Chapter 1479 Mother and daughter quarrel
"You don't understand the situation at all. It's not that my mother-in-law can't control my father-in-law, it's that she doesn't want to control him at all. Do you think that women in the world are like you and can't live without a man?"
After shouting these words, Mrs. Xu's expression changed drastically.
Xu Yujin was frightened. She knew she had said the wrong thing and apologized quickly: "I'm sorry, mother, I didn't mean it... I just wanted to say that you don't understand the situation of the Zhu family, and it's wrong for you to say that. My father-in-law and
My mother-in-law is really not what you think. Everything about the Zhu family is entirely decided by my mother-in-law. Even my father-in-law’s four concubines were chosen by my mother-in-law herself and she cannot give birth to any of them."
To put it bluntly, Old Man Zhu is the "mascot" of the Zhu family, and he looks pretty.
"You don't have to worry about my father-in-law and mother-in-law. Mother, just look at her sons. The Zhu family really has a rule that a man who is forty years old can't take a concubine. Even if the second sister-in-law never got pregnant, the mother-in-law never urged the second sister-in-law.
.On the contrary, the second sister-in-law was anxious, and the mother-in-law comforted the second sister-in-law and took her to see a doctor. It was only later that she got the five treasures."
Xu Yujin said, "So, I don't understand why mother is so anxious."
Mrs. Xu shed tears and said: "I really do it for your own good. You don't understand... When I married your father, I couldn't get pregnant. Your grandma wanted her niece to be your father's concubine."
Later, your grandfather stopped me. Later, I took the initiative to take concubines for your father. After your eldest sister and the others were born, my life became easier..."
Xu Yujin stretched out her hand to wipe away the tears from the corners of Mrs. Xu's eyes, feeling helpless and distressed.
Even if she gets angry again, she is still her mother.
The hardships her mother suffered when she was young were also suffered by children like them.
"You don't understand, you really don't understand. Mother is afraid that you will have no way out." Mrs. Xu shed tears and said, "Mother asked you to take a concubine. Even if the child did not come out of your belly, at least you have
If you hold on to your concubine’s bond of sale, she will not dare to disobey you. But if your mother-in-law gave it to you or someone else forced it in, you won’t be able to handle it. If she gets the baby before you do,
You are the one who is going to suffer... When we were newly married, you were affectionate and I was affectionate, but no matter how deep the relationship is, it cannot withstand the passage of time or all kinds of gossip."
Mrs. Xu said that she really thought about Xu Yujin.
Do you really think that she is willing to send a niece from the family to be a concubine for her son-in-law, but she will not share the blessings of her daughter?
If the other party gave birth to a son before Xu Yujin did, what would Xu Yujin do?
How will Xu Yujin cope with the birth of the eldest son?
The worst thing is that Xu Yujin cannot give birth, or only gives birth to a daughter. Then Xu Yujin can only live by looking at other people's faces for the rest of her life.
Mrs. Xu said while crying.
"You are really not young anymore. Don't keep looking at the rule that a man must be 40 years old to take a concubine. You should look at your age and how many years it has been since you married into the Zhu family."
"Which family do you see where a young daughter-in-law has been married for several years without any news, and her husband's family is not in a hurry?"
"What young daughter-in-law doesn't compromise in the end?"
"When I was young, I always thought love and love were very important. But when you reach my age, you will understand that the interests in your hands are the most important. Because only by holding the interests in your hands can you keep them.
Only your own children can protect themselves and not be stepped on by others..."
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Mrs. Xu discussed with Xu Yujin that she would not send Xu Yourou to be Zhu San's concubine, but would it be okay to let Xu Yourou marry Zhu Qi?
She couldn't refuse the Xu family's idea.
Either a concubine or a sister-in-law, Xu Yujin had to choose.
"Mother..." Xu Yujin felt very uncomfortable. She shook her head, "No, Lao Qi is not engaged in name only. In fact... he has been engaged to someone for a long time. He is just waiting for the end of this spring to let that woman
... refers to marriage."
Xu Yujin clung to the word "meaning marriage".
Mrs. Xu couldn't help but squeezed Xu Yujin's hand: "She is also a daughter of a high family? Which family? Is the seventh child in their family so good at studying? I heard that he was dull and was not very popular with his husband in the Imperial College? That's it, there are some
A big family likes him?! He can't really have the talent to be the top pick..."
If that's the case, wouldn't the Xu family miss out on a potential stock?
Xu Yujin shook her head: "I can't say, anyway, I only know that he already has an engagement partner. Mother will know the details after the palace examination is over."
Mrs. Xu said thoughtfully, "Then do you think... we can snatch this marriage away?"
Xu Yujin was startled: "Mom, what do you mean?!"
"Although Young Master Zhu Qi has already had a verbal engagement with someone else, he has not yet been officially engaged, which means there is still room for change. If we use a trick to get Yourou to get engaged to Young Master Zhu Qi first, do you think it is feasible?
"
Xu Yujin was really scared to death by her mother.
Zhu San was still worried that Zhu Qi was being plotted before, so he asked her to help keep an eye on him after entering Beijing, but what will be the result?
Before she even entered Beijing, her parents were already targeting her?!
Oh My God!
That was the person that Princess Yaoyue was interested in. How dare her mother snatch her away?!
I'm afraid her mother is crazy.
Xu Yujin quickly shook her head: "Mom, no, that family... we can't afford to offend. If you dare to scheme, the Xu family will be doomed."
"The Gaomen is so high?! Which one is it? Those are the only ones in Beijing..." Mrs. Xu counted them one by one.
Xu Yujin was convinced: "You don't care who he is, mother only needs to know that Mr. Zhu Qi already has a marriage partner. It's not that our girl can't get married, she doesn't have to focus on the Zhu family. I believed it before
When you were watching, didn’t you still say that there was something like that…”
"When did that happen? They have been married a long time ago." Mrs. Xu said, "Do you really think that it is so easy to find a good family? Not only must the family be suitable, but also have a future. I told you a long time ago that let
You are not happy to marry into his family, and there is no point in regretting it now. At that time, you were going to marry into a high-ranking family, and it would be easier for the girls in the family to look good. You became the young lady of his family, which family cannot introduce you?"
Xu Yujin: "..."
So, her mother wanted her to marry into that family because she wanted to be a matchmaker?
Will she sacrifice her happiness for this?
Xu Yujin didn't want to talk and felt tired.
"If you can't marry Master Zhu Qi, then you have to ask Yourou to be your companion." Mrs. Xu looked at Xu Yujin and said, "I don't have to give you a concubine, but you don't want to look at you either.
Myself, you have been married for so many years without children. Even if the Zhu family doesn’t blame you now, what will happen if time goes by? In order to ensure the relationship between the Xu and Zhu families, we must add a protective lock. Don’t worry, Yourou, I’ve seen it.
That girl has just been brought back. She is weak and has no independent opinions. Apart from being pretty, she poses no threat to you..."
He even taught Xu Yujin that if it really didn't work, he would go to his mother to ask for a son.
Even if her fifth uncle wanted to blame him, she, the mother-in-law, would stop it for her.
Chapter completed!