Chapter 1452 Liu’s Sympathy
Just like back then, she was trying to trick her mother-in-law Ye Yuran.
At that time, wasn’t she still making money for the second house?
After taking it, Zhu Er "shares" with her; if she didn't pick it up and was scolded by her mother-in-law Ye Yuran, it would be her "take the blame" alone.
Fortunately, she woke up later and did not touch her mother-in-law's bottom line, otherwise...
Li disagreed and said, "That's what she deserves. She chose men, and her children raised by them. Her men don't treat her as their own family. If something happens, she will take the blame. Her children are not in the same way as her, and if something happens, she will
Who can blame for hiding far away? Not all of it is her own responsibility? If she wants to be smarter, she should hide behind and let Sun Dashan stand out, rather than just her, a woman, run out.
Only when a man has no ability can his woman make his way forward."
After the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law finished speaking, Ye Yuran kept Zhu Bamei and asked her if she had any thoughts after reading today.
Zhu Bamei really has an idea. She thinks that the second and fourth sister-in-law are right.
On the one hand, Aunt Sun is indeed a "poor person", but her "poor" is not only sympathetic, but also self-inflicted. On the other hand, she is very failed in being a human being. Men are chosen by their parents, and she has no choice but to do so, but
Are children always her own?
As a result, Aunt Sun has been raising her for so many years, but no child has her in his heart, which is equivalent to raising three ungrateful wolves.
Also, Aunt Sun did not leave her a way out.
After today's incident, men blame her, children blame her, and even daughter-in-law blames her. In addition, her image in the village will be no good results in the future.
"What's the difference between women who are both strong and I compare with her?" Ye Yuran asked after hearing Zhu Bamei say.
Zhu Bamei was stunned for a moment. She had never compared Aunt Sun with her mother.
"Mom, how can she... compare with you? Even if she brings shoes to you, it's not enough..." Zhu Bamei had a little disgusted.
Ye Yuran smiled: "Why can't she compete with me?"
Zhu Bamei has a lot of reasons.
Aunt Sun prefers boys over girls, but she only knows how to take advantage of others. She is so stupid that she doesn't know what's good and bad... In short, there is nothing to be worthy of.
"What about me? What's the difference between me and her? Although I don't value boys over girls, I prefer girls over boys. Although I don't like to take advantage of others, I have a strong desire to control myself. Who do you brothers do not pinch?
In my hands? I also suppressed your father. I almost had the final say in the Zhu family..." Ye Yuran counted his "shorts".
Zhu Bamei immediately retorted: "How can this be the same? Mom, although you do spoil me, you did not treat my brothers badly. Which of my brothers above me has not been trained by you? It's Brother Seven, everyone
He said he was a fool, so why would you still send him to study and make him stand out? And…”
Zhu Bamei counts one by one.
Yes, she admitted that Ye Yuran was indeed a little "stronger".
But Ye Yuran's "being strong" is for their own good. Unlike Aunt Sun, she is selfish and harms others for their own benefit.
As Zhu Bamei counted one by one, Ye Yuran's smile became bigger.
"So...this is the difference between me and her, isn't it?"
Zhu Bamei was stunned for a moment. She seemed to understand what her mother meant.
"Mom means..."
Ye Yuran nodded: "It's also a woman who is strong, but how to stand out and where to be strong is all skills. Aunt Sun has been so strong all her life, but she has never fallen well because she is not strong right. Just like you
She said that she loves to take advantage of others, harms others and is selfish, and is selfish... She thought she did this for the sake of her man and her son, but she never thought about whether the other party appreciates everything she did, whether the other party would like to follow.
She has a heart.”
The most important thing about Aunt Sun is not her "badness". What she did, but that she didn't see the situation clearly.
She only thought how much contribution she had made to the Sun family, and thought that the other party would appreciate it, but the fact is...
Her man and her son enjoyed the benefits, but her reputation was all over her.
"Women can be not smart enough or not so capable, but they must figure out who is the backbone of this family and what kind of role she wants to play." Ye Yuran looked into Zhu Bamei's eyes and said, "
No matter what the situation is, you should not put yourself in a dangerous place."
She even took Zhu Bamei's eldest sister-in-law Liu, second sister-in-law Liu, and fifth sister-in-law Lin as examples.
Among these sisters-in-laws, Ye Yuran asked Zhu Bamei who she likes the most?
Is this a matter of course, it is the fourth sister-in-law Li and the third sister-in-law Xu.
Zhu Bamei said.
Ye Yuran asked: "What do you like about them?"
"The fourth sister-in-law is very smart, very good at dealing with things, and is versatile..." When it comes to the fourth sister-in-law Li, Zhu Bamei can find countless advantages.
And the third sister-in-law Xu Yujin...
She is a daughter of aristocratic clan, and is different from these peasant wives. Whether it is from the background or Xu Yujin's talent, Zhu Bamei is very proud of her.
Therefore, although Xu Yujin sometimes becomes a little spoiled, likes to show off her airs, or has some family style, Zhu Bamei can understand it.
As long as it is not a matter of principle, I will not be bothered with her third sister-in-law.
Zhu Bamei said, and Ye Yuran said, "Is that true? Then what are the differences between your eldest sister-in-law, your second sister-in-law, and your fifth sister-in-law?"
This is simple, Zhu Bamei can give a lot of examples.
She has also seen it for so many years. What are the shortcomings of the eldest sister-in-law, the second sister-in-law, and the fifth sister-in-law? Can she still not know?
The one I hate most is my sister-in-law Liu, who is confused and can't tell the difference between inside and outside.
My ears were soft and I had no opinion. Even though I knew that my parents' home was just using her, I couldn't clean it up. After a while, I got fucked back.
Otherwise, her mother Zhu Bamei would not have "divided" the big room alone in anger.
Even so, after learning a lesson for a while, his sister-in-law Liu could not stand the "good words to persuade" from her parents' home, and then...
Zhu Bamei was almost convinced.
If it weren't for the sake of Dabao and Erbao's face, she would sometimes really not want to pay attention to this stupid sister-in-law.
The second sister-in-law Liu is fine. She used to like to take advantage of their family and secretly support her parents' family.
But after the birth of the Five Treasures, no matter how stupid the second sister-in-law Liu knew that she would protect the second house. Although she would still take care of her parents' home secretly, she would not do too much.
Zhu Bamei is also a daughter, so she naturally knows that a person who is a daughter also wants to take care of her parents. Therefore, she can accept the things that her second sister-in-law Liu does, whether emotionally or rationally.
The fifth sister-in-law Lin’s side...
Zhu Bamei said that the fifth sister-in-law Lin did have a bit of a wool snatching. Just because her mother Ye Yuran was soft-hearted, she stuffed her two sisters and three nieces into her mother Ye Yuran's hands.
, directly decided to the Zhu family.
To be honest, Zhu Bamei was actually a little unhappy with so many mouths of eating rice at home.
But this is emotional and rationally, Zhu Bamei can understand the fifth sister-in-law Lin.
Just think about it, my mother died, my father was in prison, and there was no reliable relative in my mother's family. My eldest sister Lin and sister were married unreliable. It seemed that besides relying on the Zhu family, my fifth sister-in-law Lin could find out what she could do.
Chapter completed!