590、Father's Responsibilities
The person who came was a middle-aged man in his forties. He looked very majestic and looked very handsome and handsome when he was young. However, now he is here, and this is the first time Jing Wen and him have met.
"Cui Tan Gongzi?" Jing Wen asked.
"It's me, Cui Tan!" Cui Tan replied.
The person who came was Cui Tan, that is, Cui Ying's father. Jing Wen did not expect Cui Ying's father to come back. Cui Ying's father was the eldest son of the Cui family, and the future heir of the Cui family. The current head of the Cui family is over 60 years old, but he still occupies this position, which makes those middle-aged heirs unable to wait. As a leader of a family, it is not a good thing to live too long! If the life span is too long, the descendants of the family will inevitably have to fight.
"Mr. Cui Tan, is there anything you have to do with me?" Jing Wen asked.
"Originally, I wanted to come to Chang'an to meet my daughter and comfort her. But now, I don't think I need to comfort her anymore! I just want to meet her now. Can you let me meet her?" Cui Tan asked.
Originally, Cui Tan's request was not too much, but Jing Wen didn't want Cui Tan to see Cui Ying because Cui Ying is now in a sad time. Cui Tan probably sent a very bad news, so it was even more impossible for Cui Ying to hear it. The Cui family completely gave up Cui Ying, which was very painful for Cui Ying. If her father said it himself, the blow would probably be even greater.
"Cui Tan, do you think you are qualified to meet her?" Jing Wen asked.
"Why aren't qualified? I'm her father!" Cui Tan answered for granted.
But Jing Wen immediately said: "Have you fulfilled your responsibilities as a father?"
"Why didn't I do it?" Cui Tan asked back.
"Then why did you let your daughter marry an old man for your own benefit?" Jing Wen asked.
"Because I am her father!" Cui Tan replied.
Jing Wen also said tit-for-tat: "Everyone has the right to choose the future of his own life. Why should you deprive it?"
"This is her life. Since she was born in my Cui family, she must work hard for the prosperity of my Cui family. And the only thing she can do is to be a marriage!" Cui Tan said.
But Jing Wen asked back: "What did the Cui family give her? What benefits did she get from the Cui family? Why should she pay so much for the Cui family?"
"Why didn't the Cui family give her? The Cui family gave her a rich and frugal life. She gave her a life of having no worries about food and clothing. She shouldn't she give her some money to live with her. Shouldn't she give something to the Cui family?" Cui Tan asked.
But Jing Wen asked back: "Are these things valuable? Cui Ying asked you if you want them?"
Jing Wen's words made Cui Tan a little speechless for a moment. Because Jing Wen was in such a rivalry with him, he obviously didn't plan to let Cui Tan meet Cui Ying. When did the eldest son of the Cui family receive such grievances? So Cui Tan was also angry.
But Jing Wen was still stimulating him and said, "Cui Ying has never asked you for these rich and elegant clothes and food. This is all given to him by your Cui family. Can't you survive without rich and elegant clothes and food? And countless poor children in the world do not have rich and elegant clothes and food. Do you all commit suicide?"
"Also, she did not ask for any kind of luxury and food for you, you gave it to her. Isn't it fair to raise your parents? You are too immoral to ask her to marry an old man with the condition of giving her rich clothes and food for her to marry an old man? What is the difference between you and forcing buying and selling? She did not ask for a kind of luxury and food for you. This is what you forced to give her to her. Now you demand rewards on this grounds. This is too ridiculous. You are just doing the duty of a father, raising children is your obligation. Your responsibility, not a gift. But you actually turned your obligation into rights and turned your responsibility into a condition for you to coerce your children. Don't you think you are very shameless? If you don't want to raise her, why should you give birth to her?"
Cui Tan was a little confused by Jing Wen's words. This was the first time he heard this theory. Since ancient times, he has asked his children to repay their parents' grace for raising their parents, but Jing Wen has always said that parents raised their children as an obligation and a responsibility. If they are not prepared to raise their children and do not intend to raise their children, then don't give birth to them. Jing Wen can be said to have subverted his past ideas and turned the past raising of their parents as a gift, but now it has become an obligation.
Jingwen is a person from later generations, and later laws clearly stipulate that parents have the obligation to raise their children. As for how you raise them, it is your business, in short, it cannot be abandoned. Parents' upbringing of their children is no longer a gift, but an obligation and a responsibility. In Jingwen's view, although Cui Tan gave Cui Ying a life of peace of mind and carefree life, this is just fulfilling the responsibility that the father should fulfill, and cannot use this as a gift, and he is arrogant and thinks that he can let his daughter do things she doesn't like.
Jing Wen's words mean that the parents' status of being high in the past has become equal to their children. This is completely different from the education that Cui Tan experienced since childhood. Cui Tan's past education was father and son, and his father was high in the past, and he had supreme rights in front of his children. But now Jing Wen actually refuted him like this, which made him unacceptable.
"Since you asked her to marry an old man, and your Cui family has never given her anything, that's all. From now on, Cui Ying has nothing to do with your Cui family! Because you have not fulfilled your responsibilities and you have not fulfilled your obligation to be a father, why should you make her obey you?" Jing Wen said.
Cui Tan also had nothing to say for a moment, because if he followed his own ideas now, he could not say anything. No one could be ruthless, since Cui Tan asked his daughter to marry Lu Jian, the head of the Lu family, he was actually not very happy as a father. In fact, Cui Tan felt guilty in his heart now, so he could not refute anything to Jingwen. If he refuted Jingwen, wouldn’t he betray his conscience? Because Cui Tan still felt a little owed Cui Ying, so he could not say anything.
Cui Tan said helplessly: "I hope you can take good care of her. She hasn't experienced many things since she was a child, so I hope you take good care of her and don't let her suffer!"
Cui Tan's words are just hope that Cui Ying has entrusted Jingwen. As for as long as he does not abuse Cui Ying in the future, Cui Tan will not say anything.
Chapter completed!