"Life is the most profound knowledge. Although my academic qualifications are not as good as yours, I may have a little more understanding of life and human relationships than you. That is not a contradiction, but wisdom in dealing with things."

Yu Fei explained to Lin Keyin that she was a person that Yu Fei later discovered. Her professional skills seemed to be very strong, but she was not very successful. The reason was that she actually had a certain level of understanding of people and sophistication.

lack of.

In different societies, different wisdom is needed to deal with the unique cultural atmosphere here.

They live in a human society, which is a society that not only follows rules, but also plays a very important role in this society.

This requires a person who not only has enough professional skills to do things, but also has enough emotional intelligence and handling skills.

In fact, often a leader's strongest thing is not necessarily ability, because subordinates can use the ability if they have it. The main responsibility of a leader is to lead his subordinates, not to do all the work himself.

Lin Keyin just doesn't understand this, especially from the thick documents on her desk. She always wants to do everything by herself, check all the important things, and make herself satisfied.

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If this was a large company with hundreds of thousands of people, the general manager would be exhausted to death!

Therefore, Lin Keyin must learn to change his thinking and methods of doing things when the time is right.

"Boss, can you tell me in detail?"

Lin Keyin still didn't quite understand. If Yu Fei had said this, she would have completely understood and wouldn't have fallen into the current predicament.

"What you are good at is professional skills, while what I am good at is people's sophistication. This is where we need to complement each other, and it also exposes our shortcomings."

"Your professional ability is indeed very strong, and you are first-class in the company's management, planning, etc., but the company is also composed of people. Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, so you can't just focus on abilities. Everyone's emotions and preferences,

Habits, etc., are all different and need to be taken into consideration and taken care of!"

"That's what you lack. Maybe every command you give is correct from a theoretical perspective, but whether this world is correct or not depends on people making rules. Sometimes it's right, sometimes it's wrong.

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"The separation of public and private matters I'm talking about is about the company. Naturally, public and private matters. Otherwise, the bigger the company, the more chaotic it will be, and in the end it will be unmanageable. This is like many family businesses. From the beginning of their establishment,

, which determines where the development bottleneck of this enterprise lies.”

"But it's not enough to just focus on the separation of public and private. Sometimes we have to separate public and private, because when we are in the same place, as long as the goals are the same, we are our own people. We can't accidentally hurt our own people. The rules must be more flexible and have a certain degree of fluctuation.

Space, just like punishment, cannot set a fixed amount, it can have a maximum limit and a minimum limit! The purpose of punishment is not for money, but for correction. As long as the goal is achieved!"

"Our current situation is even more complicated than this. From the establishment to the development of our company, the management team has followed me step by step. We are not only the relationship between leaders and employees, but also brothers and sisters!

"

Yu Fei said this, stopped to take a sip of water, and lit a cigarette again. On the one hand, he was sorting out his thoughts and thinking about how to say the most important points later. On the other hand, he was letting Lin Keyin think and digest it.

What I said before.

If you keep talking about a sentence, you won't have time to think. Yu Fei drank a few mouthfuls of water and finished smoking a cigarette. He felt almost done. Lin Keyin basically came back to his senses, so he continued to speak.

“Our company’s relationship model actually requires finding ways to integrate rules and human relationships.

When working, rules come first, but human relationships must not be left behind. For example, you can point out who made a mistake, but point it out gently, and then don't do it yourself, but teach him how to do it.

Do."

"You must also allow different opinions to exist. Even if this opinion seems ridiculous to you and must not be adopted, you can keep it or try it on a small scale, because everyone also needs to learn, and I don't want everyone to fall behind.

behind!"

"I just walked in and saw that the documents on your desk were piled up like a mountain. The company didn't have a general manager before, and when I was often away, the company was still running. Maybe it wasn't as efficient as you saw, but it wasn't.

Collapse, what does this mean? Others are working hard, so you have to be willing to delegate power and rest assured!"

"And the most important thing is that outside of working hours, once you get off work every day, you forget about work, forget about yourself and their identity. We are all good friends. Don't talk about work, just talk about the gossip in life. You have to

Take the initiative to break down barriers and let people know that outside of work, you are a person who is willing to communicate with everyone in a friendly manner.”

…

Yu Fei slowly talked to Lin Keyin about how to get along. Although Yu Fei didn't know much about management, Yu Fei knew that getting along was very important, because everyone was an independent individual and a group. Lin Keyin knew this.

Because she is not good at it, I have to enlighten her and let her understand where the problem lies.

In this way, Yu Fei left several cigarette butts in the ashtray prepared for guests in Lin Keyin's office, and finally left Lin Keyin's office.

Lin Keyin never left his office until he got off work in the afternoon, nor did he issue any orders or requirements about the company.

As soon as the get off work time came, those who should leave left and those who should stay stayed. Wang Dachui, Shouhou and others happily began to prepare for the barbecue party in the evening. Everyone made do with dinner casually, and then waited for the evening. Paused.

There may be outsiders in this company building when working, but once it's time to get off work, everyone has left. Yu Fei doesn't ask for overtime work, and because this is where they work and where they rest and stay, they don't stay either.

outsider.

So when it was time to leave, everyone immediately became active. Without subordinates and unfamiliar staff, everyone was left with their own people, so everyone let go of their restraints. They joked and joked when they needed to.

This could be regarded as a welcome and cleansing party for Yu Fei's return. Xu Guangqi called his daughter Annabell again, and Yu Fei also pretended not to see it.

Yu Chenglong and Wang Shuling also came to the back mountain as promised. It is estimated that Yu Chenglong and Wang Shuling told Yu Fei about Yu Fei's request to move, so Wang Shuling was a little reluctant, so she would stay alone for a long time without talking. Yu Fei also knew that his mother would have to go.

I want to understand it myself, so I won’t say much.

Lin Keyin finally came downstairs, and almost everyone else was there, and those who were not there went to prepare the barbecue ingredients.

Lin Keyin seemed to have been greatly inspired by Yu Fei's enlightenment in the afternoon. She seemed to have made up her mind. As soon as she came downstairs, she immediately smiled and got into the group of women, and started chatting along with the women's topics.

Her sudden change surprised these women, but they all pretended to be normal and had no emotional changes, so they pulled her along and started chatting with her.

Many of the awkwardnesses in life often originate from herself. Lin Key didn't think about it before, so she felt that everyone was isolating her. But when she let go of her worries and understood some truths, she integrated into the others again with a little effort.

Among the people, we get along very harmoniously. After all, there are no bad people here, and bad people cannot join this group.

So at first Lin Ke was a little embarrassed because she just forced herself in, but soon she forgot about the embarrassment

, everyone became more natural.

Li Yingying naturally knew that this was Yu Fei's credit. She went into Lin Keyin's office to pour water once, and then never went in again. However, Yu Fei stayed in Lin Keyin's office for a long time. Later, Yu Fei left, and Lin Keyin

Ke Yin also changed from her normal state, she didn't leave the office all afternoon, and she was not asked to do anything.

But Li Yingying sees through it without saying anything, and just assumes that Lin Keyin figured it out on his own, so that everyone can easily accept and forgive Lin Keyin. A back mountain with harmonious relationships between people is what Yu Fei wants to see.

The mountain is also the back mountain that Li Yingying wants to see.

Although it is said that Yu Fei is here to take care of the wind and dust, but because Yu Fei has the best craftsmanship and the taste of the barbecue he makes is unmatched, the main labor force is still Yu Fei. All the animals are exactly the same as the wild ones, but they are simulations of them.

It is raised in a natural environment. On the red charcoal fire, the barbecue is grilled sizzling and the aroma spreads everywhere.

If you can help, help; if you can't help, just chat and play cards.

Lin Keyin integrated into everyone again, and Annabel seemed to have begun to accept the influence of domestic culture, and was able to insert herself into the women's chats without a word.

Sun Laizi's two women, Gu Se, didn't talk much, but sat firmly among the women, listening to everyone's conversation, while Gu Xiang squatted aside, like a maid, honestly daring not to get involved in the conversation.

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Lao Guitou, the fake bald donkey, had already rolled up his sleeves and started sparring with Ma Laodao. The two of them shouted and had a drink if they lost. They had a great time. It seemed that the dark clouds over their gay relationship had finally cleared away.

, we are good friends now.

Yu Chenglong and Xu Guangqi were sitting on the side, chatting in a more harmonious manner, with low voices, gentle tones, and smiles on their lips.

Only Wang Shuling looked at the crowd from time to time, then at her son, and finally at her husband, still struggling with the issue of moving.

Finally, when the barbecue was all cooked, Yu Fei had a stack of plates at his hand. He lifted the knife and cut the thin slices of barbecue with even thickness and excellent taste. They were placed aside one by one and then brought to the table.

Now that there are more people, when everyone comes back, they divide the tables. Men sit at one table and women sit at another table. The men drink and eat meat, and the women chat in soft voices. It is quite harmonious.

Scar's son Bai Yu was able to come downstairs. Little sister Jin was holding the pink little guy, surrounded by a group of people and women chattering non-stop.

The outside world is changing and the war is still going on. Yu Fei is behind all this. However, when things are over, he goes to hide his merits and fame. When others beat him to the head and bleeds, he ends up fighting with himself.

The people closest to me are sitting together eating barbecue and drinking wine, and they are so happy and joyful.

Yu Fei was not in a hurry to talk about business. He drank a lot of wine with everyone first. After the atmosphere at the wine table became lively, Yu Fei stood up and was ready to solve the important matter that had been delayed for a long time tonight. Moreover, this was not the case.

It's a public matter and everyone's private matter.

"Uncles, aunts, fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, younger brothers, sisters, and my eldest nephew! Everyone, please be quiet!"

Yu Fei held a glass of wine and shouted around with a smile.

Immediately everyone turned their attention and followed the principle of mutual respect. If someone stood up to speak, no matter who it was, everyone else would put down what they were doing. This is basic respect.

"Kekeke..."

Before Yu Fei could say anything, Scar's son Bai Yu, in Little Sister Jin's arms, stared at Yu Fei and started to giggle. The little guy seemed to know that Yu Fei had called him specifically in the end, and was very happy.

"Scar, what should I do if your son disrupts order and disrespects me?"
Chapter completed!