On the contrary, when Zhu Bamei heard this, she was stunned: "Why must I go back to my hometown to establish a house? Can't I establish a house in the capital?"

"Do you want to establish a house in the capital?" Xu Yujin widened his eyes and couldn't believe it, "Eighth sister, do you know the meaning of establishing a female household? Once a female household is established, you can't get married, you can only recruit husbands... Generally, good men cannot be a son-in-law for others. Moreover, the matter of establishing a female household is only tested in Qingyuan County. I don't know what the specific situation is."

"It's okay for one year or two years, but what if it's three years or four years, seven years or eight years?"

"Eighth sister, with your age, it's impossible for you to wait that long."

...

Even if a daughter can be established, it is impossible to popularize the rule that Dayan’s daughter must marry before the eighteenth anniversary of the time being.

After all, if Zhu Bamei wants to stay, it is the fastest and most convenient to get back to Zhujia Village.

Of course, this is not the only reason.

Also, people who set up a female household usually have difficulties at home and are forced to set up only after they are forced to do so.

A good girl, which family will establish a female household when it’s okay?

Women are used as men, so the number of people taxes, family support, and all kinds of affairs are also borne by women themselves.

Instead, the men who were recruited into the house played the role of a woman and did not have to bear so much pressure.

In short, Xu Yujin always felt that starting a female household was a last resort. If Zhu Bamei really wanted to find a good husband's family, it would be better to get married.

"San Sister-in-law, I understand all of what you said, but you also know my personality. Do you think with my personality, I can tolerate my future husband taking concubines and seeing his in-laws' face?" Zhu Bamei said with a smile, "Those wealthy families look down on me, but I still look down on them. They have too many rules, and I don't like them. We don't even look down on each other, just right."

Xu Yujin didn't know how to make a decision for a moment, so she could only look at Ye Yuran for help, to see what her mother-in-law thought.

In fact, Ye Yuran was also a little surprised. She had thought that Zhu Bamei had the idea of ​​establishing a female household, but she was thinking of returning to Zhujia Village to establish her. Unexpectedly, Zhu Bamei had more ambitions than her and actually wanted to establish herself in the capital.

What Xu Yujin said is not unreasonable. Although Ye Yuran really wants his daughter to be independent and self-reliant and live without looking at others' expressions, if Zhu Bamei really set up a female household in the capital, then in the future...

It is really difficult to find a suitable husband’s family!

Then I can only take a step back and find a "tool person".

Ye Yuran didn’t think Zhu Bamei’s idea was so bad, but was worried that Zhu Bamei would be too young now and would regret it in the future.

She has not met the right person now, who said she will not meet him in the future?

When Ye Yuran received Xu Yujin's look of help, he raised his hand comfortably and said to Zhu Bamei: "Don't worry about establishing a female household. How many years are you still before you are eighteen years old? Let's take your time. If it really doesn't work, it's not too late to establish another one. What we have to consider now is not the issue of establishing a female household, but whether you have been in Beijing for so long, have you ever met someone you like?"

Zhu Bamei shook her head honestly: "No. None. No one. There is nothing you can look at? Mom, you don't know the rules of these wealthy families. Men and women don't get married. They are seven years old and have different seats. They treat their sons and daughters differently."

"Where is my son. As soon as he gets old, I'm afraid he will be damaged by the woman outside. What kind of maid is there, hurry up and arrange it."

"Where is my daughter, guarding this and that, like guarding against thieves, for fear that a man will approach her girl and defame her girl's name."

...

Zhu Bamei rolled her eyes and felt that these people were really too double-standard.

The daughter should be holy, like a white lotus; the son should be "informed and knowledgeable" so that he will not be attracted by temptations from outside.

In this way, how many of those sisters, their brothers and cousins, are there clean bodies and minds?

Except for Zhu San, the Zhu family, who got married for a second time due to special reasons, who did not marry her sister-in-law in a clean manner?

Zhu Bamei was used to seeing her sister-in-law and her brothers, so she naturally wanted to find someone similar.

As a result, she found out after entering the sister circle in Beijing...

When the young men in the capital reach a certain age, the elders in the family will arrange maids with each other. Only a very small number of families do not have such rules, this...

Is this just a big deal for her?

Zhu Bamei is furious.

"Mom, I don't want to choose from the capital. I think there is no one suitable for me here at all." Zhu Bamei said, "I haven't passed the door yet, and there are other women in his backyard, and I can't stand it."

"It should... not be like this for everyone, right? There are always a few good ones." Ye Yuran thought. Even if everyone's rules are like this on the surface, it is impossible for everyone to be like this.

Just like Gan Yixian, he also came from a big family, and I have never heard of him having a housemate or something.

Xu Yujin advised from the side: "Bao sister, don't worry, usually they will clean up people in the room before you get married. This is the rule. Only a small number of ignorant families will keep their eyes on the newlywed wife. If they can do it, you can find a reason to send those people..."

Before she could finish her words, Zhu Bamei raised her hand: "San Sister-in-law, this is either a question of whether to fight or not, I can't stand it. Let me give you an example. If my third brother had a few people in the room before you entered the door, would you feel comfortable?"

"Uh..." Xu Yujin tightened the veil in her hand.

If it were before, she would definitely say, it doesn’t matter, which one is not the rule?

But she and Zhu Sancheng have been married for many years and have been mixing oil in honey. They have never quarreled. If they suddenly get someone in, she will definitely feel uncomfortable.

Zhu Bamei understood when she saw Xu Yujin's expression and said, "Well? Don't do to others what you do not want others to do to you. The third sister-in-law is a veteran, and she must understand it. Think about my third brother's marriage before, and I think it was the one I used to call me... If others advise you to be generous, you may have overturned the cooking pot at home."

Xu Yujin: “…”

She dared not say this!

He looked at Ye Yuran carefully.

Even if she is jealous, uncomfortable, and quarrels with Zhu San, she will not be able to make trouble with her mother-in-law, right?

Ye Yuran laughed and said to Zhu Bamei: "Your third brother, third sister-in-law is fine, why are you saying such things? Are you quarreling? Your third brother, third sister-in-law is about to start arguing. Let's see how I deal with you."

Zhu Bamei stuck out her tongue: "I'm giving an example...San Sister-in-law, don't be angry, I apologize to you. I tell you, my third brother will definitely not have three wives and four concubines. If he had this intention, he wouldn't have refused before."

"I believe in Sanlang!" Xu Yujin felt a little sweeter in her heart.

Definitely not!

When he was in Qingyuan County before, so many people wanted to give Zhu San a woman, but didn’t he refuse?

I would rather be afraid of my wife's reputation on my back than accept it.

Later, her family made a fuss like that, and Zhu San confiscated it. Not only did Zhu San confiscate it, but her mother-in-law and Zhu Bamei also made the decision for her and refused to accept it.

Being able to marry into such a family is simply because she burned high incense in her previous life.

only……

Xu Yujin couldn't help but caress her stomach and became worried.
Chapter completed!