Chapter 3147 Love Mentor
Yu Fei was completely stupid. To be honest, he had never dared to think like this. He always felt that Ding Taotao seemed to be keeping a distance from him, telling his boyfriend that he would not be close to her. The two of them had not made any substantial progress for a long time. If they kept the status quo for so long, Yu Fei
Sometimes she even wonders if one day Ding Taotao will bring back a man and tell Yu Fei that this man is her boyfriend.
But the result that Chang Jiale told Yu Fei was completely different from what Yu Fei thought.
This may be something that the authorities are obsessed with, and those who are onlookers are clear-eyed. Chang Jiale can see clearly at a glance, but Yu Fei is making random guesses while he is in the middle of the game.
"Really? Then how come we two are still the same after so long?"
Yu Fei asked happily and anxiously.
"Why do you keep it? Relationships are accumulated over time. The two of you live together all day, and that is the most romantic thing!"
Chang Jiale was speechless. If a woman has no thoughts about you, how can she maintain the status quo with you? Maintaining the status quo is actually a kind of progress.
It's like a married couple. People who are ignorant will think that they are maintaining the status quo, but smart people will understand that the status quo is the best marriage.
Yu Fei felt a little confused again, because he felt that what Chang Jiale said was not specific enough.
But Chang Jiale felt that there were some things that he really couldn't explain in detail, perhaps because of his limited ability to express himself. He could only hope that Yu Fei would slowly figure it out on his own in the future.
Yu Fei started to think about it, and Chang Jiale didn't rush him. The things he wanted to talk to Yu Fei about were not urgent, they were just small details. It seemed that Yu Fei had no intention of thinking about other things at the moment.
"Then what should I do now?"
Yu Fei thought for a long time and didn't know if he had figured it out. He suddenly raised his head and asked.
"Are you referring to the quarrel you just had, or the development of your relationship?"
Chang Jiale didn't know what Yu Fei was asking about.
"It would be best if you could give me some guidance!"
In Yu Fei's mind at this moment, Chang Jiale is already a master of love mentor level, so naturally he wants to listen to any opinions.
"Then let's talk about it one by one. First, let's talk about the incident you encountered in front of you. It's actually very easy. When you go back later, you first apologize sincerely to Ms. Ding Taotao, saying that you were too loud and had an attitude.
Too bad, you must be sincere, Ms. Ding Taotao is not the kind of person who pushes beyond her limits, she is probably calm now, as long as you apologize, she will definitely accept it!"
"She might just agree to your request by then!"
Chang Jiale told Yu Fei how to solve the problem at hand.
"What if she doesn't agree?"
Yu Fei couldn't help but ask.
"If she doesn't agree, then you agree to her request! After all, if she still insists, it means that she is starting to take this matter seriously. If you don't want to lose her, then agree to her!"
Chang Jiale shrugged and said.
"Then how do I face my friends?"
Yu Fei began to struggle again. Yu Fei still felt that if that clause was added to the contract, it would be the same attitude toward Gu Hui and Feng Yongchang.
"As long as you don't exercise the power given to you by that treaty, it will be fine! You can talk to your friends in private and say that this is a cooperative business. In order to ensure everyone's interests, this article must be added, but
You don’t intend to use this right. Just explain it clearly in private and I believe others will understand! And if you add this clause and the other party agrees to sign the contract, it also means that he can accept the treaty. In fact, it can be regarded as a fair agreement.
It’s a contract, after all, when signing it, you wouldn’t put a gun to the other person’s head to force the other person to agree, right?”
Chang Jiale was speechless. These
He had to teach him the details himself, but he felt that Yu Fei was very real, which made him feel very reliable, unlike those who would make all kinds of superficial remarks when meeting him, saying one thing on the surface and another behind the other.
In comparison, he hopes that people around him are people like Yu Fei.
"Well, okay, then follow the method you said!"
Sure enough, when Chang Jiale told Yu Fei the method he thought of in detail, Yu Fei accepted it easily, because Yu Fei was unable to think outside the game and couldn't find a solution.
I don’t know the format, so I need help from outsiders to solve the problem.
"Then let's talk about what you want to know about the progress of your relationship. In fact, you have already laid the foundation for your relationship. What you want is not the progress of your relationship, but just a further breakthrough in distance. If you said you have never held hands, then it must be
You’ve never kissed me, right?”
Chang Jiale never thought that one day he would transform into a relationship mentor, but as someone who has experienced it, he realized at this time that he seemed to have understood too much about life. Yu Fei's incident gave him a
The stage also allowed him to further understand himself.
It's a pity that some things can only be obtained when you don't understand them. When you understand them, you find that time has passed and there are no such opportunities and people to show what you have learned.
Therefore, Chang Jiale was a little envious of Yu Fei, who could still have a simple love relationship in such an ignorant manner and enjoy the taste of true love, instead of a cruel blind date or even a perfunctory marriage for the sake of his parents' wishes.
"No!"
Yu Fei nodded honestly. Although he had dreamed about it, it was just a dream.
"What do you call Ms. Ding Taotao in private now?"
Chang Jiale asked in detail, if you want to make a plan for Yu Fei for such a matter, you need to know the progress of the two in detail.
"Just call her Ding Taotao. I used to call her Teacher Ding. Then one day, she suddenly stopped letting me call her and asked me to think of another name. I thought a lot, but she was not satisfied, or she said that I called her too old.
, or I would take advantage of her by calling her younger. In the end, I didn’t know what to do, so she asked me to call her by my full name!”
Unexpectedly, Chang Jiale immediately asked about the key point, and Yu Fei told Chang Jiale the story about the name.
"You really make me admire you. You don't understand this?"
Chang Jiale really couldn't laugh or cry this time. He felt that at a certain point, when he met his first love, he was indeed better than Yu Fei.
"Understand what?"
Yu Fei asked back, if he had understood it earlier, the two of them wouldn't have to talk about this topic today.
"They gave you an opportunity to close the distance, but you didn't seize it!"
Chang Jiale was really speechless.
"You should explain it clearly at once!"
Yu Fei felt so anxious that he was going to get angry. He really couldn't understand the broad explanations Chang Jiale said.
"Let's put it this way! You called her Teacher Ding before to create a sense of distance between you. She asked you to change the title in order to eliminate this sense of distance and use a more intimate title to close the distance between you and eliminate that identity.
The gap!"
"You must have come up with a lot of names like sister and sister at that time, right?"
Chang Jiale was speechless. He didn't need Yu Fei to explain the situation at that time. Chang Jiale could think of what Yu Fei was thinking at that time, and he could even think of Ding Taotao's collapse and speechlessness at that time.
"How did you know?"
Yu Fei was very surprised, feeling as if Chang Jiale had seen what happened at that time.
"I guessed it! Okay, let's not talk about this anymore. Let me tell you what Ms. Ding Taotao wanted you to call her at that time!"
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Jiale waved his hand, feeling that his guess was quite normal and there was no need to be surprised.
"What is it?"
Yu Fei hurriedly asked.
"She wants you to call her Taotao or Taozi or something intimate!"
Chang Jiale told the correct answer.
This is indeed what Ding Taotao thought. At that time, she thought that it would be best to call herself Taotao, which would be intimate, not frivolous, and even more familiar. Just like her family and best friends, she would call herself Taozi.
The most comfortable.
"What? Shouting like that? Why didn't I think of that at the time!"
After Yu Fei listened, he suddenly felt that he was too stupid. He thought of so many names, but in the end he just missed the correct answer.
"But the first time you shout like this, she will shyly refuse, but she will be very happy inside. If you insist a few times, she will get used to it and accept it happily!"
Chang Jiale nodded, and even told Ding Taotao's reaction to Yu Fei's first call. He was afraid that Ding Taotao would pretend to refuse because of shyness, and Yu Fei would think that Ding Taotao was really unwilling, and then stopped calling.
"Then should I call Taotao or Taozi?"
Yu Fei thought about it and felt that Chang Jiale was right, but he couldn't decide which of the two titles he should call.
"I suggest you go step by step. I estimate that the people closest to you should call her Tao Zi, and the people you know well should call her Tao Tao. For now, you can call her Tao Tao. When the relationship develops, you can change your name to Tao Zi!"
Chang Jiale seemed to know what Ding Taotao was thinking and directly said what Ding Taotao thought.
"Well, I remember it. Is it just a matter of changing the title? Are there any other good ideas?"
After hearing this, Yu Fei decided to implement it today, but because today's Chang Jiale made Yu Fei feel so powerful that he could help him solve the problem in a targeted manner, so he wanted to learn more.
"Hey, you are worried now. Some things need to be solved naturally, or solutions must be found based on the scenario. There is no specific method. If used in inappropriate places, it may have the opposite effect."
As for other things, Chang Jiale really didn't dare to teach him casually, because he needed to adapt to changes. If Yu Fei stuck to it, what awaited him might not be what he wished for, but a big mistake.
"Then be specific, even the scene and everything!"
Yu Fei's studious spirit was activated again. Ding Taotao was a little embarrassed by Yu Fei's characteristics before. Today, Chang Jiale was also lucky enough to experience a death inquiry from a good student.
"Then let me talk about two points, such as holding hands. This requires a reason that is easy for everyone to accept and has a reason. For example, when walking at night and reaching a darker place, you can take the initiative to hold the other person's hand and then say it is too dark.
, worried that the other party will be afraid!”
"As for kissing, this is technically difficult. First of all, after the two of you have a good conversation, make sure that the other person is in a good mood at that time, and that he is very satisfied with you personally, and the environmental conditions are almost met. Then you have to first
Try using other methods. It is best if you have completed the first step of holding hands and have held hands skillfully many times. Then you try to face the other person head-on. If she does not run or hide, you can try to kiss her!
"
"But remember, whether it is holding hands or kissing, it is best to choose an environment with no outsiders, and it is best to be just the two of you. Women are prone to shyness, especially for the first time. You have to give people a sense of security.
She is not easily resisted!"
Chang Jiale had no choice but to tell Yu Fei the possible scenarios and judgment criteria in detail. The more detailed it was, the smaller the possibility of an accident, so he tried to be as detailed as possible to avoid accidents, which would lead to the deterioration of the relationship between Yu Fei and Ding Taotao.
Chapter completed!