Chapter 877 The two looked at each other and sighed heavily
"I knew, this is what Mom means." Zhu Wu smiled, "Isn't that what Mom said just now? I will do whatever she said. I cooperated with you very much. I also greeted my fourth brother and the others and asked them to cooperate... Mom, our acting skills are not bad, right?"
"Lin, is there anyone staring at me?" Ye Yuran had a hint of disgust on the corner of her mouth and did not answer her words.
Zhu Wu nodded: "I asked Bamei to help me stare."
"Yeah!" Ye Yuran nodded, "Lin's place, please keep an eye on it. If anything is wrong, you can help her make a roundabout way. No matter what, she is also your wife. You two will have to live your life slowly in the future. While you are young, you can still change it. All the time you should do is to get it done. When the child is born, you don't have to heat it up again, and it will be boring at that time..."
"I know what Mother means. Don't worry, I will definitely pay attention to the methods in the future, communicate more, and use less violent means." Zhu Wu did not expect that he was seen by his mother after he attacked Lin a few times.
On the surface, his mother didn't say anything, but in private, she still reminded him a few words - she is your wife now and your child's mother in the future. Do you think your child will be happy to see his mother beaten by his father?
He directly imagined the scene of Old Man Zhu attacking her.
Zhu Wu: “…”
He couldn't imagine it because his father didn't have the courage at all.
Not to mention not, even if there is, his father dares to take action, and the few sons who are sons can secretly "tie" his father.
Zhu Da and Zhu Er may be afraid of Old Man Zhu's identity as "father", worry about filial piety, and be polite to Old Man Zhu, but after he and his fourth brother knew that Old Man Zhu had "outsider", they immediately could not be "respectful".
There are so many people in the family, and they have been relying on his mother for so many years. After finally living a little better life, his father has a "outside heart". Isn't this "ungrateful"?
Such a father is like a coward and he still makes trouble, so it’s better not to worry about it!
"Actually, Lin's problem is not that she likes to interfere in her parents' affairs, but that she is too dependent on others. I will grow old in the future. If you have the ability to intervene, she can handle it at home and outside the family, take it all, and help you make it clear, that's fine." Ye Yuran expressed his opinion, "As long as she can revitalize the entire family, it is her ability, but without this ability, she still wants to intervene, that's wrong."
She gave a few examples directly, one of which was the story of a good old man.
It is said that there was a man who was a constable in the yamen and received a stable salary. It is logical that after marrying a wife and having children, life should be easy, right?
However, he had just received his salary and lent it to others without any heat.
He is indeed really enthusiastic. As long as someone shouts from his neighbors, he will immediately go to help others. Sometimes he is so busy that he doesn't even care about his family.
"Do you think such a person is a good person? Should he be blessed?"
Zhu Wu pinched his nose. He didn't think his mother gave this example to persuade him to do more good deeds. He said, "Although I don't know what's wrong, my mother actually said it. There must be something wrong."
"Of course there is a problem." Ye Yuran said with a cold face, "He is enthusiastic, has done good deeds, and has paid to outsiders and time is also given to outsiders. What about his family?"
She thought Zhu Wu could imagine that when the roof of his house leaked and he needed to find someone to repair it, but he was helping others outside; when the water in the house was finished, he had to carry a load of water, but he was still helping others outside; when his wife found that there was no rice in the rice jar and wanted to buy rice with money, but he lent all the money to others; when the child was sick, others were not there, and there was no money...
"I clearly married a man who was a constable, but lived like no man. What is the difference between this life and a widow at the village head? No, I'm afraid it's even worse. At least no one in the widow's family will take the things from the house to supplement the outsiders. But this woman who married the constable still had to guard against the thief, preventing the constable from taking the things from the house to the outsiders. Can you live this life?"
Zhu Wu: "...Mom, is this a little exaggerated?"
The expression on his face was a little unsustainable.
Is that normal people can do?
Others are pulling things at home. In the example he gave, the constable gave everything at home to outsiders. This is "only leaving but not going in", so it would be strange if he could live.
"It's a little exaggerated, but don't you think Lin's signs are there? She can figure out other things clearly, but when she encounters her parents' affairs, she doesn't say anything or considers her own situation, she wants to help... Her mind is that it's her parents' family, relatives, and others are not as good as hers, so she has to help. In the long run, wouldn't you become the woman who married the constable in the story?"
"Impossible." Zhu Wu immediately denied, "Mom, I'm not stupid. If Lin really dares to move things to outsiders all the time, I will definitely deal with her."
"Human hearts are all flesh. Everyone has times of difficulty. It is human nature to help each other, but helping others depends on your ability. Only when you have the ability can you help others outside of your ability, but you have to sacrifice yourself and even the interests of your family, that's not possible." Ye Yuran said, "You have to have a scale in your heart. Not only do you have to have it, but you also have to let Lin have it, and teach her to distinguish between inside and outside."
Ye Yuran was determined to do this and did not interfere directly, allowing Lin to "trot" himself.
With her behind the scenes and Zhu Wu staring next to each other, Lin must realize the difficulty of "helping" others, and also solve this problem as perfectly as possible.
To be honest, Ye Yuran also sympathized with Lu Daya, Lu Erya, and Lu Sanya, but she had to be the first "level".
Not only to just give a bowl of water, but also to make Lin and Lin's family realize that the Zhu family is willing to help you, that is affection; if you don't want to help you, that is duty.
We must also make them realize what Lin "sacrificed" for them.
There are not so many things taken for granted in this world. Only the harder things to be obtained will be more cherished.
The mother and son discussed it in the room for a while.
Li ran in and out, sent two trips of water, and finally finished the conversation here.
She was very obedient today. Looking at Ye Yuran's face without expression, she was very worried that the fire would "burn" on her.
As a "popular person" in front of her mother-in-law, she also has to bear huge "risks".
As soon as she went out, Liu and Liu came over: "How about it, what's your expression now?"
Li shook his head: "I see, this time, my fifth brother and sister really fell into trouble. She really made my mother angry. I went in the past two times, but my mother's expression was not very good and she didn't want to see anyone at all."
Chapter completed!