This generation (98)
What I fear most about knowledge is to let it graft one-sidedly according to their own understanding.
The Fourth Master and Lin Yutong thought that the child was just listening to a Yin Er program, but they did not expect that she digested those things according to her understanding and completed the integration and even integration within the scope of her own knowledge. This was not the original intention of asking her to read the animal world at the beginning.
Didn’t it be to teach children to pronounce it at first? Whether it is the y-TV version of the animal world or the entirely English version of the animal world documentary abroad, it can be regarded as a model in terms of pronunciation. Tongtong thinks watching this is a matter of killing a few things at once. Sometimes the child plays it and plays this on TV. It doesn’t matter whether he or not hesitates to listen to it, and he will be filled with ear sounds.
Then her perception became a little strange.
The joy of raising children is here. What is their small world like? It is actually difficult for adults to capture. Sometimes when adults render a stroke a little more intensely, her cognition will be a little bit deviated during a period. But what is amazing is that the deviations of each child are different.
Then you have to correct her bit by bit. It is not possible to deny it completely or force it. Children with ideas are very stubborn in self-cognition. Especially children who can be logically self-consistent, according to her theory and logic, they are more sensible than adults.
Fourth Master and Tongtong started buying a lot of children's psychology books and put them next to their pillows. People who think they are not new parents will still encounter problems of being caught off guard when facing their children.
It just so happened that Lin Yutong was writing the story of that year again. Instead of using herself and the Fourth Master as the protagonist, she chose the couple who had a big red quilt as a wedding dress. She couldn't help but talk about raising a child at that time, "Is it hard? It's not hard at all!"
The Fourth Master said, "Have you noticed that the old saying "One Son is hard to teach" actually makes sense."
It is difficult to burn alone, and it is difficult to teach alone. Sometimes this is not because of pampering or other things, but because of a living atmosphere and environment?
Can't explain clearly.
But Lin Yutong didn't just hide in the study and write. She began to pay more attention to her when her child was playing games.
On this day, she and Yan Yan were fighting with cards. The cards were all kinds of animals, with Chinese and English on them, which helped children to read. Moreover, she had several sets of such cards, which were given by people as small gifts when buying toys or clothes.
Now they are all mixed together, and the two children have picked something from it.
Doudou picked all the wolves, and picked out all the wolves in the trap. The pattern last time there was a bigger wolf, and there were also smaller cases. Yan Yan picked pandas, rabbits, dogs, leopards and other messy things. That's good.
Doudou also advised Yan Yan: "You can't, they will fight by themselves. You have to choose the same one, it's a family." She also showed Yan Yan to Yan, "I am a wolf father, this is a wolf mother, this is a wolf baby. This is uncle wolf, this is uncle wolf..."
"Uncle Wolf will also fight with Dad Wolf!"
"Yes! So we can't provoke the authority of the wolf father. We must make everyone think that the wolf father is the most powerful! The wolf father is powerful, and will protect the wolf mother and the wolf baby, otherwise the wolf mother and the wolf baby will be eaten by others! It is also possible that they will be driven away by Uncle Wolf and Uncle Wolf... Then the wolf mother and the wolf baby will be bullied! There is no food to eat yet!"
Therefore, the father is the wolf father who must maintain authority to ensure that his wife and children are not bullied by inside and outside the family.
Yan Yan’s perception is, “Rabbit can also be neighbors with Leopard Brother…”
“It will be eaten!”
"Brother Leopard doesn't know how to eat rabbit sister!"
"Yes!"
Then he made Yan Yan cry.
Jindoudou: "..." The leopard will eat rabbits! "Okay! OK! Then this leopard is just a leopard brother, so she won't eat rabbit sister."
But she did not coax Yan Yan back. She was so sad. In the cartoon, the big animal family, wouldn’t it be good for everyone to be together happily?
Jindoudou: "..." This is the law of nature! Why do you cry?
She had to compromise again, not to the wolf family, and picked some birds and insects, "Come on, come on! I'll play with you."
Yan Yan was having fun, but Jin Doudou was not having fun.
Lin Yutong didn't say anything, but looked silently. When Xiaochun came, she and her uncle looked at the textbooks for the senior class in the living room, that is, the textbooks for the primary school transition classes, and there were pictures to write.
His uncle asked her to look at the pictures and said that she didn't need to write, just say in your words.
The first picture shows a white chick and a black chick walking on the grass by the lake. The second picture shows a white chick falling into the river. The third picture shows a puppy running over, and the fourth picture shows a puppy getting into the water with a little white chicken in her mouth, and the little black chicken flapping its wings on the shore.
According to normal logic, this should be two little chickens walking on the grass by the lake. The little white chicken accidentally fell into the river. The black chicken was shouting for help. Then the puppy heard it and ran to save the little white chicken. The little black chicken applauded on the shore and wanted to thank him.
When he arrived at Jindoudou's mouth, the story was as follows: "The little black chicken and the little white chicken went to the river to find food, but there were not many insects, not enough for two chickens to eat. So the little black chicken pushed the little white chicken into the river... Then the puppy ran over, and it was very hungry and came to forage. But it couldn't catch up with the little black chicken still on the shore, so it aimed at the little white chicken in the river, so it went into the water to pick up the little white chicken and planned to eat it. The little black chicken saw that the puppy had gone ashore, and was afraid that it would want to eat it, so it flapped its wings and wanted to run away quickly!"
Xiaochun: "..." If you look at the corresponding story of the picture, you can't say that you are wrong! But it's just something weird!
Lin Yutong came out of the kitchen, coughed gently, and did not ask Xiaochun to refute the child.
That's it!
When the Fourth Master came back, she solemnly said to the Fourth Master, "After I submit my manuscript in September, we will take the child out for a walk when we have a month left."
Which way to go?
Lin Yutong pointed outside, "Isn't there a pumpkin carriage? That's it! Riding that thing, wander around!"
Eat in the wild and live in the wild. Just try it out!
Fourth Master: "..." Your educational method is unique!
OK! I haven't tried it yet. Then let it be!
But before, the Fourth Master had to prepare! This car needs to be modified, and various maintenance tools have to be brought with me. The seats have been modified, and the air cylinder and tire repair items are included. There is also a ceiling. What if it rains? The weather has changed, you have to shelter from the wind and rain.
After that, you have to bring the tent, and the guy who cooks outdoors must prepare some. She went there with an order, and she was just dead. She was very busy during this period.
At the end of August, I signed up for the child. As soon as the money was paid, I asked the teacher for a month's leave. I told Su Huan and his family that "The crew on Xu An is about to start working, and it will take a while to let the child see the world."
Very good! No one stops me.
Xiaochun knew that the car had been renovated, but he didn't know what the renovated thing was for. Sister Fang was given a paid month holiday and could rest. After a few days, just clean the house.
Then on September 1st, it was five o'clock in the morning, and it was not dawn. Jindoudou was dug out of the quilt by his mother and traveled.
Excited?
So excited!
Sitting in the car with my mother, my father was riding the car, which was already dark and left the busy city. My father didn't walk on such a wide road, but followed the path forward.
"Where are we going?" She looked around, "Go to the mountains?"
"Yes!" Lin Yutong hugged her and pointed to the distance, "Did you see it? That mountain is the target. We spend seven days to get to that mountain, and then stay on the mountain for half a month before returning. OK?"
OK! OK! OK!
After the excitement at first, she found that it was a little different. When she rode a bicycle, her father and mother had to change it. It was not that her father could take them to the ends of the world all the time. When her father was tired and couldn't ride it, she had to sit on and change it to her mother.
It was actually very hot in September. My father was sweating, and my mother was sweating. When I passed by a village, there was a freezer outside, and there must be ice cream inside and there was a cold drink. She shouted, "Mom, take a break, ask Dad to buy drinks."
But my father took out a few tickets, "This is our monthly living expenses. Are you sure you want to buy drinks?" He gave her the money, "Doudou is the head of the family. If you say you buy it, buy it, and if you don't buy it, don't buy it."
Doudou's eyes widened, "Then where will we eat?"
"Mom has brought the pot."
Doudou blinked, "Mom cooks?"
Yes!
Lin Yutong suddenly realized a problem. She rarely cooked at home. Because she had Sister Fang, Sister Fang did a good job. In the children's memory, there was no mother's figure in the housework.
When it comes to work, the child has no intuitive impression of his mother's work. Anyway, the mother is at home every day, knocking and hitting the computer. But his father has to go out to work every day!
Therefore, in her perception, she had a blind spot for her mother.
At this moment, the child agreed to make the mother cook.
I won’t go far, the entrance of this village is pretty good. If the car is parked next to me, I have to communicate with the people in the convenience store. Anyway, it will occupy the place next to your house and we will cook a meal.
The person who looked at the shop was an aunt, and she smiled kindly at the couple who looked like a city man, "The firewood is right next to you, you can take it yourself."
Then Doudou saw his father building a stove and his mother went to carry firewood. He took out the pot and pot and had to borrow water from someone else's house. After that, he boiled the water and poured it into the thermos pot, and then used the pot to suffocate the rice.
It was always my mother who directed my father, "I smoked two pieces of firewood, the fire was too big..."
Then Dad did as he did.
Chapter completed!