Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei were raised by the Zhu family, but after all, their surname was not Zhu, so it was enough to choose a husband from a decent family, and there was no need to look too high.

But it was different when it came to Zhu Bamei.

At this time, the Zhu family's family status was higher, and she also had a brother who was about to become the consort. Naturally, the status of her future husband's family couldn't be too low.

Xu Yujin wanted to be perfect, so she chose a good one.

Unexpectedly, at such a critical moment, the affairs of the Wo and Hao families would arise, causing the wealthy families in the capital to kick Zhu Bamei out of the marriage market.

well……

Regardless of whether they like her or not, they are not willing to consider Zhu Bamei in the first place. What will be the follow-up later?

No.

"I don't blame you for this..." Zhu San said, "My mother and Bamei know well about Bamei's marriage. Bamei is already mentally prepared to set up a female household. We will see if we find the right one. Really

No, it’s not that there’s no way out, you don’t have to feel too much psychological pressure.”

"You put it lightly!" Xu Yujin interrupted him and said, "You are a son. If you can't do it, my mother won't say anything. But I am the daughter-in-law. If I don't do it, it means I haven't tried my best. I can't do it."

To make people gossip..."

"Mom is not such an unreasonable person."

"It's not that mother is unreasonable, it's how it looks from the outside." Xu Yujin said, "I am the Zhu family's daughter-in-law, the eldest sister-in-law. If the second sister-in-law is not here, I am the face of the Zhu family in the capital, and every move I make is watched. 8

There are also people who are keeping an eye on my younger sister’s marriage. They just want to see what I am capable of. If I can’t even handle my sister-in-law’s marriage, just wait. They will definitely look down on me even more. Looking down on me means looking down on me.

Look down on the Zhu family, look down on you, do you understand?"

Madam diplomacy is not only a matter between ladies, but also involves all aspects.

Otherwise, whose wife always likes to attend such non-nutritious parties when she has nothing to do?

Isn't it just to exchange news and test each other?

Which one is gaining momentum and which one is declining can be known by attending a few gatherings.

Sometimes a man will tell his wife something that is difficult to say in a family situation and reveal it during the party.

Before the incident between the Wo and Hao families came out, due to the relationship between Zhu San and Zhu Qi, Xu Yujin and Zhu Bamei were "hot guests" at parties, and they would be invited to every party to show their faces.

If they are close to officials from the Ministry of Revenue or related to the royal family, they will be in the center of the topic and become very popular.

As a result, after the incident between the Wo and Hao families came out...

Just don’t mention it.

Zhu San knew that Zhu Bamei's marriage had put pressure on Xu Yujin, but he didn't expect that it would put such great psychological pressure on her. She felt distressed and helpless for a while.

"It's not that serious."

"Only a useless man would leave the rise and fall of a family to a woman. You are my wife, and we are one and the same. I should be the one protecting you."

"If others give you a bad look, it's my failure as a man and my lack of ability."

"Whether the eighth sister can live a good life in the future has nothing to do with whether she marries or not. If we brothers have the ability, even if she never marries, she will still be able to straighten her back, which is indescribable.

Just a casual word."

…

It was comforting, but Zhu San was also concerned about Zhu Bamei's marriage dilemma, and silently went over it in his heart.

well……

Zhu Bamei is his biological sister, how can he not care about her marriage?

Even if Xu Yujin didn't need to say anything, Zhu San had already picked around him.

It's a pity that when he picks it up, he always finds faults. He doesn't like it, so how can he hand it to Ye Yuran and Zhu Bamei?

Because of this, he couldn't choose anyone.

"Is it so difficult for eighth sister to get married?"

Zhu Liu was very surprised when he heard this.

He thought that with the names of his third brother and seventh brother, Zhu Bamei's marriage would be easy, right?

There must be many people in the capital who want to marry Zhu Bamei.

Zhu San rolled his eyes: "There are quite a few people who want to marry the eighth sister, but we also have to be attractive to them. The problem now is that we won't marry the people we like, and we don't like the ones we like.

There were groups of people.”

"What exactly is Bamei looking for? I don't think Bamei is picky. She can read well and can chat with Bamei. The family has a small income and won't starve Bamei.

That’s almost it.”

"You put it simply." Zhu San asked, "How to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? When a daughter-in-law gets married, the person she gets to know day and night is not a man, but the mother-in-law, other women in the backyard. If the mother-in-law is not enlightened, the eighth sister will be punished when she marries her.

Take the pain.”

Zhu Liu touched his nose with a sly expression.

He hasn't gotten married yet and hasn't thought it through thoroughly, so he really hasn't thought about this issue.

"Otherwise, find someone without elders?"

"Generally, those who have no elders are either orphans, or their family fortunes have been disrupted, and they have no one to help them... Marrying the eighth sister is simply targeted poverty alleviation."

"If you have elders, you are afraid of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If you don't have elders, you talk about targeted poverty alleviation. So tell me, what kind of person are you looking for?"

"The elders in the family are enlightened."

Zhu Liu choked: "..."

Why does he feel that his third brother doesn't want Zhu Bamei to get married at all?

They should stop being so picky. What would be difficult for Zhu Bamei to get married?

In his army, there are many who cannot find a wife.

Zhu Liu stuffed Zhu San with a stack of lists on the spot and let him pick whatever he wanted.

Zhu San was speechless for a while: "..."

Has this kid become a soldier and become a fool?

They are marrying girls, not maids in the palace.

He glanced at Zhu Liu and thought that he was stupid for taking such a trip.

At night, this list fell into Ye Yuran's hands.

"So, you went to find the sixth child?" Ye Yuran raised his eyebrows.

"Hmm! I thought he could help."

"Things like marriage...can't be rushed. If you don't have the fate, you can't get together no matter how hard you try. If you have the fate, you don't need to intervene, and they will naturally get together."

"Mom, the eighth sister will be eighteen soon. We have to get engaged in advance and marry her off after a while. In other words, we have to settle this matter at least when the eighth sister is seventeen, otherwise

If the engagement and marriage are too close, people will laugh at you." Zhu San added, "Of course, unless you are really planning to let the eighth sister have a female household."

Ye Yuran still didn't think much about this.

Although she knew that Zhu Bamei would not let herself suffer a bad life if she established a female household, but after all, female households were a new thing and belonged to the "minority" of this era.

A small number of people means that Zhu Bamei will have a hard time in the future.

Ye Yuran wanted to give Zhu Bamei freedom, but she was reluctant to let Zhu Bamei suffer the "suffering" of freedom.

Sometimes it is so contradictory, and over and over again, I suddenly feel that it is good for Zhu Bamei to have a female household, so that she can choose the life she wants.

After a while, I felt that she was still like the women of this era. She found a suitable person to marry. She seemed ordinary and ordinary, but she could live a stable life without having to work so hard.

Ye Yuran didn't expect Zhu Bamei to make great achievements like her brother. She only hoped that Zhu Bamei could live a safe and happy life, that's all.

"well……"

Standing in the yard, Ye Yuran sighed heavily.

Gan Yixian stood beside her and said: "I remember you often told me that no one can replace anyone else, and only you can decide your own life. In this case, why don't you learn to 'respect' Bamei?"
Chapter completed!