294、We are all family
"Brother Cheng, Mrs. Cui, you should talk to Ms. Cheng in fact. She just couldn't accept it for a while, so that's why. If you can talk to her in time, it should be resolved. After all, you are a family, and there is no overnight revenge for the family! So, as parents, you should take the initiative to communicate with her, so that the problem should be solved." Jing Wen said.
Jing Wen has seen a lot of news in later generations, but there is a lack of communication in the family. As a result, neither parents nor children can understand each other, which eventually leads to a family tragedy. Now Jing Wen hopes that Cheng Yaojin can communicate with his daughter so that many conflicts can be resolved. After all, they are father and daughter. If they don’t communicate well, the problem may be very serious, and they will not even be able to resolve this hatred in the last life. Therefore, Jing Wen does not want Cheng Lin and her father Cheng Yaojin to be so embarrassed. In the future, Jing Wen wants to marry Cheng Lin, so how can Jing Wen face Cheng Yaojin then!
"But, let me take the initiative to resolve it with my daughter. How can I get down on my face?" Cheng Yaojin said.
"Fethical thinking kills people!" Jing Wen murmured in his heart.
Many parents can't bear to communicate with their children actively, thinking that they are parents and superior, they should be the children who take the initiative to apologize and forgive their parents. In the end, neither party can understand it, and finally they have a complete setback. This feudal thinking even exists in later generations, not to mention that this kind of thinking in ancient times is even more serious. In the ancient situation of the Three Bonds and Five Constant Virtues, how many kings and husbands can take the initiative to apologize to their ministers, children and wives and ask for forgiveness? I'm afraid there are very few!
"Brother Cheng, think about it, is your face important or the family affection important? You don't want it this way, but Brother Cheng, you are like this. Why do you cherish your face so much now? It's all a family, why bother to make a fuss over this thing that you don't usually cherish?" Jing Wen persuaded.
Jing Wen immediately persuaded Cui, saying, "Mrs. Cui, although you and Miss Cheng have no name as mother and daughter, they have the reality of mother and daughter. Is your relationship that has been like this for many years just blowing up? So, can't you give up the so-called face and communicate with Miss Cheng a few more words? In fact, many times it's just a question of who will give in first. I envy you very much. After all, you still have parents, but I only have a master! Do you have to make trouble for the whole family? "
Cui thought about it. The reason why she was willing to marry Cheng Yaojin might be more because of Cheng Lin's adopted daughter. If she married Cheng Yaojin in the future, wouldn't she be Cheng Lin's mother? Why bother to get up with Cheng Lin for this matter? This is to put the cart before the horse.
"Old Cheng, this kid is right. We might as well go to Xiaolin and ask for his understanding." Cui said.
Cheng Yaojin also sighed and said, "Isn't it just face? I, Cheng Yaojin, have many shameless times. What kind of face do you want at this time? Let's go!"
"Daughter, I'm here to see you!" Cheng Yaojin knocked outside the door.
Cheng Lin opened the door with a cold face, obviously very dissatisfied with Cheng Yaojin. Even Cheng Lin was not very enthusiastic about Cui's former adoptive mother.
"Xiao Lin. This is the thing. Your mother at that time..." Cui quickly explained the reason.
After listening to Cui's explanation, Cheng Lin's face softened a lot. In fact, this is a process of mutual understanding. They were unable to understand each other before. Now Cui and Cheng Yaojin can come to understand each other, so this is not a big deal.
"Cheng Lin, what a big deal. Why keep being angry? So, it's all a family! Since they are all a family, why be angry about this little thing? So, Cheng Lin, don't be angry with Brother Cheng, go home and live the next life together!" Jing Wen said.
Cheng Lin tried to persuade her like this when she saw a few of them, and Cheng Lin also forgave Cheng Yaojin and Cui. Anyway, they are all a family! Since they are all a family, why should we hold grudges for so long?
"Okay, since that's the case, I will forgive you!" Cheng Lin said.
After a while, Jing Wen and Cheng Yaojin were drinking with distilled liquor.
"Brother Jingwen, thanks to you this time! If it weren't for you, I'm afraid my relationship with Xiaolin would be ruined!" Cheng Yaojin first picked up a glass of wine and said.
Jing Wen also raised his wine glass and said in a pun: "We are all one family! We are one family, why bother to say thank you!"
"Yes, Brother Jingwen and us are both a family. If the family doesn't speak two families, do it!" Cheng Yaojin said.
Obviously, the two people's words did not mean the same thing. Jing Wen's family actually means that he will marry Cheng Yaojin's daughter in the future and be his son-in-law. Cheng Yaojin obviously didn't know what Jing Wen meant. He just regarded Jing Wen as a "buddy" with a good relationship, and did not expect that Jing Wen meant to be his son-in-law.
But Cui and Cheng Lin were on the other side, as if they were talking about something.
"Xiao Lin, did that Jing Wen take advantage of you?" Cui asked.
Cheng Lin was about to refute, but Cui continued to ask: "Xiao Lin, I have also married. Of course, I know that you have been taken advantage of by other men. And since you can listen to Jing Wen like this, I'm afraid the man who took advantage of you is him?"
"Yes!" Cheng Lin answered honestly.
Cui said helplessly: "You don't know that Lao Cheng has always wanted a promising general to be his son-in-law. I'm afraid Jing Wen will not be easy!"
"Mother, do you have any solutions?" Cheng Lin asked.
Cui thought for a while and said, "It's not that there is no chance at all. Now Jing Wen is also the leader of the army. He is the governor of the Avengers' Army. If he can make contributions in the future, he will not be able to take this opportunity to convince Lao Cheng. The premise is that he can make contributions on the battlefield, otherwise he will not be able to convince Lao Cheng at all. According to my analysis, I'm afraid that the Tang Dynasty and the Turks will inevitably have a battle, and his Avengers' Army will definitely go to the battlefield. If Jing Wen was still the governor of the Avengers' Army at that time, then he could make contributions by using the Avengers' Army."
"Okay, then I will persuade him that he must make contributions in the war of Drinking Turks, so that he can propose marriage with his father in a legitimate way. But I don't know how long it will take!" Cheng Lin said.
Chapter completed!