"Now you understand why I'm not sad now, right? Because I don't want to punish myself for other people's mistakes. I just want to be with you and live happily."

Zhu Bamei couldn't understand: "But why do I feel sad?"

"Because he is your father, you think he should be like that in your mind, but suddenly one day, he broke your impression and became what you imagined..." Looking at the one in front of you,

He temporarily fooled Zhu Bamei, who was no longer so sad, let go of her arms and handed over the ignored cup of water again.

Naturally, Zhu Bamei, who was feeling a little more relaxed, sent it directly to her lips.

But after the entrance, she wondered: "Why is it bitter?"

"What should water taste in your impression?"

Zhu Bamei knew that her mother was examining her, but she didn't know what she meant.

She thought it seriously and said, "The mountain spring has a faint sweetness. The cold and white water we drink has no taste. If you make tea, it will taste the tea..."

The answer is more cautious.

"What about the bowl in your hand? Before drinking it, do you think it is an ordinary bowl of cold and white, and it should have no taste?" Ye Yuran said.

Zhu Bamei looked down at the bowl in her hand.

That's right? At first glance, it looks nothing like the cold and white drinks you usually drink. It's clear and transparent, clean and nothing can be printed clearly from the bottom of the bowl.

Ye Yuran took the kettle, uncovered the lid, and asked Zhu Bamei to see it.

Zhu Bamei looked down and saw that the little things floating inside were lotus cores?

It turns out that the bitter taste is because of this.

"Before drinking this bowl of water, you thought it should be cool and empty, but after drinking it, you realized that it was not ordinary cool and empty. This is life, whether it is your father, me, or anything in your home

A person, even the people you meet in the future, will give you a 'first impression', but this impression is not a 'full picture' of a person. It will change differently over time or event. This is

It's a very normal thing."

"It's not that your father has changed, but that your impression of your father has been stuck in the past and has not changed with time. Perhaps, you haven't noticed that time has passed so long."

"Just like the water in this pot, I just sprinkled it, or sprinkled it less, it will not bitter so quickly. Only with time, with the amount of sprinkled it, will it gradually reveal its bitterness, bitterness,

The degree will vary."

"It is very uncomfortable to break the original impression, but it is not unacceptable."

"No matter what your father does, he is your father, and he will love you; just like this glass of water, although so many lotus cores are put into it, it becomes bitter, but it is still water and can still quench thirst

.”

"Some things have not changed, what has changed is your feelings."

...

The discomforts and grievances in my original heart seemed to have been released.

Yes, no matter what Old Man Zhu did, her father or her father.

Even her mother doesn't care about it, but she is grieving for her mother. Isn't this stupid?

"Mom, why are you so... so open-minded?" Zhu Bamei looked at her mother and found out for the first time that her mother was so powerful.

This kind of power is different from the past.

The power of the past comes from the reputation of the "old pious woman" and the "kitchen knife" in her hand; but it was not until this moment that she realized that her mother was so strong inside.

No wonder, no matter how difficult it is, nothing can beat her mother down!

Suddenly, Zhu Bamei seemed to understand what she should be.

"Because in my mother's heart, the love between men and women only occupies a little bit of it," Ye Yuran raised his little finger, pinched it out, and said, "The little things about your father are not as good as you brothers at all."

It’s important, and there’s nothing important about what my mother has to do. My mother’s time and energy are all about other things, so how can she have the time to compete with your father for jealousy?”

Zhu Bamei asked stupidly: "But, don't everyone say that a woman is like a second reincarnation. If she can't marry a good man, will her life be over? Men shouldn't be the most important thing.

Is it?"

"It is indeed very important to marry someone, but whether you can live a good life well cannot just look at men, the most important thing is to look at yourself." Ye Yuran knew that the highlight was coming, and maybe these words could affect you.

On Zhu Bamei.

She didn't want Zhu Bamei to be an old antique under her training, who "takes her father as heaven, husband as heaven, and son as heaven."

As for women, the most important thing in their life is "whether you live happily or not". As long as you live happily, nothing matters.

She sat upright, straightened her expression, and said very seriously: "Take my mother as an example, what's going on in our family? You know, if you rely solely on your father, you would have starved to death. Women can also hold on to the sky

Look at your mother and me, I have the final say in this family? Your father, how many brothers do you, who don’t listen to me?"

Zhu Bamei recalled and thought it was true.

No one in their family dares not to listen to her mother.

"If it were another woman, the big mouth next door, or your third and fourth aunts, what would they look like if they encountered something like your father?" Ye Yuran was afraid that she would not be able to figure it out, so she just clicked.

A person, "If you can't figure it out, just think about your fifth sister-in-law's eldest sister-in-law. Did she just think about relying on men and end up relying on herself as she is now?"

Thinking that Lin Damei married twice in a row, and finally threw three girls into her house, and even the others disappeared, Zhu Bamei felt that the other party was quite "miserable".

If she relies on men and big sister Cheng Lin, then she should not rely on her for the rest of her life.

"If you don't rely on men, you have to be able to do it. Do you think your father is stupid. Any woman who is a little more fierce will be afraid?" Ye Yuran said, "The big mouth opposite is also quite fierce, but she

You are so fierce and incompetent, are you Uncle Yongning afraid of her?"

Zhu Bamei was silent: It turned out that Uncle Yongning was indeed very proud of Big Mouth, but in recent times, Uncle Yongning almost gave Big Mouth a break.

But it’s not like her mother said, “It’s useless to be fierce.”

"Then," Zhu Bamei asked with a heavy heart, "How can we be able to hold the man?"

"Do you know what your father is most afraid of is me?"

"What?"

"Can your father farms better than me?"

Zhu Bamei: "..."

"When my family was so poor that I couldn't bear it, who found something to fill my stomach for the family?"

Zhu Bamei: "..."

"Also, who is the one who supports these money-making businesses at home now?"

Zhu Bamei: "..."

...

Several questions made Zhu Bamei’s mind more and more clear.

I used to think that her mother was "awesome", but now I know where this kind of power is.
Chapter completed!