Chapter 110 The Doctor's Theory of Love(1/2)
"Are you having headaches, dizziness, and sweating?"
"I had some headaches, I felt sweaty last night."
"Dry mouth, don't you have to dry mouth, don't you have to be bitter?" Zhang Yan asked very carefully, his voice was very gentle, which relieved the patient's mood a little.
"Somewhat is wrong with me, doctor?"
"Have you encountered troubles recently?" Zhang Yan did not answer, but continued to ask with a gentle smile.
"Things are bothersome?" The young man didn't understand. Seeing that his stomach hurt, why did he still ask this?
"I saw your brows frowning and your eyes were covered with bloodshots, and then you looked at your tongue with red coating.
Obviously, I encountered something and was anxious to get angry."
"Doctor, how can you still look at photos?" the young man said in surprise.
"I am a Chinese medicine doctor, and seeing a physiognomy is also one of the means of seeing a doctor." Zhang Yan said with a smile.
"As for your condition, I have no history of abdominal pain before, it has only happened in the past two days. When I just did an abdominal examination on you, I found that your organs are not sick.
I just took my pulse and found that your body is very healthy.
I just feel a little anxious and have a little liver qi stagnation.”
"Is this related to my stomach ache?" the young man asked in confusion.
"It's related. In addition to organic stomach pain, it means that the organs in your stomach have undergone lesions, or eating bad things, which are caused by these causes.
Another situation is mental abdominal pain.
Don't get me wrong, this is not a mental illness.
It refers to the abdominal pain caused by nervousness, irritability, great joy and sorrow.
This condition is called mental abdominal pain." Zhang Yan patiently explained the condition to the young man.
"Can this cause stomachache?" the young man asked in disbelief.
"This situation is quite common. People have seven emotions and six desires. Even monks in temples cannot do without desires." Zhang Yan said with a smile.
"Doctor, how should I treat this situation?" the young man asked with some concern.
“There are two ways.
One is to recover by yourself, there is nothing in this world that cannot be solved, and it seems unsolvable for the time being. Maybe you take a step back or wait and the problem will be solved.
There is a saying that planning is about people and accomplishing things is in heaven. Don’t force anything. Gradually, your nervousness and irritability will relieve you, and your illness will be cured without medicine." Zhang Yan smiled at the lenient young man.
"Oh! It's not that easy to think about it!
Doctor, I am really anxious and annoyed recently.
I talked about a partner, but my family disagreed and disliked the other party's bad composition and was the daughter of the capitalist." The young man opened his heart in Zhang Yan's gentle words and began to tell his own affairs.
Perhaps, the young man originally wanted to find someone to tell his troubles.
Zhang Yan didn't say anything, nodded slightly, indicating that he was listening.
"What's wrong with the daughter of the capitalist? Now they are all new China. Since the country has not pursued them, it means that they are conscience.
My parents are always stubborn and refuse to agree to our marriage. They also said that if they marry her, they would break off relations with me."
"In this case, no one would be angry if you weren't." Zhang Yan nodded in approval.
"Yes! On one side is my parents and on the other side is my partner. I really don't know what to do. I've been so worried that I can't sleep all these two days." The young man grabbed his hair in distress.
"Do you really love your partner? Or are you ready to face everything in the future with her?"
"Doctor, what do you mean? If I don't love my partner, how could I be upset?"
"According to Western scientists' research, love is actually a hormone secretion and only exists for a very short period of time.
Love is very short-lived. Now when you face love pain, you may forget the previous pain after turning around.
Because you find that you seem to no longer love.
Love is a momentary impulse, while marriage is to stay together forever, tolerating each other and supporting each other through the rest of their lives.
I believe you love your partner very much, but are you really ready to go to the palace of marriage with her?
At weddings in Western countries, pastors often ask the married man and woman a word, are you ready?
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I want to ask you this sentence now. Ask yourself, are you really ready?" Zhang Yan's tone was gentle, full of magnetism, and told the young man softly.
The last sentence, are you really ready?
The young man was stunned for questioning.
He has seen too much about this kind of situation in the youth in later generations.
Although he had never been in love in his previous life.
But he saw a lot.
My roommate in the same dormitory was so loveful that he was dying. After a broken heart, he was dying and looked painfully like he couldn't survive without him.
Everyone was busy comforting each other, and accompanied them to drink and stayed with them.
As a result, the guy suddenly announced that he was in love again and his partner was XXX.
This is called love.
It all starts with the desire to see the color.
Whether you can get together has nothing to do with love.
The so-called love begins with appearance, is trapped in talent, and is loyal to character.
"Thank you, Doctor!" The young man stood up and bowed deeply to Zhang Yan.
He didn't ask about the second way to treat abdominal pain, so he turned around and left.
He no longer needs the second method.
"Brother Zhang, you are so awesome!" Zhao Shengli gave Zhang Yan a thumbs up.
"Doctor Zhang, is the mental abdominal pain you just mentioned true? Why haven't I heard of it before?"
"Brother Zhang, do you think he really loves his partner?" As a girl, Qian Hongying's focus is different from that of others.
"In the study of Chinese medicine diseases, many diseases are caused by seven emotions and six desires.
In Western medicine, it is also believed that violent fluctuations in emotions will cause organic lesions in organs." Zhang Yanxian explained to Lu Jun the scientific nature of mental abdominal pain.
Then he looked at Qian Hongying, "Didn't I just say it?
Love is very short, it is the secretion of hormones in the human body and the momentary impulse.
Whether it is a girl or a boy, there is actually such impulse.
When you girls see a boy who looks very handsome and fits his fantasy of his partner, they will blush and his heart beat faster.
On the other hand, boys will blush when they see beautiful girls and their heartbeats will accelerate.
These are all caused by the accelerated hormone secretion of the pituitary gland.
Xiao Qian, as a veteran, I will give you a piece of advice, never fantasize about marrying the so-called love.
Marrying love is the most unreliable thing in life and the most irresponsible decision to yourself.”
"Ah?!" Qian Hongying was a little stunned.
This is the first time someone has told her so clearly that she must not marry love. It is unreliable to marry love.
"Brother Zhang, if you don't marry love, can you just find a man to marry?"
"No! Finding a partner is the most important thing in your life, and you must consider it from multiple perspectives.
For example, the other party’s talent, character, do you have a common language, similar values, and family backgrounds of both parties.
These are the keys to determine whether your marriage is happy." Zhang Yan said to Qian Hongying very seriously.
This is also his long-standing understanding of love and marriage.
Once, when he was in school, he wanted to find a relationship, but later he found that love was too expensive and time-consuming, so he completed the seven-year achievement of being single in seven years.
At this time, another patient came in, and Zhang Yan also ended the topic just now.
This is a patient with lumbar disc herniation, a male patient, age 53.
"Master, you have a lumbar disc herniation, not very serious.
I'll give you a massage later and then apply a plaster.
Apply the plaster for three days, and then tear it off yourself after three days.
In addition, I will teach you another set of movements. If you take the time to do it more, your back pain will be relieved in about half a month.
If you persist, your lumbar disc herniation will be cured without taking medicine." After Zhang Yan finished the examination, he said to the old man with a smile.
"Okay, thank you doctor!" Although I don't know how effective the treatment is, Zhang Yan's attitude satisfied the old man.
To be continued...