It was really a feeling, so he comforted her and said: "Xiao Dong, don't think like that. In fact, going to college is just a way. Everyone has their own strengths. The key is whether you can show your strengths. Now it is indeed

In this way, any employer must look at diplomas, because this is at least one aspect of measuring a person's ability. But you are different now. It should be said that you are more lucky and speak more frankly. Don't mind it."

"You are a good person. I know that. My aunt has told you that you are different. You look like a kind-hearted person. She also said that you must have bribed the security guard, but you did it for me."

The security guard concealed it, which shows that you have a good heart and sympathize with the weak. Dr. Feng, you may not know that this is why my aunt is so polite to you," she said.

I was very surprised, "How did your aunt know that I was hiding something for the security guard?"

She doesn't need to be specific, the "aunt" in her mouth is Wu Yaru.

"It's very simple. We all know that the security guard cannot go to the toilet during class time. This is clearly stipulated. If you really have diarrhea or something, you must call someone else immediately to take his place. Academy of Fine Arts

Outsiders are not allowed to watch the life drawing class," she said.

I suddenly remembered a question. In fact, this question has been in my mind but it was hard to ask her. But now I can no longer hold back my curiosity, "Xiao Dong, although I am a doctor, I still can't understand it."

You people who are engaged in art, [`Novel`], did you really not have any psychological barriers to the difficulty of doing such a job in the past?"

She doesn't speak.

I understood immediately, "I'm sorry. I shouldn't have asked you this question."

"Actually, I have cried many times. But I didn't let my aunt know." She said in a low voice.

I couldn't help but sigh, "So does your aunt, how can I let you do that job?"

"She is very good to me. She is an artist, and her ideas are different from yours." She said, "But I am not an artist. In fact, I don't like to do that kind of thing in my heart. No matter what, I am

She’s a girl, and she’s not married yet.”

That's right, how can any girl be willing to do that kind of job? I thought to myself, and then said to her: "Xiao Dong, you shouldn't blame your aunt. In fact, I guess she also knows that you don't like that.

Work, so she immediately agreed to let you go with me this time. Don’t you think so? Maybe she does have a different understanding of this matter than most of us, and that’s why she felt like letting you go.

There is nothing wrong with doing that kind of work. But it is not easy for her to consider this issue from your perspective. Because each of us has a different career, we always like to stand in the perspective of our own career.

Others think about the problem. For example, I am an obstetrician and gynecologist. I think it is okay for women to come to me for medical treatment, because when I see a doctor, I don’t think about other problems at all. I only see the patient’s pain. However,

When I meet acquaintances who come to see a doctor, I still try to avoid going to see them in person. This is actually a kind of understanding. Xiaodong, I don’t know if you understand what I mean? In a word, you should be grateful.

Your aunt is the one."

I said this for a purpose, because yesterday I discovered a problem: Wu Yaru does not shy away from talking about Dong Jie's shortcomings in person. This is actually a kind of contempt for her from the bottom of her heart. You know, she is like this

This practice is very harmful to a person's self-esteem. Generally speaking, a kind of resentment will arise in the heart of the person who is hurt.

From a psychological point of view, this is certain and inevitable. However, many people are often covered up by their inner inferiority. However, once they encounter something in the future, they are likely to explode immediately, or even

It has extremely terrible consequences. Therefore, psychological harm often has a much greater impact on a person than physical harm.

And now is a good opportunity, a good opportunity to persuade Dong Jie. This is just like what is said in Buddhism, Dong Jie may already have "violent energy" in his heart

Maybe it's a professional habit. I always pay attention to this issue, so I'm professionally accustomed to taking precautions. Of course, this kind of situation is mostly limited to acquaintances. Otherwise, I will definitely get slapped in the mouth.

of.

She didn't speak.

I immediately understood that my guess just now was correct, so I said again: "Xiao Dong, I hope you will always remember what I am going to tell you next: A person should not be afraid that others will look down on you, but you must

You can only think highly of yourself. Because only in this way will you work hard and achieve results through your own efforts, and then use your results to win the recognition and respect of others."

She still didn't speak, and I stopped talking, because I knew she needed time to think. In fact, many people are like this. Once the knot in their hearts is untied, it suddenly becomes clear. The key to the problem is who will do it for them.

Untie the knot. Among us, only a few people can untie the knot in their hearts, and more need the help of psychologists. This is done better in developed countries, because people there

I have taken my own psychological problems very seriously, and seeing a psychiatrist is regarded as a very natural thing. Unfortunately, people in our country have not formed such a concept at all. From this, I suddenly

I think of someone, Ah Zhu.

Has she gone abroad? Is she living well now? I couldn't help but start to think about it again and again.

At noon, we arrived at a small town. I slowed down the drive because I needed to find a place to eat.

Restaurants in small towns often look dirty, so I drove across half of town without finding a satisfactory place.

"Brother Feng, are you looking for a place to eat?" Suddenly, I heard Yu Min asking me.

I smiled and said, "Yeah. Are you awake?"

She smiled and said: "I haven't fallen asleep. I just closed my eyes and rested my mind. Xiaodong, give me the baby, and then I will hold the baby. I drank too much last night and I didn't feel very well. Originally

I really want to hold the baby, but I'm afraid I'll fall asleep. Brother Feng, just find a hotel, this place is like this. I'm hungry. I didn't have breakfast today, my stomach feels uncomfortable."

I immediately became concerned about her, "Are you feeling better now? How about I buy some medicine for you later. There should be a health center in this town."

"I just rested for a while and I feel much better. This one looks relatively clean," she said.

I also found a restaurant not far ahead, which was actually similar to the one I saw before. I thought I had to do this, so I stopped the car.

There was no one eating in the restaurant, it was deserted. I immediately asked the restaurant owner to cook some dishes.

Dong Jie didn't come in. I asked Yu Min what she was doing, and Yu Min said she went to the bathroom. She then smiled and said to me: "Brother Feng, this Xiao Dong looks very good, do you like her?"

I immediately couldn't laugh or cry, "Yu Min, don't talk nonsense. She should call me uncle."

"It's not a kiss." She smiled, maybe because she saw something wrong with my face, and then said: "Don't be angry, I was joking. But I found that she is very spiritual, and I really want her to work at my place.

Yeah. I just don’t know how she does things."

I looked at the door and saw no sign of Dong Jie, and then whispered to her: "She never went to college. I don't know what her abilities are. But she looks pretty good and a very smart girl."

.”

Yu Min pursed her lips and said: "What's the matter with not going to college? I'm just a junior college student. There is a shortage of beautiful girls like her in my company, and the salary I'm offering now can't find one that's suitable."

Man. Hey!"

I shook my head, "Yu Min. Although I don't know this girl very well, I feel that she is relatively innocent. I know what a company like yours needs beautiful girls to do, so I don't think she is suitable. After all, her aunt only helps

You've done me a big favor, I can't harm others."

"I don't want her to be a salesperson. I just want her to take care of the back office for me. Brother Feng, actually... I want to find someone who can replace me. I know it myself, and now I am becoming more and more...

The uglier she gets, the more you will look down on me in the future. Now that your family is like this, I will train a new person for you. So I think she is very good." She said, not daring to come see me.

I didn't expect that she was thinking about Dong Jie like this, so I immediately said to her seriously: "Yu Min, don't be like this. I don't want you to be like this, and I don't like it. I know how to arrange my own life, and I don't like it very much."

Others come to interfere with me, especially in my private life. Yu Min, please remember this at all times."

Her face immediately turned red, "Brother Feng, I... I do it for your own good."

My heart suddenly softened, so I said to her softly: "I know what you are thinking. Yu Min, don't you still understand me until now? Tell me, when did I not tell you what I said?

Cashed in? Don’t worry that I won’t help you in the future. I will definitely do it for you as I have already said to you. Don’t let your imagination run wild.”

She stopped talking.

At this time, Dong Jie came in from outside, but Yu Min suddenly sighed quietly, "Brother Feng, your child is so cute. I may not be so lucky in this life."

I asked Dong Jie to sit down and then said to Yu Min: "Let's do this. From now on, I will let my child worship you as his godmother."

"Really?" she said in surprise, but then she looked sad again, "It's a pity that she's not my biological child."

Dong Jie looked at us with wide eyes. I hurriedly said: "Yu Min, don't be like this. Everyone should be happy after coming out this time. Where is there so much sentimentality?"

Yu Min immediately laughed, "Yeah, it seems like there's something wrong with me?"

Dong Jie also laughed.

After finishing the meal soon, I found that I was a little tired. This is because the blood in the body has been redistributed after eating, and the blood in the stomach has increased. The function is to strengthen the digestion and absorption of food. Of course, this is also

It has a lot to do with my lack of sleep last night.

So I said to Yu Min: "You come and drive. I'll take a rest."

Yu Min was immediately overjoyed, "Brother Feng, I've actually wanted to drive your car for a long time, but I'm embarrassed to tell you."

I smiled and said, "Yes. I wanted to sleep a long time ago. If I had known better, I would have let you drive earlier. Your embarrassment is really killing people."

"That's right." She laughed.

So I asked Dong Jie, "Are you tired of holding the baby? Otherwise, I will hold the baby for a while, and you can take over for me after you rest."

In fact, what I said was very false, because I really hoped that she could hold the baby for me for a while. Fortunately, she was really sensible, "It's okay. You can rest. I like him too."

I woke up after sleeping for an hour and immediately felt much better. I found that Yu Min drove relatively smoothly and her movements were quite regular. It seemed that she was trained in a regular driving school. Then I noticed that Dong Jie looked very tired and hurriedly

Went and took the child from her.

This time she didn't refuse. After a while she fell asleep. I was suddenly moved: because I knew that she must have been insisting on not letting herself sleep.

I have experienced the pain of wanting to sleep but not being able to. It is an extremely uncomfortable feeling. It takes a lot of self-control for a person to insist on staying awake when he is extremely tired, and in that case it is possible to

There may be body aches and even premature heart beats.

This girl is really good. This is my initial evaluation of Dong Jie.

I remember I once saw a story about a person who went to apply for a job. He picked up the scraps of paper in the corridor and put them into the trash can. As a result, he happened to be seen by a passing interviewer, so he got the job.

.I think Dong Jie’s current situation is like this. Her persistence makes me admire and identify with her. This can illustrate a truth: it is not difficult for a person to be appreciated by others, as long as he is determined.

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To be continued...