If you want to truly understand a person, you must truly and thoroughly understand the person's growth environment and all his experiences.

Because the original owner's soul is still there and all his thoughts are still in a very active stage, Qin Gu can easily detect it.

Including some memories that the original owner has forgotten but has actually left a mark in his life.

——Almost all of Tao Yu’s memories of childhood were related to his grandmother, and his mother’s impression was very vague and very... cold.

In this mark, grandma is the person he is closest to, most relied on, and... the person he has the most say in the family.

Mother is a synonym for being strange, indifferent, and even a bit of hostility.

When Tao Yu was six years old, his parents divorced, largely because of the effect of his grandmother Ding Xiaoxiao.

Grandma Ding Xiaoxiao has only one son, Tao Hongzhe. Her husband died in a car accident when her son was just admitted to college.

She herself has a title in an enterprise and institution. Her husband was originally in transportation and received a large amount of compensation after his death. Her family is not bad.

Ding Xiaoxiao was spoiled by Tao Hongzhe since she was a child, and she was also aware of her when she grew up. Whether she was studying, choosing a school, major, or later having a girlfriend to get married, buying a house, etc., she was all about it.

After her husband passed away, she shifted all the focus of her life to her son.

Tao Hongzhe and Qian Hongying met through an acquaintance and lived with Ding Xiaoxiao after getting married.

In fact, there were some conflicts between the two from the beginning, mainly on the mother's issue.

Tao Hongzhe said something about it, "My mother said, my mother said XX." It's just that these small frictions in life have not had any bumps at home. Isn't they all just doing it? After all, the price of divorce is too high.

But with the birth of Tao Yu, the conflict between them escalated.

Ding Xiaoxiao's love for her grandson is more than ordinary people. She just keeps her at all and is reluctant to beat and scold her at all.

Even Qian Hongying went home and wanted to play with her children and cultivate a parent-child relationship. Ding Xiaoxiao also separated the two, thinking that Qian Hongying was too strict with her children. "The child is so young, what do you know? You will know when you grow up." He asked Qian Hongying to do housework, and secretly said to the child, "Don't listen to what your mother said, grandma loves you the most..." and so on.

Over time, Tao Yu became distant about his mother. He did not listen to Qian Hongying's words at all, and was even full of resistance and hostility.

As soon as Qian Hongying taught him a lesson, he would cry and say he wanted to "tell grandma", and then the family would inevitably be in chaos.

Qian Hongying said that she should not just spoil her child, as that would harm him.

Every time there was a chaotic trip, Tao Hongzhe turned to his mother, but instead said that she, "It's not as good as your child, my mother, you'll do everything when you come."

The conflict between Qian Hongying and Ding Xiaoxiao is getting worse and worse, and Tao Hongzhe cheated during this period of time.

In his words, Qian Hongying is not as gentle as a woman. She is in a mess every day when she comes back. She is forcing him not to go home, and she is forcing him to seek "comfort" outside.

Qian Hongying looked at her mother-in-law who was always wary and resistant to her, as well as her son who looked at her with strange and hostile eyes, and her husband who smelled of other women.

She felt that her whole life was in a darkness that would never be seen. She worked hard and fought for it, but the reality was so cruel that she could not save it and could not fight. In the end, she and Tao Hongzhe embarked on the road of divorce.

However, the divorce between the two was also very unsuccessful, mainly due to the child's raising and property division.

Tao Hongzhe had an affair, but he still couldn't make it possible to get the evidence on the table.

Because the law clearly stipulates that it is to "maintain a husband-wife relationship with a third party for a long time", how to prove this? Record videos every day and take secret photos? That is privacy. I am afraid that I will enter the bureau before I even seize the other person's handle.

In other words, it is impossible to divorce if you want to sue Tao Hongzhe as the party at fault in the marriage.

Qian Hongying wanted to take the child alone to reverse the child's habits, but Ding Xiaoxiao and Tao Hongzhe did not let her get close to the child at all, and the child was not close to her at all.

It is not possible to get custody of the child.

The house was paid by Ding Xiaoxiao, but the mortgage payment and decoration fee were paid by Qian Hongying and Tao Hongzhe.

Moreover, Tao Hongzhe’s salary is not as high as that of Qian Hongying, so relatively speaking, her contribution to her family is even greater.

Because she couldn't stand it first, she filed for divorce first, so she could not get her family property.

The mother-in-law, husband and son have all embraced the united front and isolated her alone.

In the end, Qian Hongying was disheartened and left the house with nothing.

Even so, she has to pay child support every month until she becomes an adult.

In the original owner's memory, Tao Yu's memory of his mother was very quiet. Before he became an adult, his grandmother helped him get the monthly support. He knew about this, but in his words, it was: This was what she should give me, who told her to give birth to me?

After Qian Hongying and Tao Hongzhe divorced, they both re-established their families. Tao Hongzhe, who was in order to let Qian Hongying leave the house in vain, did not continue to bring Tao Yu with him, but threw it to Ding Xiaoxiao.

So Tao Yu has been with his grandmother since he was six years old. Ding Xiaoxiao can no longer describe him as pampering, but pampering.

Give whatever you want, even if you are knocked to the foot by a stone on the road, grandma will step on the stone a few times.

This has developed a character that Tao Yu must get whatever he wants. He used to be young, and he wanted to have those toys, snacks, or some small things. No problem, Ding Xiaoxiao could satisfy him.

Although I have caused some trouble, the problem is not big, so I can get it done with some money.

But this time it was different. Tao Yu fell in love with a girl, and he still looked like he would never give up until he could catch up.

This is a human being, not a toy snack. Just if you want others, you must cater to your ideas?!

The girl's name is Zeng Yuanyuan, and she is from another department of the same grade.

In fact, at the beginning, Tao Yu didn't like Yuanyuan as much as he thought, but this Yuanyuan ignored him at all, which inspired him to take possession.

So Tao Yu pursued the other party in different ways, in classrooms, canteens, and even went downstairs of girls' dormitories many times to confess their love in public.

Every time Yuanyuan solemnly stated that she is now academically important and will not consider having a boyfriend. She rejected his pursuit.

Tao Yu failed to court many times, but instead caused ridicule from people around him, saying that he couldn't even handle a little girl in the countryside.
Chapter completed!