Chapter 5. It is not easy for those who change
With a new writing direction, Li Xuanji can be said to have thoughts flowing like a spring, and his writing status is surprisingly good.
However, this rare state did not last long.
"Have a meal!"
The familiar voice sounded again, and of course, at the dinner table, there was no surprise that there was subsequent nagging.
"...I'm not here yet? I've been playing below for an afternoon, and now I'm pretending to show you?"
"...Sleep during the day and get late at night until midnight, and the electricity bill this month is several hundred more!"
"What are you doing in the mahjong room? Is that where you go..."
"What should I do? My neighbors ask you what you are doing now, but I have no shame to say..."
Li Xuanji at the dinner table said nothing, sighing in his heart, suppressing his emotions.
In the end, Li's father couldn't help but interrupt and said angrily: "Can you say less than a few words?"
Yu Guifen rolled her eyes and said, "Okay, okay, I don't have a status at home anyway, so I can't stop talking..."
However, not long after, Yu Guifen spoke: "Li Xuanji, after dinner, you can wash dishes, and then mop the floor at home, and wash your own clothes by yourself in the future. Such a big man has no ability to take care of himself, so he will do his own things in the future."
Li Xuanji put down the bowls and chopsticks helplessly, looked at his mother with an expressionless face, and his heart was uneasy.
Since he went to college until he resigned from the provincial capital three months ago and went home, he has been living alone. If he does not have the ability to take care of himself, can he survive until now?
As for now, he usually does washing dishes and mopping the floor and other things at home. He does not wash his clothes himself, but he puts them in the washing machine with his parents' clothes. If he follows his mother's wishes, wouldn't he say he would take them out separately and wash them separately in the washing machine?
As for this!
As for a mother, does she dislike her own son in every way?
"See what I do!"
Yu Guifen was uncomfortable being stared at by her son's eyes. She glanced at Li's father. Seeing that the other party lowered his head and did not express his opinion again, she knew that her husband had acquiesced to his words, so she glared at him as if she was arrogant and asked, "Am I wrong?"
After Li Xuanji looked at him for a while, the anger and grievance that was about to burst in his heart suddenly disappeared, and he smiled and said, "Well, you're right."
Without expectations, there will be no disappointment, and naturally there will be no need to be angry again.
If it was in the past, Li Xuanji, who didn't understand why his mother treated him like this and expected normal maternal love, would have exploded on the spot. But now, through his face, he already knew the other party's personality. Being angry is a waste of emotions, and it is his own problem.
The so-called personality may be due to its innate nature, or it may be due to educational experience, living environment, and social pressure from childhood to adulthood. Anyway, some people are just tricky and mean, they are disliked by all kinds of people, and they like to spread rumors.
You may not like these people, but you must understand them, because their nature is difficult to change. Since you cannot change them, you can only accept and stay away from them, otherwise you will be the one who will be hurt in the end.
After understanding these, Li Xuanji's mentality became much calmer and he could objectively and rationally analyze the causes and consequences of the whole thing.
At first, my mother felt that her son had no future and she was embarrassed, and she couldn't help but complain, but she ended up causing her husband to scold him in front of her son, so she felt that the insult and infringement of her dignity was even more shameless.
Then the more I thought about it, the more angry I became. I thought that I had worked hard at home for so many years, and felt even more wronged and unbalanced, but I didn't dare to contradict my husband, so I took advantage of the situation and took revenge on my son with high-sounding but actually ridiculous reasons.
In fact, all three parties have responsibilities for the whole thing: the son is unpromising, the father has a bad temper, and the mother... it's better not to mention it.
But no matter what, Li Xuanji feels that even if there are any conflicts or opinions between each other, the way of communication should not be like this.
If your son is not successful, can you encourage him more than keep harsh words and sarcastic?
My wife complained endlessly. Can my husband persuade him to speak kindly and reconcile him instead of suddenly stopping his mouth?
When the husband's temper is rising, can the wife stop when she sees good things and stop when she is enough, instead of chasing her hard and getting more and more flawed?
Maybe every family has a difficult sutra...
Inadvertently, Li Xuanji suddenly thought about his family situation and had a little insight into the human nature.
He didn't think so much in the past. Now, perhaps because of the system, he mastered some physiognomy knowledge and did system tasks for the whole afternoon, so he unconsciously got a little occupational disease, and even his family couldn't help but analyze it.
By the way, during the meal, Li Xuanji secretly observed his father's nose. According to facial theory, it is a lion's nose.
The lion's nose has a mountain root, a small and flat life, a correct nose, blue platform, and a large Tingwei, similar to the Fuji rhinoceros nose and low.
Most of them are rich, but sometimes they are just a false reputation.
This conclusion is indeed more in line with my father's current situation.
My father Li Di'an was originally a section-level cadre in a large state-owned enterprise and the head of the unit department. He went into business 10 years ago and became the deputy general manager of a real estate private enterprise. During this period, he changed several private enterprises and is still the deputy general manager of a certain company.
Don’t think that the vice president has a high income. In fact, he is just a senior working person. At present, the family’s financial conditions are less than the best and less than the lower, and it has nothing to do with the word “wealth and honor”. The neighbors all think that the Li family is very rich, but the actual situation is more appropriate to describe it as “just a false reputation”.
Otherwise, no matter how unreliable his son is, Yu Guifen would not complain so much all day long. Many negative emotions are caused by life pressure.
After dinner, washing dishes and mopping the floor, and completing my mother's task requirements, Li Xuanji came to the bathroom and observed his nose in the mirror.
Unfortunately, perhaps because of heredity, my nose is also in the form of a lion's nose.
It seems that there is no hope of being rich and powerful in this life...
However, Li Xuanji was not discouraged. He was in such a loser state now. If he could only gain a reputation in the future, he would have made a profit!
He is actually a very optimistic person, at least he still maintains an optimistic spirit in this life, otherwise he would not be so young, because only those who have been pessimistic for a long time will age quickly.
So Li Xuanji was not only not discouraged, but also enhanced his confidence. I wonder if this is another mentality of giving up.
Perhaps because he noticed that Li Xuanji's mentality was not right, the system couldn't help but emerge.
System of all realms: The host currently has only 103 days of life, so it is recommended to consider survival issues first and then talk about other things. Also: the so-called doctors do not treat themselves, and the easy ones do not change themselves. The host's future destiny is completely in his own hands. All appearances, arts and metaphysics are not applicable to the host, and I hope the host will know it.
Li Xuanji's eyes lit up: "Uh, that is to say...even if my nose grows like this, I can still be rich and powerful in the future?"
All realms systems: they may also be poor and destitute, die and disappear.
What are you cursing me? Can you still speak well?
No wonder the system collapses at any time, it turns out that it is too pessimistic!
"Since the Yi person is not easy, my fate is up to me, not to God..."
Li Xuanji, who was originally a little depressed by his mother, regained his energy and started his writing work today.
Taking advantage of the inspiration, Li Xuanji first wrote a few chapters of his experience today to save manuscripts, and then began to rack his brains to copy the old books.
Perhaps because of his eagerness to open a new book, Li Xuanji significantly accelerated the pace of the plot of the old book, and this way he wrote it smoothly.
However, despite this, it was not until three o'clock in the morning that the content of the old book was completed. One of the chapters was posted before yesterday's update task was transferred, and the remaining two chapters were planned to be posted in two days.
As for the update speed, no matter how readers scolded me, he no longer cared about it.
Turn off the lights and sleep, without saying a word all night.
Early the next morning...
It was really early, and my mother was forced to wake up by her mother before 8 o'clock.
"I'm still sleeping? I forgot to have a blind date with someone today? Call the girl quickly!"
Li Xuanji, who had only slept for 5 hours, woke up with a split headache and a mental state.
He suspected that his mother was still taking revenge on yesterday's incident, but unfortunately there was no evidence.
Of course, even if there is evidence, now that I can't do anything to the other party.
In front of my mother, Li Xuanji dialed the phone number of his blind date and turned on the hands-free one.
There is no way. If I don’t do this, with my mother’s personality, I might be able to say something ugly to me again.
The phone was quickly connected and a pleasant voice came from inside: "Hey? Who?"
Li Xuanji took a deep breath, glanced at his mother who was monitoring him, and stammered: "Uh, that, I, I am that..."
Seeing that his son couldn't squeeze out a few words for a long time, Yu Guifen snatched the phone, smiled and said softly: "Oh, it's Zhang Xiaotong? I'm Li Xuanji's mother! That... you should know, my son..."
Before he finished speaking, the other side responded in a panic: "Oh, hello, auntie! Yes, I know..."
Then, a period of silence and embarrassment that lasts for at least 10 seconds.
"that……"
Yu Guifen was about to break the atmosphere, but the other side had already spoken: "Auntie, I'm at work here, I'll contact you later, right?"
"Hey? Hey! OK!"
"beep!"
The phone hangs up.
Yu Guifen looked at the phone in her hand with a change of expression and muttered: "It's so rude!"
Li Xuanji couldn't help rolling his eyes and thought to himself, why are they rude? This hospital happens to be a doctor leading the team to check rounds and nurses change shifts. This girl is a nurse in the hospital. She must be busy now. How can she have time to follow you during work?
At this moment, Yu Guifen pointed his finger at her son again: "Why are you rolling your eyes? A big man can't even speak clearly and has no future! Let me tell you, when she is no longer busy, you will take the initiative to contact her. No matter whether this matter is successful or not, you have to have an explanation!"
Li Xuanji nodded and said "Yes". He didn't object to this, so he really had to explain it.
After my mother left, Li Xuanji took her cell phone and thought for a while, edited a text message: "I am Li Xuanji. I was embarrassed just now, it has affected your work. When will I contact you when it will be convenient for you?"
Not long after, I responded to convenience: "Okay."
"Um???"
Li Xuanji thought of many possibilities, but he didn't expect that the other party would reply to these two words.
What does "ok" mean?
When will it be convenient to contact us?
"It seems that the prospect is not optimistic!"
Li Xuanji couldn't help but shake his head and smile, not taking it too much.
He had never thought of any sparks that would be created with the other party. Even because of the memory of his previous life, he had already made up his mind to be single in his life and said he wanted to give an explanation, which was really just an explanation, out of basic politeness.
This is also good, and you don’t have to refuse yourself, and they will cut off the road ahead directly, which will save you trouble and trouble.
Putting away his cell phone, Li Xuanji looked at the bed in the bedroom hungrily.
Chapter completed!