Chapter 145 Pride Covers Inferiority
Those who follow Ling Junsheng are all top collectors, with a literary character, truly love collection and culture, and are utilitarian and have a weak heart. They are worthy of close friends.
Ling Junsheng picked up a collection of poems on the table and said curiously: "Is this a new collection of poems from Yao Ling?"
"Oh, it's hard to describe it!" When talking about her daughter, Gao Lingmei instantly felt sad and said helplessly: "She is upstairs, never leaving the house all day, and she eats in the house. It's hard for us to see her once!"
"What's going on?" Ling Jun said in surprise: "Are you sick?"
"If you get sick, you can still be cured, but unfortunately you are mentally ill!" Gao Lingmei said heartbrokenly: "I don't know when the girl has become taciturn and has less and less social interactions, and basically cut off all contacts from the outside world. I have seen a doctor and it is said that she has depression, has long-term development and even has a tendency to commit suicide, which scares us..."
Wen Yiming and Ling Tiancheng looked at each other and lamented why the rich second generation had mental illnesses? He took the collection of poems from the old man and read a few chapters briefly, with literary style and sentimentality.
Ling Junsheng looked at Wen Yiming and introduced, "I haven't officially introduced you yet. This is Mr. Wen, Master Xiangdao, and his methods are amazing. Why don't you let him try?"
"Incense Dao...Master?" Gao Lingmei stared at Wen Yiming incredibly. She originally thought it was a relative of the Ling family and didn't take it seriously. Ling Junsheng's words made him feel a little moved.
Wen Yiming stood up, picked up the messy box, and chuckled, "How can Mr. Gao rest assured? Let Wen give him a try. It's not a treatment. It's just a matter of asking a thousand gold medals to give him an incense."
Gao Lingmei nodded, and was a living horse. A person who could be so respected by Ling Junsheng must have some skills. Please go to the study room first to prepare and go upstairs to let his daughter meet the guests.
As soon as Gao Yaoling entered the door, she frowned involuntarily. What joke was she? His father wanted to meet the incense Taoist master by himself?
Wen Yiming smiled and walked to the opposite side of Gao Yaoling, sat down, and explained easily: "Old Gao cares about you very much. Let me talk to you. I heard that you like writing poetry?"
Gao Yaoling sighed, a hint of loneliness flashed across her pale and elegant face, and her weak body leaned gently on the back of the chair, frowned slightly, and nodded.
Wen Yiming looked at the so-called female poet opposite him, looking like Lin Daiyu, and it seemed that he was really sick!
"I just read the poems you wrote. They are very literary and artistic. Are they a bit too pessimistic?"
"Pessimistic?" Gao Yaoling raised his eyebrows and said disdain in his eyes: "Life is a process that has long been destined to a good destination. How about pessimism? So what about optimism?"
Seeing myself, Wen Yiming was even more sure of his speculation. Gao Yaoling had a rich family and had a scholarly family. He liked poetry since he was a child. He also published several physical books and was a standard female writer of literary and artistic works.
I didn't leave my house for two years, locked myself in my room and watched some tragic dramas. No matter how my family persuaded me, I didn't want to get in touch with society, and my autism index was very high.
My health is getting worse and worse, my diet is not normal, and I don’t exercise. I am in a state of illness and illness. I can feel sad when I see anything, just like Lin Daiyu in Dream of Red Mansions. I can even feel sad when I see fallen leaves!
There are already signs of mild depression. If it cannot be corrected as soon as possible, the condition will soon worsen and you will be unable to extricate yourself.
Intellectuals love face and claim to be aloof. She has been in a state of self-set for a long time and is very resistant to the outside world and is unwilling to accept change from the bottom of her heart!
How to find a suitable topic to open up the situation?
"Do you know how to view the characteristics of Lin Daiyu in psychology?"
Gao Yaoling was stunned. The topic of strange men obviously aroused her interest. Wen Yiming deliberately sneered and said disdainfully: "In my opinion, the so-called Lin Daiyu is a lively weak person! A poor man who can only live the world he imagines!"
"you……"
Wen Yiming rudely interrupted Gao Yaoling and continued to state: "Lin Daiyu is narcissistic because of inferiority, and is inferior because of narcissism. This kind of narcissism is not simply loving herself, but a transfer that cannot be resolved by the inferiority complex. Her narcissism is a kind of self-dependence developed on the basis of inferiority."
"Although Lin Daiyu is frank and straightforward and unscrupulous, she often speaks sarcastic, arrogant, narrow-minded, suspicious, and often makes her temperament frequently because of Baoyu. Her mood is in a low state for a long time and she cries all day long. Her bad mood, which is in depression and sad for a long time, is harmful to her health. She often crys for no reason and sulks about some trivial matters. After learning that Baoyu is engaged, she even has the intention to commit suicide."
"This is the tragic personality trait of typical psychology!"
Gao Yaoling was stunned. She liked Lin Daiyu very much. Every time she watched Dream of Red Mansions, she resonated with her. She felt that she was the modern version of Lin Daiyu, born at the wrong time and was sentimental.
Today I am the first time I heard someone analyze his idol from a psychological perspective. Although it is a bit harsh, it is also the truth. I really can't think of a reason to refute it for a while.
Wen Yiming saw Gao Yaoling straightening his body, with a focused expression, and a gesture of refuting the battle. This is the effect he wants. He is not afraid of you being excited, but afraid that you will not react.
"Psychologist Adler called it the inferiority complex. This word mainly has two meanings. First, the inferiority complex refers to a complex emotion composed of a person's subconscious desire and emotion that thinks that he or his environment is not as good as others, and his subconscious desire and emotion; secondly, this complex refers to the cultural ornamental role formed by a person's inability or unwillingness to struggle. Behind the cultural ornamental role is inferiority complex."
"Lin Daiyu has been weak and sick since childhood, and is a difficult and complicated type. Therefore, her inferiority complex should have originated from childhood and is richer than healthy children."
"From psychology, temperament is innate and has a lot to do with heredity, so Lin Daiyu's inferiority complex is caused by congenital depression temperament, poor health, and the acquired relationship with her parents and she is dependent on others."
Looking at Gao Yaoling's thoughtful look, Wen Yiming continued to analyze deeply: "Although Lin Daiyu is inferior, she is unwilling to take a positive approach to change her situation, but uses narcissism to divert the tension caused by inferiority."
"Experiences in modern psychology show that narcissism has different degrees of existence in everyone, and it is even more serious in girls, especially those with smart, beautiful and talented ones."
"People with this narcissistic personality have difficulty interacting with others, which can easily cause dissonance in interpersonal relationships, put an unpleasant shadow on themselves and others' lives, and directly affect their physical and mental health. Lin Daiyu is a beautiful girl with a poetic temperament, which is also the reason why she can be narcissistic."
Wen Yiming's words digged Gao Yaoling's defense like a sharp knife. It seemed to be talking about Lin Daiyu, but in fact it was talking about herself!
Chapter completed!