Chapter 29 Deception and Respect
After countless curses received no response, Fang Jin gave up.
This stone tablet and even this space are the foundation of his life now. He is a younger brother and can't afford to offend him. If the boss gives up the burden, he will be finished.
"Dad... did you not bring money?" Xixi, who was careful to see the disgrace on Fang Jin's face, asked carefully.
"How...how can it be!" Fang Jin, who was told through, smiled awkwardly, "I...have...it's rich!"
Fang Xixi stuck out her tongue and took the small schoolbag from behind with difficulty. Then she fumbled in the small schoolbag with a serious look, and took out a card. The front of the card reads: China Merchants Bank.
"Hey, there is a special New Year's money here." Fang Xixi pouted her mouth and handed the card to Fang Jin: "Mama, huh... my money!"
Fang Jin licked his lips awkwardly, "I... I... I'm really rich!"
He didn't want to be embarrassed in front of his daughter. This may be something that every father didn't want to face... Fang Jin couldn't help but pinch his pocket. In fact, he had no money long ago. He was living at home and waiting to die, and he didn't need much money. He had never gone out to work these decadent days.
"I don't believe it! Hurry up, otherwise I will get angry!" Xixi frowned and looked at Fang Jin with a little dissatisfied look.
Facing her daughter's serious appearance, Fang Jin's hand trembled slightly and took the card from her daughter's hand.
"Mimi is my birthday, um... Mama said I and my dad have a birthday!" Seeing my dad obediently accepting the card in her hand, Fang Xixi happily waved her little hand.
"Okay!" Fang Jin nodded and took a deep breath. No one knew what he was thinking.
After a while, everyone had enough food and drink. Fang Jin used his daughter's card to settle the account and checked the balance. There were a total of 4,000 yuan in this card, and more than 400 yuan was used for breakfast.
I took the little radish head back, it was already past eight o'clock.
According to normal class time, they are already late.
The teaching director who was guarding the gate turned a blind eye to Fang Jin in front of him and the little radish leaders behind him. Not only did he open the door and let go, but he also looked amiable.
The vice principal had already said hello, and just turned a blind eye to Class 2, Class 1.
Watching a large group of people in Class 2, one year walk in behind a teacher.
There were a few late students next to me who also wanted to take advantage of the troubled waters and follow in...
"Stop, what do you guys want to do?!"
The director immediately stopped the late students and shouted.
"We...we...that...they...why can they get in?" asked the late student pointing to the person in Class 2 in front of him.
"They?!" The dean sneered: "They came to the school to gather for training at 6:30 in the morning. The head teacher took them out for breakfast. Is there anything wrong with coming back now?"
"Stand all for me, class, name!"
"What reason should I find when I am late!"
...
When I walked into the school gate without any danger, the little carrot leaders in Class 2 of the year all felt nervous and exciting. They were obviously late, but because of the head teacher, there was nothing...
"Your Highness Fang Jin, can we still come out for breakfast in the future?" An Xiaoxiao walked to the front of the team, looking up at Fang Jin with great hope.
"And... cough cough!" Fang Jin subconsciously pinched the bank card in his pocket and looked back. Almost half of the little carrot heads behind him were looking at him with anticipation.
Fang Jin gritted his teeth with some pain and said, "It depends on your performance. If your performance satisfies the teacher, it is naturally no problem to have breakfast!"
"Um...really?" An Xiaoxiao said happily.
"Teacher... never lie!" Fang Jin patted An Xiaoxiao's head and said seriously.
Because of the memory in dreams, Fang Jin thinks he still has some experience in education.
When facing children's requests, you can directly refuse, but it is best to explain the reason. Don't just say, "Why are you doing so many things? If you don't have it, it's not okay!" or "Will you not be more sensible while playing!"
During the growth stage of a person, there are two words that always exist throughout.
That is independence.
In terms of personality, respect students, children, and minors, put them on the same position as themselves, and have an equal conversation.
They want independence, respect, and not... like toys, being merciless.
First is respect, second is integrity.
Integrity is indispensable in interactions between people.
However, some parents disagree. They think that even if their children do not keep their promises, it doesn’t matter, even if they don’t do what they say, it doesn’t matter. They think that their children’s food and clothing are provided by themselves, and everything must be dependent on themselves. They hold their own rights to life and death. Even if they don’t keep their integrity, they are not afraid of what their children can do, or, in other words, dare to do it!
The word integrity is the top priority in family education!
When parents break their trust too often, they will have serious negative reactions. Students no longer have any hope for what their parents say, they will become disgusted with school, do not want to go home, hate being close to their parents, and other emotions.
Therefore, the two primary conditions for educating students and their children are respect and integrity.
Respect students' personality. Both parties are originally equal in personality. When they propose any ideas, what we need to do is whether we can do it. If we can, we agree, and if we cannot do it, we must attach reasons to them when we refuse. Only then will they understand the reason why this thing cannot be done. Their little heads are not as much as we think!
The second is integrity. Since you have agreed, you must do it. If you cannot do it, you should refuse in advance.
There are many parents complaining that they don’t know how to teach their children…in short, look at them equally.
"But... teacher, how do we know whether our performance can satisfy you? And... If we work hard, we can't help saying that we are not satisfied!" A thin skinny child in the team lowered his head and whispered.
This happened many times at his family. When he was in elementary school, his father always said that he had good exams and took him out to play with his mother. He tried his best to take the exam and entered the top three in the class... But his father used the reason not to get the first place. When he got the first place, his father said that there were people who were better than him and wanted to get the first place in the school!
Over time, he knew that his father lied to him, and that's how the adults were and never took them seriously...
Chapter completed!