1883 All Dharmas Achieved in Forbearance
"You have to remember one sentence, all dharmas will be achieved through tolerance!" Cai Bixia wiped Xiang Ying's forehead with a cold towel. "You must learn to be patient in life. Don't say it if the head of state doesn't ask you. If you say it, it will only prove that you are too strong in your mind to be the top!"
"My father once said that in the court, sometimes subordinates are doing very beautiful things, but they are always scolded by their superiors for inexplicably, picking their bones in the eggs. You have to be careful in this situation..."
"Why is this happening? Why is the colleague who is living with you, obviously not as good as you in his work, but no one scolds him? No one puts pressure on him? Do you really think this is Shangguan's partiality? Do you really think it is because the other party is stronger than your backend?"
"You little fool, this is actually Shangguan's art of controlling the inferiors. It is very likely that you will be reused!"
"Ah? What's the reason..." Xiang Ying sat up all of a sudden.
"What's the reason? Of course it's the big reason..." Cai Bixia pushed him back to the bed and continued to wipe the heat from his body with a cold towel. "Generally speaking, if the superior wants to use you, he will find a way to suppress you in advance, thinking that the superior understands the true meaning of life. They have to look at how high your ability to bear it in your heart!"
"The bigger the official position, the greater the pressure on your shoulders, and the higher the position, the less you can't shirk this pressure... You are a young man. When you encounter business difficulties, you have to go to the boss, but when the boss encounters problems, who will he look for? You are not taking it yourself!"
"The same is true for our Chinese. When a soldier encounters a problem, he will look for the squad leader. When a squad leader encounters a problem, he will look for the company commander, and he will report it upwards... But who should the head of state look for when he encounters a problem? No one can find it, and he can't push out the pressure on his shoulders at all. In the end, he can only force himself to solve it and bear it..."
"If you are a high-ranking official, you will suffer from pressure. You can also be worthy of such high salary and benefits!"
"Don't be confused. In fact, it's right for you to think about your family. If your child has problems, he will think of his parents first, and if his parents encounter problems, he will think of more capable people in the clan..."
"What kind of people are most respected? Of course, they are the ones who can bear the most pressure and solve the problem. There is a lawsuit in the family and conflicts with other clans. Who will settle the matter? You can't rely on those children who act spoiled and mad, right?"
"This is actually the iron law in the officialdom! Whoever can withstand the most pressure and who can solve the problem best, the more the official spirit, the easier it is to make a career!"
"People who are selfish and shirk their responsibilities and take advantage of others, and who are pushing for trouble, are destined to be unable to rise!"
Seeing Xiang Ying understand something, Cai Bixia put down the towel and poured himself a glass of wine and took a sip. "Go back to the problem just now, it is precisely because the senior officials in the officialdom who understand this truth, so they have corresponding test methods!"
"The more you want to promote you and reuse you at the critical moment, the more they want to suppress you, bully you, work more and scold you, because they must test your limit, and that limit is the limit of your official position!"
Cai Bixia held the cold crystal cup and said seriously, "Xiang Ying! Remember for me, where is your goal in life? You must first understand how much pressure the goal is to bear!"
"I know... I know that your ideal in this life is to inherit the master's legacy, become the Chinese prime minister and be an enterprising prime minister! Since you have set your goal, you must first study how much pressure your master has been under!"
"I really think that the head of state is the best in the world because of the power of East Asia? Wrong, the master's inner pressure is so great that you can't imagine! The Qing Dynasty wants to kill him, Britain and France want to kill him, and the Chinese nation has to rise. Do you know how many difficulties will be encountered?"
"All the favorable situations at present were managed by the head of state with painstaking steps one by one! When writing a book in Beijing, when facing the aggressive offensive of the Qing Dynasty, the head of state had to smile and pretend to be grandson?"
"After a big victory in Ryukyu, don't you have to whitewash all parties and try to deceive the bastards in the Forbidden City?"
"The French attacked our Chinese people repeatedly and massacred tens of thousands of people, but we have to endure it! Because the head of state knew that we had no capital to completely turn against France at that time! We must wait until the beginning of the Franco-Prussian War, and use the power of Prussia to get our national destiny to a higher level!"
"Everything before this requires patience!"
"Only when facing the British, the head of state must be patient. Before the strength to fight the Royal Navy, what else can you do if you can't bear it? Push open the porthole and see, the British warships have covered the entire bay. This is the cruel reality that you must endure!"
"I can't bear it? If I can't bear it, I can slaughter you and sink it to the bottom of the Indian Ocean. If I can't bear it, I can't survive! This is the law of the jungle!"
Cai Bixia let out a long breath and gently stroked Xiang Ying's face with her hands. "Little fool, you shouldn't take the initiative to pour out the things in your stomach today. You have exposed your desires in advance. Now the head of state already knows what your goal is in life!"
"Ah! Is the master angry with me?" Xiang Ying's face turned pale, and suddenly a thought flashed through his mind, "Can the Chinese people still restore the imperial system in the future?"
Cai Bixia's body was shocked, "It should be...it shouldn't be! The head of state has expressed this attitude several times. He has never thought of becoming an emperor, nor does he want to be an emperor!"
"Yes, I firmly believe that the master is not angry with you. What you are facing now is the test of the head of state!"
Cai Bixia said firmly, "If the head of state sees your inner thoughts, the head of state will test you according to the ideal in your heart. You will get too much pressure from the head of state in the future!
"Because the head of state must first test your bottom line of pressure resistance! He must judge whether Xiang Ying has the ability to shoulder the pressure of the Chinese people!"
"The pressure will come over like waves, the pain will suffocate you, new difficulties will be overcome, problems will surge endlessly..."
"You will be in an extremely painful situation. The feeling of not getting rewards when you give will torture you to go crazy. The squeeze when you overcome difficulties will make you breathless!"
"Until you give up, until the moment you want to give up! That critical point is the limit you can reach in your life! At that time, the head of state will naturally decide where you are suitable for, the general who should be the general, the minister who should be the minister, and the person who becomes the prime minister..."
"Who is destined to reach the end..."
Note: Book friends, have you ever encountered this situation? You are obviously working hard to go to school, but the teacher keeps looking for your problems and often punishes you for your homework. If you have nothing to do, you will criticize you.
When I work, why do I have to do more than another person in the same position? Why don’t the leader put pressure on him and always push the difficulties to myself?
Do you have that kind of unfairness, anger, and want to burst out?
I’ll give you a saying, ‘All dharmas can be achieved through tolerance!’ Sometimes others give you more pressure because they have already seen that you are a piece of steel.
No one is interested in putting pressure on scrap copper and iron, because everyone knows that even if those people are put pressure on, they will give it in vain. They can't solve it at all, so it's better not to worry about it.
We must admit that this world is unfair. There are many people who try to use gray power when they go around, and there are indeed many people who are smart.
But remember one sentence: while people are good and are bullied, the second half is not that horses are ridden by others. It was tampered with by later generations. The original second half is, "Man is good and will not deceive God!"
Work hard to withstand pressure and solve problems. This is the only way to improve your strength. The ultimate test of your study, life and work is your ability to bear pressure and solve problems.
Maybe one day, the same problem is placed in front of everyone, only you can easily solve it, while those who are clever and clever are stunned and helpless.
By that time, will your life value be naturally reflected?
In fact, many people have understood the off-topic words I have long ago, but we must admit that there are many young children among the book friends and young people who have just entered society.
Masters who know more than me, don’t laugh at me, just smile.
And those children who have not heard these truths, I don’t expect you to accept them immediately, but I hope you can leave a little bit of space for this passage in your heart, even in the most remote corner.
Perhaps after experiencing the hardships of society, these words will help you break through the mystery and become enlightened!
Chapter completed!