Chapter 1755 Your third aunt is also a common person
"Why is it impossible? Your third aunt is not a fairy in the sky, she is also a plain person."
Liubao Zhu Mingyue defended the third aunt Xu Yujin. Although she also wanted to give birth to a son, those people were not sick and did not say that they would ignore it for the sake of giving birth to a son.
"That's right. Before your third uncle became an official, your third aunt married him and followed him to the local government to become an official. The couple shared it with each other. Later, when your third uncle became higher and higher, she
You are not afraid of honor and disgrace. Only when it comes to having a child, your third aunt suffered a lot..."
Ye Yuran gave this example, and wanted to tell her with facts that even if she was born like Xu Yujin, who seemed virtuous and virtuous, and very perfect women would be worried about giving birth. This is what people at that time think about giving birth.
In other words, this is the reality, no one does not focus on childbirth.
It is her eight aunt Zhu Bamei who seems to be free and easy, free and carefree, but she has suffered a lot of difficulties from getting married to having children.
"She must get married before the age of eighteen, otherwise she will be guilty according to the law of Dayan."
"According to the eyes of people at the right time, your eight aunt is both virtuous and virtuous, and is not a good wife. If she hadn't met your eight aunt, she would have set up a female household now."
"What is a good wife in the eyes of people of the times? Just like your third aunt, you are the only one who is your third uncle, and you will not show up..."
"In the years when your eighth aunt was not born, she followed me outside. In fact, there were always people talking about gossip. But your eighth aunt was open-minded and generous. Not only did you tolerate your eighth aunt, but you also tried every means to deal with Mrs. Rong and talked for your eighth aunt.
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"It can be said that your eighth aunt can have a good relationship with Mrs. Rong, and it is all due to your eighth aunt. Now, you may have to have one more one, that is, your eighth aunt can give birth to a pair of twins."
"You see, fertility is so important."
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If there were no such twins, even if Rong Qi could tolerate Zhu Bamei for a long time, the Rong family would not be able to bear it. Even now, the Rong family probably had some grudges towards Zhu Bamei, just because Rong Qi and his two children
In terms of fact, coupled with the strength behind the Zhu family, I can tolerate it.
Yes, that's right.
Whether a family can tolerate depends on whether you have the value of letting him to endure.
Zhu Bamei has it, so they endured it.
"Your mother should have told you that she hopes you learn from your eighth aunt, not your third aunt." Ye Yuran looked at the eyes of Liubao Zhu Mingyue, and all the thoughts of Liubao Zhu Mingyue disappeared without a shadow.
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She nodded and said that she thought so too.
I am a little greedy. Not only do I want to be a person like Zhu Bamei, but I also want to be like Xu Yujin, I am proficient in everything and full of talent.
"This is not a conflict." Ye Yuran smiled, "Your mother wants you to be like your Bagu, because she hopes that you can be as straight as your Bagu, and be free and free even if you marry someone, and be yourself
What you want to do. If you want to do this, you need to have the strength of independence like your eight aunt, both good at economics and independent. You want to be proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting like your third aunt, but you just learn more
The talents that you are interested in can improve your quality of life."
After receiving Ye Yuran's approval, Liubao Zhu Mingyue breathed a sigh of relief.
I just heard my grandma say something, but she was afraid that she would be unhappy about her third aunt. She learned from her third aunt, not because of her virtuous and kindness, but because of her talents and demeanor, which made people
Like a breeze.
"If you can neutralize them, on the surface, like your third aunt, but your eighth aunt's inner body, that would be the most perfect. A gentle knife is also a good knife, neither showing its sharpness, but also hiding it in the face of the body.
In the dark, you can also hold real power and solve all problems quietly. That is the real plan and victory thousands of miles away." Ye Yuran felt a little regretful. She would not be able to do this in her life.
There is no way, the time for her to travel through time is not good, the original owner is too famous and no one is in front of her, so if she doesn't get hard, the Zhu family will not be able to hold on.
Later, the sons grew up slowly, and she began to delegate power and stole the leisure.
But the reputation has gone out, and everyone knows that there is a powerful old lady in the Zhu family.
Ye Yuran looked at Zhu Mingyue, thinking about whether she could train her to become Zhuge, a girl, and fulfill her intentions?
Of course, the premise is that the granddaughter must have this ability and is willing to do so, otherwise it will be useless no matter how hard she wants, and she will not bother to spend this effort.
Liubao Zhu Mingyue's eyes lit up, and she almost wanted to nod to Ye Yuran because she just wanted to be that kind of person. She learned that she was neat and versatile, but her mother was too exposed and too prominent, and too
Her father can tolerate it, but if it were her other uncles, she might not be able to tolerate a woman like her mother.
After going out with her mother for so many times, she has never seen a woman who is too strong and has no trouble in her marriage.
Even her father made her restrained her. Some things should not be exposed casually, saying that women like her third aunt are the ones that the world likes.
Of course, her father didn't let her become a woman like Aunt San, but told her what others like. In front of outsiders, she would win half as long as she pretended to be able to coax people.
But Zhu Si's description was not clear enough. It was not until Ye Yuran spoke now that Liubao Zhu Mingyue outlined what she really wanted to be.
Ye Yuran chuckled softly and said, "Okay, your aunt Qi gave me a nanny before. I'll let her go by your side and let her be your tutoring nanny, so that you can be your magnanny.
If you come out, don’t think it’s too strict and it’s too hard. If you really can’t stand it, tell me again and I’ll transfer her back.”
"Yes, grandma. Don't worry, I will definitely study hard."
Rules, Zhu Mingyue, who has learned the six treasures, will definitely not be too bad.
Why do you have to transfer Madam Yan to her now?
Because on this side, Ye Yuran specially asked Princess Yaoyue for it. Whose family’s rules and demeanor can be compared with the Tian family?
Ye Yuran didn't want to use those things to bind the Six Treasures, nor did she want to teach the Six Treasures to be that rigid. What she wanted was the Six Treasures "understand".
Having a sword in her heart and having a sword in her hand are two different states. If she really wants to become a female Zhuge, she must overwhelm everyone in terms of rules and demeanor, so that people will not find any fault.
In addition, Madam Yan has served her favorite concubine. It is clearest how a woman can use her feminine advantages to see through the inside out like a ripe peach.
Ye Yuran didn't want Liubao to be a demon concubine, but what if he could become a charming woman, please herself, and at the same time, he could attract the heart of his future husband?
Although Zhu Bamei has not received such professional training, if her appearance is not outstanding enough, how can she attract Rong Qi's attention and then understand her inner self?
Besides, Zhu Bamei also hired a nanny to educate her at the beginning, but her skills were not as good as her current one.
Ye Yuran also agreed to Madam Yan in advance, mainly to see if Liubao has this qualification and her wishes, and cannot force it. Which step can be done, please follow the circumstances.
Madam Yan: “…”
Chapter completed!