After so many years, there may be a dispute between Xiao Xiuzhu and Lin Sanmei, but it has also been adjusted.

Xiao Xiuzhu may have other concubines, but he respects Lin Sanmei very much and never lets anyone step on Lin Sanmei's head.

Lin Sanmei may be angry that Xiao Xiuzhu has someone else, but she also knows that her family is not confident enough. She relies on her relationship with the Zhu family to firmly hold the position of the mistress of the Xiao family in Luanzhou.

Therefore, she was very angry and well prepared to get pregnant, and gave birth to the eldest grandson of the Xiao family.

When the child stands, Xiao Juren will carry him over to educate him.

Although Lin Sanmei couldn't bear to give up her children, she also knew that Juren Xiao's move was a valuation of his grandchildren.

She agreed to Xiao Juren's hug, but she also discussed with Xiao Xiuzhu, hoping that their first child would receive some education from the Zhu family school.

If there is no way to send the child to Zhujia Village, then let him copy the teaching materials and teach him by himself. If his father-in-law Xiao Juren is willing to teach, then yes, if he doesn't want to, Xiao Xiuzhu will have to find a way to do it himself.

"I know that the Xiao family also has its own school and knows how to teach children. I don't want to interfere, but look at my third brother and the others, they are all raised by my aunt..."

Lin Sanmei had an example to tell Xiao Xiuzhu that the Zhu family’s education was not bad, otherwise she would not be able to teach such talents.

"I don't understand those great principles, but I know that if my aunt is so good at teaching children, then the teaching rules she set will definitely not be bad, and we can learn them."

Xiao Xiuzhu nodded and agreed very much.

Perhaps Xiao Juren was a little hesitant at the beginning, but as the price of the Zhu family increased, he saw that the fourth generation of the Zhu family also rose, so he no longer forced himself and adopted the teaching model of some Zhu family schools.

This time, Xiao Xiuzhu and Lin Sanmei went to Beijing, and he asked them to bring the children together without saying a word. First, the teaching resources in Beijing are better, second, Mrs. Zhu is in Beijing, and third, you can take advantage of it.

This opportunity allows the younger generation below to interact with each other and establish a certain emotional foundation.

Besides, if relatives do not interact frequently, they will fade over time and need to be maintained with care.

Lin Sanmei didn't say anything about Xiao Xiuzhu's concubine, and Ye Yuran couldn't say anything. After listening for a while, she didn't interfere rashly.

In addition to the strange rules of the Zhu family, people at that time did like three wives and four concubines. It seems that only in this way can they "have many children and have more blessings."

No matter how long Lin Sanmei can give birth, she will never be able to joke about her body. Therefore, after giving birth to her third child, she discussed with Xiao Xiuzhu and started contraceptive.

She avoided her and the concubine began to give birth.

Although he didn't understand, Ye Yuran understood that this was Lin Sanmei and Xiao Xiuzhu each took a step back - she wanted to contraceptive and no longer had children; the Xiao family wanted to have more children and more blessings, so she let others have children.

I can't say which one of them is wrong or who is right, I can only say...

Time can change everything.

It turned out that Lin Sanmei was concerned about such things, but as time went by, her ambition made her focus on other things, so she didn't mind that much.

On the contrary, Xiao Xiuzhu was a little unhappy and had a fight with her for a while.

It's funny to say that I wanted him to accept it. If she really accepted it, she wouldn't care. Instead, he became jealous and felt that she didn't care about him anymore.

Lin Sanmei: “…”

You want to accept it yourself, blame me?

You have to be busy with something, don't I?

They have quarreled and made a fuss. The relationship between the two has not disappeared, but the more they quarreled, the better and more, and they are clearer and clearer.

The concubines in the backyard really didn't affect Lin Sanmei at all. Xiao Xiuzhu took them away and gave birth to a child. There was no way. Although his family did not have the throne to inherit, someone would always need to help him fight a huge family business.

reason.

If you give birth to a daughter, it can still be used to marry.

What are Lin Simei and Yu Shi...

There are many rules for scholars. Although there is no rule that a man can only take a concubine without a child when he is forty, he is not the kind of person who likes to give concubines to his sons and daughters-in-law.

It is Lin Simei's wife who is Yu Shi's own, and he likes another one, so he has some opinions. Therefore, after Lin Simei got married, she was somewhat embarrassed by Mrs. Yu.

Fortunately, Lin Simei was smart and after she gained a firm foothold in the Yu family, she gradually dispelled Mrs. Yu's dislike for her.

She had also worked with Yu Shi, but unlike her third sister, she had a fight with Yu Shihui because she had a concubine crawled into Yu Shi's bed, which made Yu Shi realize that Lin Simei didn't love him as much as he thought.

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This is probably how men always like to be more and more frivolous.

When I just got married, I thought it would be enough to marry someone I like. Later, I found out that someone else was better, so I was so greedy that I wanted to get more.

What makes Lin Simei smarter than Lin Sanmei is that she gave Yu Shi a choice. If she wants all her sincerity, she can grow up in her aunt's house and gets into monogamous...

If that were the case, if he had another woman, she would be sad and cry, and she would not be an impartial and highly qualified mistress of the family.

Because love is selfish, if you fall in love with each other, you will no longer be able to withstand a grain of sand in your eyes.

If he can't give her all the sincerity, then she will keep some of it, and will still be a good wife, the mother of the child, and even the future mistress of the Yu family. He will not be distracted by the backyard.

It’s not that she doesn’t like him, but that she is not only his wife, but also the mother of the children, his future partner to fight side by side.

She couldn't give him all her heart, so she wouldn't be able to do so well.

Yu Shi calmed down in the study for a month and finally chose his previous life.

Ye Yuran did not make any comments on the lives of the two, but only asked them how they felt they were living now? Is this the life they wanted?

Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei thought about it for a while and felt that perhaps there was a little difference from the life they imagined, but most of them were practical.

The two looked at each other and nodded slightly.

Ye Yuran smiled and said, "Since it is the life you want, don't worry about how the outside world looks at you. Just live a happy life. What do you want to be happy in this life?

Just like my uncle and he lived with him, I lived with mine, others thought I felt very wronged, but now I do whatever I want. The whole family is my decision, and how many people have me freely

Where is freedom?”

"Life cannot be perfect. Just grasp the most important thing."

...

After saying that, Ye Yuran kept them at home for dinner before letting them go.

With my own family and two family members, the huge yard is almost impossible to sit still.

Looking at this prosperous appearance and thinking about other people who were still in Zhujia Village, for some reason, Ye Yuran remembered the Grand View Garden in "Dream of Red Mansions".

Of course, her broken garden must not be able to withstand the Grand View Garden. She just thinks that there are too many people. Mrs. Jia has two sons, and their houses are not rich, but their sons, grandsons, granddaughters, and granddaughters...

…

Adding up, the people in the yard gather together is a reunion and lively scene.

Even though the Jia family ended up a bit miserable, I don’t know how many generations the Zhu family can pass on.

Thinking about the family rules she made, the clan rules she urged the clan leaders and the education they are working on, Ye Yuran felt that she could do it. If the Zhu family fails like this, she can't blame her.
Chapter completed!