Chapter 1505 Attend the Party
"What does it have to do with you?" Ye Yuran said, "The child is not yours, the inheritance is not your family property, and the last name is not your last name. If you are anxious, you should be anxious. You can even know the backyard."
Why do women care so much about 'bad women'? Just build a Buddhist temple in the backyard, eat fast and chant Buddha's name, say it is to accumulate merit for the Jia family, and hope to have a son..."
Mrs. Jia: "..."
——Are you sure you didn’t ask her to “curse” Jia Hongfang to death?
"You do a good job on the surface. As for what you do secretly, that's your business. Your focus is to keep your own yard airtight, so that you can do what you want to do. For example, after consolidating yourself
After taking the position of the Jia family's legitimate wife, you can secretly do business to make money and save a little more for your dowry. When you get old and become an old lady, even without the support of the Jia family, you can still be stable with your own dowry.
Wouldn't it be nice to live your life with your adopted son holding your lap?" Considering the ancients' superstitious belief in incense, Ye Yuran also added a few words, "As the legitimate wife written in the genealogy of the Jia family,
You don’t have to worry about the incense. Anyway, you are enshrined in the Jia family’s ancestral temple, and the Jia family’s descendants are all your descendants. If that doesn’t work, you can also find a reliable temple to light a lamp for yourself..."
Mrs. Jia: You really think long-term. You have thought clearly before and after your death.
However, she had to admit that unlike her previous grievances and procrastination, Aunt Zhu's "plan" did give her a way forward.
Since it is possible that she will never have children in her life, why doesn't she plan the rest of her life in advance?
If she is lucky enough to have another baby, the "arrangements" she made in advance will allow her and the child to live a better life; even without the child, her life will not be too bad.
"If you don't have a parent or adopted son, you can do whatever you want. But you have to pay attention. If the child is filial, you will love him more; if he is not filial, you will treat him as a pet to make you happy.
If you are happy, give him some benefits from the gaps between your fingers; if you are unhappy, give him nothing." Ye Yuran said, "In this life, a woman will not bear a surname, but will bear her husband's surname in death, just like floating duckweed, so why bother?
So much 'imposition', working so hard for others, but not getting any benefits for yourself?"
"You still have a clear mind. I used to really get into trouble. I just thought that if I couldn't give birth to a child, my whole life would be over and there would be no hope. I never thought that I could live like this."
"As long as people think more openly, everything will be fine. Do you think it is a good thing that I have so many children?" Ye Yuran rolled his eyes, "You didn't see that I broke my leg and couldn't walk, and I was still following you.
Are they busy behind the scenes? I want to live a stable life, but I don’t know when I will wait.”
"But sometimes, it's a good thing to have something busy to do." Mrs. Jia felt somewhat envious in her heart.
Faintly, she remembered the "harmony and separation" mentioned by Ye Yuran before.
After hesitating for a long time, she asked: "Aunt Zhu, you just said 'harmony', what would it be like if I chose 'harmony'?"
Ye Yuran was startled: "It depends on what kind of life you want to live, and what kind of price you will pay if you choose 'harmony'. I don't know what the rules of harmony are for you big families. Anyway, harmony
Whether you can live well after divorce mainly depends on whether your foundation is strong enough."
"Is anyone around you doing well?"
"Yes," Ye Yuran replied very naturally, "my sister-in-law, she was also in a mess at the beginning, and she was plotted by her man and son, and she almost lost her life. Later, I made the decision. You know, I was there
Our area has a bad reputation, and whenever I act arrogant, few people dare to refute my reputation... So I made the decision and asked my sister-in-law to reconcile, and they didn't even dare to say anything, so they agreed."
"What happened next?"
"She has two sons. The older one went to prison, and the younger one is quite filial. I let him make the decision, and one of the two sons was divided. Since the eldest son wants to go to prison with the father,
Then the young man can just follow his mother..." Ye Yuran said, "Separating the family with Li does not mean changing his surname. He can still inherit the land of his sister-in-law in the future. It is equivalent to him raising an old man for his sister-in-law. Everything is still the same.
It belongs to their old Qian family. It is your Qian family's fault in the first place. Even if it is to compensate my sister-in-law, they should take a step back. After all, they have nothing to disagree with."
Of course, Ye Yuran also explained to Mrs. Jia that her sister-in-law's situation was different from Mrs. Jia's and was not worthy of reference at all.
Her sister-in-law is already a grandmother and can no longer have children. She is an old woman. It seems that she has suffered a loss in the "harmony and separation". Without a man and children, there is nothing, so her family will agree to it.
"But she is living a good life now, right?" Mrs. Jia was very sure, otherwise Ye Yuran would not have used this person as an example.
"Well! I can't hide this from you. In her family, her husband and eldest son are a burden. Without them, her younger son is hardworking and willing to work. And with her as a mother to help take care of the family, he can also benefit from me as his uncle.
Mom, share some benefits here, and your life will be much more comfortable than before..." Ye Yuran hesitated for a moment and said, "I don't know how many things Brother Bao has mentioned to you. Since I cooperate with him, naturally I can't do it myself.
The family can live a good life. These fellow villagers are either from the same clan or are related by marriage. I help everyone who can help me. So my reputation is not good in that area, but just for the sake of helping me.
Just pull it, and they will have to provide for me..."
Mrs. Jia's mouth twitched: "..."
——You know, I thought you brought them with you just to show off your authority.
If it weren't for this side, Mrs. Jia really thought that she was just an ordinary country woman who got lucky and got on A Bao's boat. Unexpectedly, she had a clear conscience.
But even if it is clear, people are still willing to let everyone "help".
After thinking about it carefully, she seemed to understand why Aunt Zhu let others "take" her boat.
"Aunt Zhu, you didn't bring them with you on purpose, right?" Mrs. Jia reacted and said, "You are actually 'taking advantage' of them."
"It's just mutual benefit. A single tree cannot make a boat. If country people like us fight alone, they are like a lonely boat on the sea. They can easily be wiped out by others. But if it is a village and a large group of people, it will be wiped out.
There are too many people, even if they are a big family, they have to worry about everything - I want to touch them, can I kill them with so many mouths, can I cover up such a big movement?" Ye Yuran said, "Water can carry it.
The boat can also capsize. The smarter the superior, the more he will consider this issue, and what I want to 'borrow' is this 'consideration'. As long as he has concerns, I can survive in the cracks. This is
Chapter completed!