"Mrs. Xia? Qingyi?"

Suddenly receiving a greeting from Li Qingyi, Zhu Bamei was very surprised and quickly asked someone to invite them in.

"Rong Qi, take a look at the child, I have guests coming to the door."

Rong Qi was reading the storybook, and when she heard Zhu Bamei speaking, she immediately put her mind down: "Okay, you go ahead, I'll keep an eye on the child. If you want to go out, just tell me."

"I know." Zhu Bamei simply cleaned up and felt that Li Qingyi was not an outsider, so she took the maid to the flower hall outside.

It's not that Zhu Bamei is stingy and doesn't let Li Qingyi enter her yard, it's just that the yard belongs to both children and men, so it's not convenient.

On the contrary, the flower hall is spacious, and my father-in-law and mother-in-law don't mind her using it, so it is more convenient there.

As soon as she saw Li Qingyi, Zhu Bamei's face showed a smile: "Qingyi, you have come to see me. After I returned to Beijing, you always said that you were busy and delivered things, but you never showed up. Why did you let me know?

Are you so busy?"

"It's not those things. I'm not you. I can go out whenever I want."

There was actually a hint of sourness in his tone.

Zhu Bamei was stunned for a moment, thinking she had heard wrongly, and quickly asked the maid to serve tea and snacks again.

He asked the waiter to go down, and soon there were only two people left in the flower hall.

"What's wrong with you? Why do I look at you? Something seems wrong with your expression?" Zhu Bamei was once running outside and she was also a busy person, so when Li Qingyi told her that she was busy, she didn't think much about it, but when she saw her today,

However, she felt that Li Qingyi's face was not as good as before, and there was also some sadness in her expression.

We have only been married for a few years, why do we look like withered flowers?

Didn’t Li Qingyi keep saying in her letters that she was very good?

"Alas..." Li Qingyi saw her concerned look and sighed softly, "I don't know if I'm good or not."

She couldn't tell Zhu Bamei about the troubles in the inner court. She only said that she had been married for many years and only gave birth to a daughter, so her husband's family was a little dissatisfied.

She also felt guilty in her heart.

"It's not your fault that you have a son or a daughter. You don't really believe those words and think that it's your problem that you can't have a son, right?" Zhu Bamei said, "As soon as I hit my little mother, you told me that women are the land, and this land

What can be grown in the ground depends on what kind of seeds a man sows. What does the birth of a boy or a woman have to do with a woman? If he cannot give birth to a son, it is also the man's responsibility. The woman only needs to be responsible for giving birth to the child safely."

Zhu Bamei really thought that Li Qingyi was like this because of the problem of having a boy or girl. Their family was quite special. Her mother liked daughters more, so the whole Zhu family also liked daughters more.

But sometimes this is the case, the more you think about something, the less it will come to you.

The Zhu family was looking forward to giving birth to a daughter, but what was born was a son.

So Zhu Bamei has grown up in such an environment since she was a child, and she really doesn't think having a boy or a girl is a problem.

After marrying Rong Qi, she just thought it would be better to have a son first, but if she really wanted to have a daughter, she wouldn't reject it.

Zhu Bamei was doing ideological work for Li Qingyi, hoping that Li Qingyi would calm down and not pay too much attention to such things.

She also asked Li Qingyi to talk to her husband properly after she went back.

Zhu Bamei's kindness fell into Li Qingyi's ears, but it seemed a bit ironic. It felt like standing and talking without pain in the back.

Li Qingyi felt that Zhu Bamei could say this because she gave birth to two sons at once?

If she gave birth to all daughters, if she tried, would she be able to say it so easily?

Li Qingyi shook her head: "Not to mention the unhappy ones, I came to you this time just to find out if you have any secret recipe for giving birth. Anyway, I have been married for several years, and I just gave birth to a daughter in one child.

, I don’t know what to do if I keep giving birth to a daughter. We had such a good relationship before, will you give it to me?"

"I didn't." Zhu Bamei said, "Did you misunderstand something? You don't really believe what those people outside say, do you?"

She wanted to touch her forehead.

Since she gave birth to twin boys, many people have indeed asked her about the secret recipe for giving birth, and they always feel like the Zhu family has some big treasure.

But there really isn’t.

It was a complete accident that she would give birth to twins.

She also didn't know she would give birth to twins.

"Didn't I give you a manual when you got married? Just use it according to the manual. If you want to avoid pregnancy, avoid those fertile days. If you want to get pregnant, just focus on those days...

...But whether I can get pregnant or whether I am pregnant with a son or a daughter, there is really no way. Don’t listen to the nonsense outside. If there was such a prescription, my obstetrics and gynecology hospital would have been diagnosed early."

"Really not?"

Zhu Bamei shook her head: "No, we have such a good relationship, why would we lie to you?"

"It's just because we have a good relationship that I'm afraid you'll lie to me."

Zhu Bamei was surprised: "Why do you think so?"

She knew that her relationship with Li Qingyi had faded in the past few years, but... it wouldn't be like this, right?

Li Qingyi's expression didn't mean that. She stared at Zhu Bamei and confirmed again: "You really didn't lie to me?"

Zhu Bamei realized something: "No. There has never been such a thing in our family. Just look at my second sister-in-law and third sister-in-law. Not everyone in our family can have children. My second brother, second sister-in-law, third brother and third sister-in-law are also married.

We have been waiting for a child for many years. If our family really has one, why don’t we use it in our own family?"

"Maybe it's to deceive others."

Zhu Bamei was speechless: "How can I cover up my second sister-in-law and my third sister-in-law in such a hurry? My third brother asked for leave for my third sister-in-law to relax, and the news spread all over the capital."

Li Qingyi said nothing.

Indeed, she heard about it at that time and thought that the men in the Zhu family were quite good. It was a pity that her mother did not like the Zhu family. Her brother had settled with another family, and she had also settled with another family.

"You came here today just for this recipe, right?"

Li Qingyi hesitated for a moment and nodded.

"Alas..." Zhu Bamei sighed and reached out to hold Li Qingyi's hand, "Why do women bother women? Don't talk about our relationship. Even if we don't know each other, I don't need to lie to you. If you have it, you have it, if you don't, you have it.

No. When you get married, I will give you everything I should give you. I just hope that you can live happily in the future... Qingyi, don't you think you are going astray?"

"Going astray?"

"Well! You weren't like this before. The value of a woman should not be determined by the boy or girl she was born with. You are you first, and then someone else's wife and mother. Whether a person is happy or not is not determined by these external things.

The decision is made, you have to know what you want. Is it really that important not to have a son?"

"...Isn't it important? No one doesn't want to have a son. Only by giving birth to a son can a woman's status in her husband's family be stable. Otherwise, no one will look down on you."

Zhu Bamei looked at Li Qingyi's serious eyes and felt a little incredible.

Even if others think so, does Li Qingyi think so too?

Is she serious?!

"No, the stability of a woman's status in her husband's family does not depend on her son, but on you. If your husband respects you enough and is willing to protect you, it doesn't matter even if you don't give birth. No one can bully you.

Qingyi, you seem to have lost yourself!"

Li Qingyi looked into Zhu Bamei's eyes and said after a while: "Shujing, it's not that I have lost myself, but that we have never been in the same world. You always said before that I was like living in an ivory tower, surrounded by others.
Chapter completed!