【Men who are afraid of marriage】

Hawaii sat on the sofa in anger and said furiously: "My boyfriend and I have been together for almost five years. We have been together for five years. We should have been talking about marriage. I saw that he had not spoken, so he took the initiative to propose whether to get married today. But not only did he not agree at once, he told me that he was under great pressure and was not ready yet, and needed to consider it again... Oh my God, what's the point of considering this? I'm not young anymore. If I don't get married and have children, it would be too late."

If procrastination theory can indeed test a man's patience, then it will also easily waste a woman's youth.

Women can wait until they are familiar with a piece of clothing before wearing it, but we are determined not to allow a piece of clothing to be worn and left the street only to find that it is not suitable for us.

Yoon Eun-hye looked at Hawaii and expressed her own point of view: "Maybe he just cared too much about your relationship and needed to judge the situation before he could draw a conclusion. I think you should respect him and give him time to consider it."

"Enhui, don't you understand? It's like a new employee who can finally be transferred to a full-time job after various trainings. But he told you, I'm sorry, I'll see if I can do things well for another month of internship. This 80% is to tell you that he doesn't want to work here."

"But marriage is not like work. He really needs two people to work together for a long time to determine whether they can get together."

"But we have been working together for almost five years. Five years!"

"Can't you calm down and talk about this? Why did you make everyone unhappy?" Yoon Eun-hye said to Hawaii in a gentle tone.

"It's not a question of whether you are happy or not. Now it's a question of whether you want to get married."

marry?

Is the purpose of a woman falling in love for marriage?

Does a woman buy a piece of clothing for those specific festivals?

This idea is outdated. Yoon Eun Hye believes that buying clothes is to buy them according to her daily mood and wear them in the style she wants to wear - it's just to have a relationship.

Let’s talk about marriage slowly! Yes, Yoon Eun-hye also has the habit of procrastination when it comes to marriage!

Yoon Eun Hye continued, “Then what is your ultimate goal? Is it marriage?”

"My goal is not just to get married. If marriage is my ultimate goal, it will be very easy to do! I told you before that there are 51 million single men in China, and there are no fewer men who want to get married, so you can easily get one to marry me. However, my boyfriend and I fell in love with each other, so I naturally think that spring sowing and autumn harvest are a necessary process. Since we have been in love for five years, marriage is actually not a big deal!"

"Since it's not a big deal, why are you anxious about?"

Only then did Hawaii feel that marriage is really a very contradictory topic. It is really not a big deal in her heart, but in her concept, marriage seems to be the standard for verifying whether love is qualified.

It's like a diploma, it can't determine whether the employees she interviews have the professional abilities they need, but if they don't even have a diploma, it sounds doubtful even if the interviewer says he has the eighteen martial arts skills to outweigh the heroes.

She is now beginning to suspect that her boyfriend, whom she has loved for five years, is fake intimate and love with her, because now he is afraid of getting married!

Hawaii is silent.

Yoon Eun-hye made hot tea for her to relieve her irritable mood. At this time, Yoon Eun-hye’s cell phone lit up. It was a photo sent by Xiao Yong. This is the view of Highway 1 Pacific Ocean. The caption is: When you have the chance, I will definitely bring you here.

Yoon Eun Hye replied: OK.

Yoon Eun Hye sat down and poured tea for Hawaii. After she took a sip of lavender tea, she felt relieved: "What's going on with your handsome classmate today?"

"He might just want me to take care of his business. He will come downstairs to pick me up tomorrow morning. Besides, he is already married, and the children are now 5 years old."

"Ah? I got married so early? Look at this man, he is so angry that he is more popular than others. What is he hesitating about his boyfriend? My daughter's family shamelessly mentioned marriage to him. He is not clear about the style and pretending to behave. Thinking about it, I am almost angry!"

Because this happened to Hawaii, Yoon Eun-hye put this question on her personal public subscription account: Is marriageable age really that important?

Women's answers are endless:

——"If you don't feel it, don't force it. Life is already tiring enough. Do you still need to add a stranger to your own home to make things difficult?"

——"Either pay attention or settle."

——"Boys’ family background is very important. Do you have to get married with an only child with better family conditions?

Boys’ character is very important. Do you have to find a mature and humorous person who cares about others and cares about the family to get married?

Men's ability is very important. Do you have to find someone with an annual salary of at least 100,000 yuan to get married?

Men's appearance is very important. Do you have to marry someone above 175 or above who cannot be too fat?

A man’s personality is very important. Do you have to find someone who is humorous and not too boring to get married?”

Let’s look at the men’s answers, which made me even more stunned:

——"The last relationship left a big shadow on me, and I need some time to calm down."

——"Give me one or two years, I want to create better living conditions and marry her again."

——"People will feel scared of boring life, let alone men. Many of us firmly believe that if we get married, we can only maintain the marriage for a lifetime by constantly creating freshness, otherwise this day will be too monotonous."

——"When men want a family, they will want a child, because like women, we think that families with children will be complete. But most men will not easily make plans to get married before they are sure that they want to be fathers, because we are unable to make a lifelong commitment before finding the direction of life."

——"I can't understand women's obsession with weddings. I think marriage is just a form. And I think marriage is not a good thing. Oh my god, think about it, the child's shit and peeing are even more unsightly. It can be said that I am not optimistic about marriage and do not have any fantasies about marriage. And my idea is difficult to change - well, this may very likely come from my not-so-good childhood."

——"I am a person with a strong sense of career. I personally think that I must have a career first to have a family. I hope to talk about marriage after gaining a sense of occupational security and a certain economic foundation. Therefore, unless I have done something, I will not talk about marriage too early.”

——"I am very worried that the arrival of marriage will hinder my dreams, so I will not get married until my dreams are finally realized. Even if my friends around me get married and buy a house, I still think that pursuing career goals is more important. This is a psychological problem for me, and it is difficult to break them."

——"I will never get tired of doing love. What I get tired of is having sex with the same person. Love and marriage makes me most afraid of is that I will never sleep with other women in the future. She may be my favorite, but I have this idea, so I will not mention marriage with her. I hate the unchanging sex."

——"I am afraid that after marriage, my partner will enter menopause. And I heard from the married brothers that women will become scary after marriage and no longer cute. Such pessimism will affect my determination to propose, and I am afraid of marrying a tigress home."

These are the reasons why men are reluctant to get married, and almost most men suffer from "marriage procrastination"!

Some men are willing to fall in love with you for ten years but are reluctant to enter the marriage hall; some men live with you like a couple, but they still refuse the proof of the Civil Affairs Bureau.
Chapter completed!