When talking about children, it always brings the distance between the two sides closer. Chang Lei and Yao Li's son is eight years old and is in the third grade of elementary school. Lu Ya is finally pregnant and is about to be a mother, so the topic quickly deviates and comes straight to Sha Zhengyang.

Sha Zhengyang didn't expect to be trapped in his own cocoon. This topic was eventually stuck on his own. His marriage issues touched countless people's hearts.

"Dear brothers and sisters, I know the importance of this matter, but this relationship and marriage have to be destined to be together, right?" Sha Zhengyang could only raise his hand to beg for forgiveness. "I admit that there are indeed one or two women around me who seem to be more in love with me, but the relationship cannot be generalized. Once it reaches the level of marriage, it will be a lifelong thing. I believe you don't want to see me get married this year and get divorced next year, right?"

"Zhengyang, I don't believe that no one comes to you with such excellent conditions. You are afraid you are confused, right?" Fei Lu was the first to believe that one or two girls? I'm afraid that there are about 10 or 20 girls. The youngest department-level cadre in the province has an unlimited future. Not to mention Wanzhou, I'm afraid that many leaders with daughters at home have to make this idea.

"No, really, Teacher Fei, you know that I have a lot of trouble now. I have been on business trips for a long time and have no intention of thinking about these things. Even some friends who used to be in contact with me are now unfamiliar. I am thinking about whether this will neglect my original circle of friends for a few years and even have no friends anymore." Sha Zhengyang said half-truely.

"No matter how busy you work, you still have to consider personal issues. Zhengyang, you are 28 years old, not young anymore. I have Jinglei at your age."

Bei Yihe was very calm today and didn't say much, but his words seemed to be more important.

Being the deputy secretary of the county party committee has indeed changed a lot. From doing theoretical research as the main focus, it suddenly went to the county to get involved in practical work, which is very helpful for a person's growth.

Sha Zhengyang raised his head slightly, as if he was seriously considering this issue.

In fact, although there are many women around me, very few are truly suitable.

Gu Mei was originally the most suitable one, but since something happened at her family, the possibility has been infinitely close to zero.

As Gu Mei, who was studying for the postgraduate entrance examination in Yanjing, wrote to herself in a letter, if she did not develop in the political circle, it might not have a big impact. But now her father is notorious. Although she entrusted the Lan family to deal with this matter, basically cutting off the debt problem, Gu Zecheng's reputation has become stinky in Jiazhou and Handu, and more importantly, Gu Zecheng is also addicted to drugs.

Although he has been sent to a drug rehabilitation center now, no one can tell what will happen to Gu Zecheng, a guy who has lost his will.

If Gu Mei is not suitable, then the only thing left seems to be Qing Ruoha is more feasible.

Qing Ruoli has a good personality and her hobbies are similar to Sha Zhengyang. Everyone is quite interested in literature. Moreover, Qing Ruoli's family comes from a scholarly family and can be regarded as a typical small family. If she forms a family with her, there will be no other possible interference.

The problem is that Sha Zhengyang feels that he and Qing Ruoli always feel that he is not satisfied with his lover. He is very tacit and very close, but lacks a little passion. Well, I don’t know if he didn’t touch it, or if Qing Ruoli always gives him that pitiful taste, making him look more like a big bad wolf when facing the other person, facing the little white rabbit, and it’s difficult to get started, which is a bit embarrassing.

If there is anyone else except Gu Mei and Qing Ruoha? Ning Yuechan or Ji Meifu?

There are more or less problems of one kind. I'm afraid she can't pass that level herself, but Ji Meifu and Sha Zhengyang think that perhaps this woman is the woman who best suits her aesthetic view, but if she wants to reach the point of marriage, it seems that something is missing.

Qian Xuan? That's purely a friend at work, and there's no way to talk about that.

After all the calculations, Sha Zhengyang found that if he put aside some unhealthy factors, Sun Yan was the most suitable marriage partner for him.

This is too absurd.

Seeing that Sha Zhengyang was unwilling to talk more about his personal issues, Bei Yihe also took the initiative to change the topic. Everyone is adults. Some topics are good for each other as friends, so they can raise them and urge them, but if you have to study them too deeply, it is not appropriate.

After lunch, Lu Ya left first, Yao Li and Chang Lei and his wife also returned to their homes, but Sha Zhengyang stayed.

"Yucheng's situation is not very good, I feel the pressure is still a bit heavy." Only the couple and Sha Zhengyang were left, and Bei Yihe didn't have so many concerns. "Overall, I feel that there is a lack of vitality and stamina, no reasonable industrial development plan, and it is scattered."

Sha Zhengyang roughly understands the situation in Yucheng. It has a large population and only some enterprises that have primary processing of agricultural products in the industry. Generally speaking, they all seem very moderate and have no characteristics. The county leadership team is the same as the characteristics of this county. It is mediocre. Bei Yihe is responsible for economic work from the city to the county, and is inevitably under pressure.

Wanzhou is really too big, and the inertial thinking formed over the years has made Wanzhou always move at a pace of step by step, and is very strong in seeking stability and not changing.

Lin Chunming spent three or four years in Wanzhou, and he could only say that he had made some targeted adjustments. The development of some districts and counties has shown great momentum, such as the Economic and Technological Development Zone, Zhenyang and Xiangcheng, Wanyang and Beixi, and the situation in Dongxia has also improved. However, the situation in some districts and counties is still the same and unsatisfactory. For example, the situation in districts and counties such as Longling, Yucheng, Daye, Danzhen, Linhe, and Shandu is not very good. Or the improvement is not big.

After all, three or four years is too short, and after Feng Shizhang took over, it turned out that Lin Chunming had finally activated the situation of seeking change and innovation slowed down. Of course, this slowdown is not obvious, and even those who are in it may not be able to feel it. Only those who pay more attention to this aspect and observe more carefully can understand it.

Yucheng can be regarded as a typical example of this group of people who have not changed much. The entire county party committee and county government team has not changed much. Bei Yihe cannot turn the whole situation around alone. Besides, he is just a four-in-command or an outsider. This situation is even more unlikely to change much. Sometimes when he talks too much, his attitude is too radical, but he will be subject to some obvious or secret resistance and exclusion. This also makes Bei Yihe deeply realize how difficult it is to achieve something in a team group.

So Bei Yihe has always wanted to gain some experience from Sha Zhengyang, which is how to better play a role in a group and do something. On this issue, he even sincerely hopes that Sha Zhengyang can give him some help and advice.

Sha Zhengyang doesn’t have many good ideas about this. The situation in every place is not consistent, and it depends on the person, place and event.

"Old Bei, this kind of thing cannot be determined by all. I have a rough understanding of the situation in Yucheng. If you are in your position, doing too much may cause some disgust and criticism. If you don't do it, it will become a waste of such an opportunity. But I personally think that in your position as the deputy secretary in charge of economic work, you can actually make plans for one person, one thing, and you don't have to be greedy for big things and want to do too many things. You can analyze specific issues in detail, for example, you can analyze what important tasks are currently in your county, which major projects, or even which small and medium-sized projects, which one or several major leaders are more recognized, which one or several leaders in charge are very caring and supportive, then you will evaluate and focus on one or two that can get more support from more aspects, and make it... "

Bei Yihe was at least considered a person who came out with him. Of course, Sha Zhengyang didn't want to see the other party delaying quietly in the pool of Yucheng for a few years. His position is very awkward. He can't do anything mediocre or overshadow the main point. Then you must make some strategy.

"..., in short, seek common ground while reserving differences, and obtain the support of all parties to the greatest extent. If you really can't do it, then you must also make the support and approval of your efforts dominate, so that you can take advantage of the situation and achieve success..."

Bei Yihe listened very seriously. Although Sha Zhengyang is more than ten or twenty years younger than him, he is much better than him in terms of grassroots work experience. He is working in full swing in the Economic and Technological Development Zone and Zhenyang County. Of course, he is in different positions and different methods, but at least he can be used as a reference.

"Zhengyang, Yucheng's industrial development is very unscientific. I plan to focus on one or two industries in detail, but the two main leaders are not very consistent in their views, so they are also quarrels..." Bei Yihe seemed to be a little exhausted by this trouble in the county.

"This kind of thing is inevitable. If the two main leaders' views are too different and there is no stalemate, I suggest that you choose one project in their opinions to promote operations and convince people with results. Of course, you must fully use the role of the leader in charge. The deputy county magistrate in charge of industry in your county should make good use of it. You set the strategy and he will implement it in detail. You can give full play to his subjective initiative in some issues. Don't think that he will steal your limelight. If you use this aspect well, you will find that there is actually a lot of room for maneuver... In short, you will definitely do it better than not doing it well. There are controversial and criticism in your work, and it is much better than silent!"
Chapter completed!