Chapter 1880 moved and sad
Ma Xiaodao is a very contradictory existence. If you say that he was born not long ago and lacks experience, he also possesses all the memories of Ma Xiaodao. This is equivalent to storing the memories and experiences of a person who has lived for fifty or sixty years.
So this is definitely not a person who is easy to fool. If you use ordinary methods in front of him, it will only arouse his disgust and ridicule, so the best method is to be sincere.
But on the other hand, Ma Xiaodao did not absorb enough of Ma Laodao's life memories and experiences. It is like reading a book and only reading the superficial meaning. The real deep understanding does not actually exist.
For many things, people say that empathy does not exist. This is indeed difficult to achieve. Even if he can intuitively see Ma Laodao's memory, he has not personally experienced it or comprehended it personally, so it is still not deep enough.
Therefore, Ma Xiaodao lacks real understanding. In some aspects, he is like a child who has just begun to understand the world and shape his worldview and values.
When children appear to be willful, naughty, and have insufficient self-control, they must be given sufficient patience and tolerance.
Ma Xiaodao must be quite conflicted himself, so he seems tough, but actually he is a little scared and timid inside.
But this does not mean that others can handle it easily. To be honest, the people in the back mountain are all very conflicted and uncomfortable. Now that they have learned some truth bit by bit, everyone is a little confused about how to get along with Ma Laodao and Ma Xiaodao.
Overwhelmed.
If you act too close to Ma Xiaodao, you may feel uncomfortable and make Ma Laodao feel betrayed.
If you act too distant from Ma Xiaodao, you are afraid that Ma Xiaodao will have psychological hatred or resentment, and then do something that is unacceptable to everyone.
This degree is very difficult to grasp, and one wrong move may lead to big disasters, so everyone seems relaxed, but in fact, every word they say is carefully considered.
When faced with this incident, Wang Dachui, who everyone thought was the least intelligent, showed his unparalleled talent and wisdom. Because Wang Dachui chose to remain silent and did not talk about the incident, it was treated as if it had not happened, so
My sense of presence is very low, but I feel most relaxed recently.
However, this method can only be used by Wang Dachui, and others cannot do it, because Wang Dachui made it look very normal. If everyone were like this, then both Ma Laodao and Ma Xiaodao would feel very uncomfortable.
Therefore, Yu Fei's strategy of being a parent made everyone feel a lot more relaxed. At least they dared to say and do what they could, and they knew what to say and what to do. At least there were no restrictions on everyone in terms of showing their true temperament.
Moreover, the original atmosphere in the back mountain is that they have deep feelings for each other. They don’t say it with their mouths, but they show it through their actions.
Now with Yu Fei's initiative, everyone can do some things that they are usually embarrassed to do in front of everyone. On the contrary, it can deepen the relationship between each other and enhance mutual trust.
It has been very difficult for everyone to go from being in chaos at the beginning to everyone being calm now. However, this matter is far from over. It still needs a process to slowly and completely find a balance point, or to solve the problem.
Xiaodao, even thinking about the worst, Ma Xiaodao failed in education, fell out with everyone, and then lost control.
So Yu Fei seems to speak casually, but in fact he is the most careful person, because both Ma Laodao and Ma Xiaodao know that Yu Fei has absolute say in the back mountain.
Yu Fei is also the backbone of everyone. Whether Yu Fei accepts a person or whether Yu Fei wants to do something will affect the judgment and choices of others.
so
Yu Fei was very courageous. He had to stand in front. As everyone's pioneer, he also had to protect everyone and prevent accidents. He also had to mediate and adjust so that possible conflicts could be eliminated invisible.
Therefore, Yu Fei had to take the initiative to stand up, communicate with Ma Xiaodao, and even test each other.
"What you said touched me very much. At least I know that there are still people who care about my existence!"
Ma Xiaodao smiled and nodded. It could be seen that he was quite satisfied with Yu Fei's answer.
"Since you're in such a good mood, would you like to have one?"
Yu Fei wanted to light a second cigarette, and tentatively asked Ma Xiaodao.
"good!"
Ma Xiaodao took it, took out Ma Laodao's lighter and lit it. He had also learned a lot in the past few days, so his smoking posture already looked good.
"We want to be friends and live together. You must understand that first of all, we must eliminate wariness and misunderstandings between each other, and make people feel at ease and dare to be alone with you and dare to trust you. So I think it is better for us to make some things clear.
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Yu Fei saw that the atmosphere was almost tense, so he was ready to talk about the most important thing about coming today.
"okay!"
Ma Xiaodao nodded. He seemed to know that this was bound to happen, so he was mentally prepared.
"Your invisible friend doesn't exist at all, right?"
Yu Fei also spoke frankly. Going around the bush can easily lead to more misunderstandings. Sometimes straightforwardness is the best way to communicate, at least for now.
After listening to Yu Fei's question, Ma Xiaodao looked at Yu Fei blankly, looking a little nervous.
"I can confirm that when you were talking to that so-called friend, there was no one or ghost around you. I don't understand how human beings can exist in this world, so I judge that your so-called friend does not exist.
Is it right?"
Yu Fei refined his words and said to Ma Xiaodao.
"Are you deceiving me?"
Ma Xiaodao squinted at Yu Fei and asked.
"No, I'm not here to trick you, but I'm here to tell you the fact that I have determined that your friend no longer exists."
Yu Fei shook his head. If he didn't think clearly about the scam and was more than 90% sure, he would never do it, because it could easily lead to a breakdown of trust in the early stages of a relationship, or even
Create irreparable emotional rifts.
Yu Fei's affirmation shocked Ma Xiaodao. Because Yu Fei said this, he didn't even have the possibility of retreating. He would either confirm Yu Fei's judgment or lie and continue to maintain his lies.
Ma Xiaodao didn't understand how Yu Fei could make this judgment, especially why Yu Fei concluded that it was not a ghost communicating with him!
Ma Xiaodao was certain that Yu Fei had not asked Ma Laodao this question, and it was useless to ask him, because when Ma Xiaodao appeared, Ma Laodao was asleep, so Ma Laodao used his own powers to make a judgment.
So this means that Yu Fei has other channels and can also see ghosts!
Now that Yu Fei was so sure, Ma Xiaodao could not keep up this lie, but it was not a lie because he was not trying to deceive anyone, nor was he doing it for any ulterior purpose.
"Yes, you are right, but if you want to ask me why I did this, you must first tell me what you relied on to make this judgment!"
Ma Xiaodao finally chose to admit it, but he knew that Yu Fei's biggest doubt was that he wanted to know why he did this, so his answer
The case is still valuable before it is finished, and you can get back some information that interests you.
After all, being able to see people's souls, that is, the ability of ghosts, is the most special part of the body.
Now it seems that someone can do it. Ma Xiaodao wants to know who did it. On the one hand, it will be a precaution in the future. On the other hand, Yu Fei answered this question, which means that Yu Fei is not cheating.
There is still trust between myself and everyone.
"Of course, I advise you to be honest. I will definitely be honest first. Otherwise, wouldn't I be too hypocritical?"
Yu Fei nodded. He had already thought about whether he could tell Ma Xiaodao about this. In the end, he found that it was absolutely possible. Anyway, this answer could deal with Ma Xiaodao, but it didn't reveal anything.
"Okay, I'm all ears!"
Ma Xiaodao nodded.
"Chen Dong told me. He told me that when you talk every night, there are no humans or ghosts around you."
Yu Fei smiled and said to Ma Xiaodao that the pot was thrown out accurately. He completely believed in Chen Dong, so Ma Xiaodao had nothing to say.
Moreover, Ma Xiaodao inherited Ma Laodao's thoughts and choices. He should know the importance and would not casually contact Chen Dong or even question Chen Dong because of this matter.
After all, if he does this, once Chen Dong discovers that Ma Laodao has completely given up his identity as Chen Dong's subordinate, it will be hard to predict how Chen Dong will treat the traitor.
"I see!"
After hearing this answer, Ma Xiaodao had a relieved expression on his face. He immediately felt that it was very reasonable to say this, and there was no need to have any more doubts.
"Okay, it's your turn to answer the questions you guessed and I don't have to ask them!"
Yu Fei crossed his legs. The conversation tonight was very successful and fruitful. He seemed to be in good condition for the time being. Everything was going according to his planned pace, so he was in a very good mood.
"You are still awesome. You didn't say anything. In the end, you asked me to tell you a secret, and I said it willingly!"
Ma Xiaodao looked at Yu Fei with admiration. He understood that he had been tricked by Yu Fei and the arrangements were clear, but he couldn't get angry. Instead, he was a little happy, because Yu Fei acted rationally and did not use any shameful means.
If you were tricked, you got in on your own initiative.
"Hahaha, isn't this the best? It doesn't hurt feelings, and it also enhances feelings and cultivates trust!"
Yu Fei laughed a few times, as long as Ma Xiaodao could understand and accept it.
"Actually, the answer is very simple. On the one hand, I am learning to communicate with people and practice talking to them normally. After all, you can't accept me at the beginning. In order not to appear abrupt, I will practice it myself first, which will help me communicate with you in the future. Secondly,
That is, I want to practice talking to you, so that you may accept me more easily. I will try again and again, what is your favorite topic, what tone do you like, what tone do you like!"
"Am I being humble like this? But I don't think that, although this is the case, I feel that this is the price I have to pay for showing up and living a smooth life!"
Ma Xiaodao looked at the table and said to Yu Fei. At the end, he couldn't help but smile bitterly.
"I'm sorry, to be honest, I really didn't expect you had such a simple purpose, and I didn't expect that we are so important in your mind!"
Chapter completed!