hotel and forced her. Later, it was his father who asked someone to give him some money.
, after a lot of threats, the girl not only did not call the police, but also became his girlfriend, although this status only lasted for a month because he was tired of it.
However, the two consecutive first times made him more and more indifferent to the law. In addition, his father had not disciplined him since he was a child, and he became more and more lawless. He always felt that no matter what trouble he caused, someone could help him settle it, and he had nothing to be afraid of.
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So we walked all the way until today, and finally encountered the nail in the coffin of Yu Fei. Not only was the gangster with a flat head bruised and bleeding, but his father was also dragged into the water by him.
There is another deep-seated reason for the tragedy, and that is that the root cause is that the middle-aged man with a flat head is considered a nouveau riche. He has caught up with the dividends of the times and made money, but he lacks the foundation and his character is not very good.
The children haven't made good friends either.
This is the old saying that wealth cannot last more than three generations, which refers to most of the nouveau riche. For those big families that have been passed down for many generations, you will find that they have their own family traditions, family rules, etc., and a mature system for cultivating future generations.
, there will be many offspring to be selected from among them, and there will not be a situation where there is only one single seedling that cannot be offended. If you don't work hard, you may be pushed to the edge. A good offspring cultivation and competition mechanism is the essence of the long-term development of a family.
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Now this father and son are a living tragedy. Even if they don't meet Yu Fei today, they will meet Li Fei tomorrow, and Wang Fei the day after tomorrow. One day they will have to pay for their mistakes.
After hearing his son's words, the middle-aged man with a flat head suddenly fell silent. He stared at his son for a long time and finally realized that he had overlooked something important!
I only think about working hard to make money, so that my precious son can enjoy it for the rest of his life, but he forgets that one day he will encounter disaster if his morality is not matched. No matter how much money he has, it is the basis for trouble.
He really regretted it at this moment. Even before he made less money, he should have educated and disciplined his son. Although he was not a good person, he was not a bastard or stupid to his level!
What's the use of having a huge fortune now?
Soon, half of my life's hard work will be wasted. When the news of my loss of power is known to my gang of hungry wolf men, the consequences of my years of high-pressure control will appear. These people will definitely come back to bite me hard.
, knock yourself down and divide everything you have.
"Do you really have no ideals of your own in life? Have you never thought that you can do something yourself, not just rely on me, but rely on your own abilities to work hard and make a name for yourself in the world?"
The middle-aged man with a flat head looked at his son with a face full of pain and asked. At this moment, he wished that his son could be a little more angry, instead of looking like this, which is so heartbreaking that he can't breathe.
No father hopes that his only child will achieve nothing. He always thinks that he can protect his son from wind and rain. One day, his son will wake up and realize that the prodigal son has turned back, just like the prodigal son.
I was just average back then.
"Ideal? Do I dare to have an ideal? I first told you that I wanted to be a pilot. You said that it is meaningless for a broken pilot to receive a dead salary, and he is still poor. I later told you that I wanted to open a company of my own. You
Tell me that I won't be able to take care of your family business until you die, and won't let me play tricks like children's house! Just last year, I said I wanted to open a bar, but you said I was doing it just for my own entertainment.
disagree!"
"These are all thoughts that you killed for me. Are you asking me if I have any ideals in life?"
The gangster with a flat head sneered and said to his father that only they and his son knew about these things, because the gangster with a flat head kept these things in his heart after every incident and felt that it was too embarrassing to tell others.
It is precisely because of this that he feels that he can just lie down. His father won't let him do this or that. Anyway, there is no shortage of money, so why should he work hard?
And the most ridiculous thing about the middle-aged man with a crew cut is that he won’t let the gangster with a crew cut touch the company and business in his hands. Even he looks down on his own son and feels that if he lets the gangster with a crew cut do it, he will definitely mess it up.
So this guy really has nothing to do. He has nothing else to do. In the end, he can only recruit a bunch of younger brothers and go out to do evil. He can't find any fun, so he just enjoys bullying others.
The middle-aged man with a flat head was dumbfounded. When he said these words, he didn't care at all and even forgot about it. Only after his son said it today, he recalled that it seemed that such a thing did happen!
What have I done all these years? It seems that I have single-handedly destroyed my own son!
Then what's the use of working hard to earn this business? Even if there is nothing like today, when I get old and hand over these properties to such a son, I estimate that it will take less than a few days to give away all the fruits of my half-life's hard work.
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"Although I don't know how to educate, you are a human being! Have you let yourself down like this? Have you ever thought about how you would live without me?"
The middle-aged man with a flat head still couldn't accept this result, and asked his son with wide eyes.
As a failed father, he is actually not willing to accept this result, let alone his own identity, so he still wants to save it and at least let his son bear some responsibilities, otherwise this burden will be on him alone.
It was really hard for him to accept it.
"Does it make sense? It doesn't make sense. From your point of view, whatever I do is just like a child playing house. You never thought of training me, otherwise you wouldn't watch me idle all day long and don't care about anything. I
I thought about working hard on my own, and I mentioned to you that I would go to work in your company, but you said that if I went there, I would cause trouble and embarrass you!"
"Since you are ashamed of me, then I will let you persevere to the end!"
The gangster with a flat head immediately responded with disdain. He was full of grievances and had many things that he would never have the chance to say, but he finally said them today.
In the past, if he wanted to talk about this, he would be scolded and even punched as soon as he opened his mouth. His father had a bad temper and was very stubborn. It was in this situation today that the other party could be quiet.
Listen to what he has to say and let him tell you all his grievances.
The middle-aged man with a flat head took a deep breath and fell silent again. He actually loved his son very much. He was his only child. He always thought that there would be no hatred or resentment between father and son. His son would definitely understand him.
If you don’t understand it now, you will eventually understand it one day.
Only now did he realize that he was totally wrong. The gangster with the crew cut had actually always wanted his recognition.
However, there were many times when I wanted to cheer up and do something good, but he strangled me in the cradle.
He thought he had always been right, but at this moment he realized that he was completely wrong. He was always too self-centered and fell into conceited judgments, thinking that everything he thought was right and that others could not question it.
In the business world, he is relatively successful. A person who can persevere can eventually achieve a great career.
But it's different in the family. He has been strangling his son, never giving the other party a chance, and pushing the other party to a dead end with no other choice.
Some mistakes are difficult to make up for once you make them, and by the time you discover them, it's too late.
For example, when it comes to educating children, you have always placed your hope on them growing up, or you have placed your hopes on them to be disciplined in the future, but in the end you will find that if you didn't do it from the beginning, the missed opportunity will never come back.
, there is no better time than before.
"In fact, I have always loved you! Everything I have worked hard for belongs to you in the end. I only have you as my son. These will not belong to others. Why don't you understand?"
The middle-aged man with a flat head looked at his son and burst into tears. He always felt that he was too wronged and that his son did not understand him.
His typical self moved him, just like what many parents do, imposing their own will on their children, and in the end they kidnap their children with the saying "I am doing it all for you".
The original intention of the middle-aged man with a flat head was indeed correct, no one could deny it, but the things he did were all wrong and were not what he should have done according to his original intention.
Either you give your children the most money, or you help them prepare for the future. Money is always an accessory of human beings.
If you fail to shape people, it will be as if you have an inexhaustible mountain of gold, and you only need to move it home. But you are just a vessel for blooming. People who have not received a good education will seem to be everywhere.
They are all utensils with holes, and whatever is put in them will be missed, and nothing will be gained in the end.
"Love me? Do you know that your love is abnormal? You trap me in a cage like a pet. You say you want to protect me and that you will never have to worry about food and drink. But do you know that pets are really happy like this?
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"You just give your pet everything you think is best, but for a pet, the most important thing is freedom. A stray dog on the street who doesn't have enough to eat is much happier than a pet in a cage!"
The gangster with a flat head sneered and said to his father. The emotions that had been accumulated in his heart for a long time were finally released, and what he had wanted to say for a long time was finally spoken out.
It seems that he is very free and can do whatever he wants. He leads a bunch of gangsters to idle around every day, bullying this one and that one. However, this is not the life he wants. On the contrary, it is the source of his pain. He wakes up every night.
At that time, he also imagined that he would run a company, run it until it went public, have a market value of tens of billions, and become a leading enterprise.
It's a pity that those dreams were all imagined before dawn. After dawn, he would return to reality and start contacting his friends, discussing where to go today, and finishing the boring day.
Both father and son were in pain, looking at each other with resentment in their eyes. The son resented his father for not giving him a chance and ruining his dreams that he might have been able to achieve. The father blamed his son for being ineffective, even though he clearly gave him the best conditions.
, but he finally ended up like this, with mud unable to hold up the wall.
Chapter completed!