Zhu Bamei has less to think about - because she is an independent individual. It is she who chooses others, not others who choose her.

Zhu Bamei's heartbeat was a little faster, feeling that this was Ye Yuran's best compliment to her.

But at the same time, she was also a little flustered, because she really didn't expect that one day she would be able to be her own master.

In fact, her goal is very simple, that is, to "save money" and save more money. Only by holding the "economic power" that her mother said, will she have the confidence to get married in the future, and will not

Being bullied by her husband's family.

All Zhu Bamei wants is that after she gets married, she won't be pressured by others and have to listen to others in everything.

"Then...if that's the case, wouldn't it be harder for me to choose?" Zhu Bamei said, "When the third sister and the fourth sister get married, they need to cooperate with others, and they are also ready, but when it comes to me

Here...Mom, do you really think there will be men willing to 'cooperate' with me?"

"It is indeed a bit difficult," Ye Yuran had to admit, "but no matter how difficult it is, are you afraid? What do you think is the worst outcome?"

Zhu Bamei thought for a while and said: "I can't get married. In order to deal with the fine, I just find someone with a name, and then squeeze him to death, just like a servant in the family... Wait for the right time, and then

Becoming a widow. A widow does not need to remarry. It only takes a few years for me to continue living the life I am living now. But by then, some people may gossip and say that I am too strong, a gram, or something like that."

"It seems that you have thought clearly. In this case, what else do you have to fear?" Ye Yuran laughed, "You have already considered the worst outcome, what else do you think can defeat you?"

?”

"...I'm not sure there's a worse outcome than this."

"for example?"

"What if I want a child but can't find a suitable man, and I have to seek medical treatment..."

"Why do you have to give birth by yourself? Can't you adopt me?"

"Adopt?" Zhu Bamei tilted her head, "How can that be done? The person being adopted does not have my blood. I have earned so much money through hard work, wouldn't it be given to outsiders? No, no, I don't want to give it to outsiders."

"If you don't want to give it to outsiders, how about giving it to the Four Treasures?" Ye Yuran chose someone for Zhu Bamei.

Zhu Bamei was stunned for a moment: Yes, other children have parents, but the situation of the four treasures is special.

He is said to be the fourth brother and the fourth sister-in-law's child. The fourth brother and the fourth sister-in-law also love him, but after all, he is not the biological son of the fourth brother and the fourth sister-in-law. If it involves property issues in the future...

Also, my third brother is newly married, and they say that if you have a stepmother, you will have a stepfather.

Although the third brother will not "abuse" the four treasures, when the third brother and the new third sister-in-law have their own children, how much can they think about the four treasures?

"If your fourth brother and fourth sister-in-law are good people and don't treat Si Bao as an outsider, he will definitely be treated the same as San Bao. But your fourth brother and fourth sister-in-law have been busy for so long. Can't we let them work in vain? Give them a little bit.

There seems to be nothing wrong with the things. The most difficult thing among them is your third brother. Your third brother gave the things to Si Bao, which would be unfair to your third sister-in-law. But if you don’t give them, it will be unfair to Si Bao... So, I plan to give them to Si Bao.

Si Bao and your third sister-in-law leave something to compensate them."

"It's not impossible..." Zhu Bamei considered.

Before she could finish speaking, Ye Yuran smiled again: "Of course, my assumption is just that you have never met the right person and never had children. But this assumption is actually unreasonable.

Think about it, how old are you and how old are the four treasures? The age difference between you and the four treasures is not big. In other words, when you get old and the four treasures are old too, even if they inherit your property, they will not be able to inherit it for a few years.

, but it fell into the hands of his children."

"There's nothing you can do about it. Anyway, if you give it to the Four Treasures, you'll get the Four Treasures." Zhu Bamei said, "If it's good, I'll kiss the Dabao, the Second Treasure, and the Third Treasure, and they'll have to give a little..."

After such a search, Zhu Bamei discovered that even if she had no children in her life, there were still many people who could inherit her property.

I immediately felt relieved and felt that it didn't matter whether I had met such a person or not.

Seeing that she was relieved, Ye Yuran became worried instead, and reminded Zhu Bamei that that was the worst result, not the best result, so don't do it the other way around.

"I know, mother, don't worry, I won't do anything against you."

Ye Yuran was still worried and asked her if she had a favorite type and if she had thought about what kind of person she would marry in the future. It would be best to have a similar template around her for reference.

But Zhu Bamei thought about it and found few suitable ones.

Those people could always make her find countless faults.

Most of those who are of the right age and can come into contact with her are married and become fathers. If they are not married or engaged, they generally will not come to her.

Or, he is an uncle or grandfather who is more than ten or twenty years older.

"None of them want to introduce you to them?"

"Yes." Zhu Bamei answered very simply, "I don't like the second-generation ancestor in the family or the weakling. If I marry such a person, I might as well not marry. Even my mother, I'm afraid I won't like it.

.Those people are not even as good as dad."

If that was the case, Ye Yuran really couldn't say anything.

She already feels that Old Man Zhu is forced. If he is not as good as Old Man Zhu...

Forget it, Ye Yuran could only think about it in her heart, asking someone to help select more people, and see when a suitable one can be selected.

If it really doesn't work...

If that doesn't work, you can consider Zhu Bamei's "idea" - pick an obedient person and pass the court's laws first.

At this time, Ye Yuran felt the deep malice of the world - women must marry, and if you don't marry, it won't work. If you don't marry, you will be guilty.

Damn it, you have to marry even if you don’t have a suitable person.

If you don’t have the right person, the officials won’t mind “introducing” them to you.

I don't know what kind of person it will be paired with.

Thinking back to modern society, although there is no law that women must marry, but...if a woman doesn't marry, there is something wrong with you, or a woman's duty is to have children, and being a mother means being strong, etc. These are not all exploiting women.

?

When it comes to giving birth to a child, a man only needs to pay one sperm, and he can harvest a child ten months later.

But women are different. Women pay for ten months of pregnancy, as well as the "childcare" responsibilities that must be taken up during the growth of the child, housework, and filial piety to the man's parents.

What about the woman?

What about the woman herself and her parents?

The so-called good wife and mother must serve her parents-in-law well, take good care of her husband, educate her children well, and do all kinds of housework. She can do everything at home and outside the house. She is simply a "universal housekeeper", the kind who has no salary and has to have children.

As long as you fail to do anything well, it means that it is not a matter of virtue, but that you have failed at all and are not a good wife. Whoever marries this person will be unlucky for eight lifetimes.

Ye Yuran: "..."

And what about men?

What does he need to do?

As long as you can make money and support your family, that's enough.

As for whether he beats his wife, whether he has a woman outside, whether he owes gambling debts, etc., it doesn't matter at all.
Chapter completed!