She was originally a high-spirited person. If she didn't even have the ability to solve difficulties, then she married into the Xiao family... she would be like a sheep entering the tiger's mouth and would never look back.

But, do you really have to give up?

No!

Lin Sanmei can't do it.

Perhaps, she did not love Master Xiao so deeply, but she was moved by her heart. She couldn't deny it. This was one of them.

The second is the reason she just said - if she missed Master Xiao, she is afraid she will never meet such a good man again.

Originally, she and Lin Simei came to Pushou City to "climb". Now she has finally met one, how could she give up easily?

Lin Sanmei bit her lip: "I understand, but I still ask my aunt to teach me. I know I am stupid and I am not as smart as the fourth sister, but I am not afraid. Even if I can't fight them one day and are plotted to death by them, as long as I work hard, I will not regret it."

Lin Simei tightened her hand holding the veil, feeling a little worried.

But Lin Simei didn't speak because she knew that this was the path her third sister had to go and she couldn't help her.

It would be fine if she could marry into Pushou City together. If her fate was not here, she would be separated by 100,800 miles, and if the third sister didn't stand up by herself...

Ye Yuran smiled softly, reached out to touch Lin Sanmei's hair, and said, "You... OK, my aunt knows that you have ambitions. It's not scary to have ambitions. What's scary is that you only have ambitions but don't have the strength to match your ambitions. Compared with the fourth sister, you are indeed not as smart as the fourth sister, but you also have your own advantages."

Lin Sanmei's eyes suddenly lit up: "What are my strengths?"

"You can listen to other people's opinions." Ye Yuran looked at her and said, "Your matter seems difficult, but it is not as difficult as you think. As long as you remember, others dare to plot against you, either you block other people's way, or you have the benefits others want. Then tell me, what is Gongsun Lei's use of you and the fourth sister for?"

Seeing that her aunt was willing to teach her, Lin Sanmei felt relieved, and she thought seriously: "There are both. My third aunt just said that Gongsun Lei deliberately approached me and the fourth sister before because she wanted to make a name for us. This is because the fourth sister and I have the profits she wants to seek."

"Well! It's true, fame also has a kind of profit. The so-called profit is nothing more than these types of fame, fame, wealth, and wealth. If you are not sure which one is, you can always find it. So what about another?"

"The other way is that I am blocking Gongsun Lei's way. If the third sister-in-law guesses it is true, whether it is the Gongsun family who wants to marry the Xiao family or whether Gongsun Lei himself likes Master Xiao, obviously, my engagement with Master Xiao is blocking her way."

"Well! Yes, since there are both, Gongsun Lei wants to attack you and move you away. What should you do so that she can't move you?"

"Uh..." Lin Sanmei felt a little embarrassed. She wanted to say that as long as she didn't agree, Gongsun Lei would have no choice.

But she also knew that this was not a question of whether she agreed or not, but whether she could escape Gongsun Lei's "calculation".

Ye Yuran said with a smile: "Someone wants to deal with you, but you can't solve it yourself. Can you find allies? Who do you think are your allies?"

Lin Sanmei's eyes lit up and she said, "There is an aunt, a third sister-in-law, and a fourth sister... the entire Zhu family is my ally."

"No, there is still."

"And?" Lin Sanmei was puzzled. Can anyone else besides these?

She shook her head and said she couldn't guess it.

Ye Yuran smiled and said, "And your future husband."

"Ah?!" Lin Sanmei widened her eyes, but she quickly realized that what her aunt said was right. The husband and wife were one, and even though she and Mr. Xiao had not gotten married yet, they were engaged.

Since they are engaged and someone wants to destroy their engagement, isn’t they their enemies?

"Of course, whether your husband is your ally depends on the specific situation, but he likes your engagement with Master Xiao himself, and the Xiao family also agrees, which means he is your ally." Ye Yuran said, "You can find him, maybe he can not only help you solve this problem, but also help you find more allies."

Lin Sanmei was a little surprised. She wanted to jump up and find Mr. Xiao immediately, but she was afraid that she would do good things into bad things, so she asked carefully: "Auntie, are I going to find him now?"

"Don't worry, wait until we finish talking. I just said that he is your ally now, so under what circumstances may he be not your ally?"

"Can you still not be my ally?"

"When your interests conflict with their interests, you need to pay attention to whether he gives up on you for the sake of interests or for you. Different people will have different choices."

...

Ye Yuran was teaching Lin Sanmei seriously. She not only told Lin Sanmei how to judge friends and enemies, but also told Lin Sanmei how to solve this problem when she encountered such a problem.

There is no problem in this world that cannot be solved, only intangible relationships of interests and people's hearts.

Perhaps, now she and Master Xiao are on the same front, so Master Xiao will solve Gongsun Lei’s problem for her, but people’s hearts are easy to change, and no one knows what it will be like in the future.

So Lin Sanmei needs to know clearly who she is, what she is asking for, and how she should do to keep what she wants.

A person will encounter many choices in his life, but every choice will only lead to grasping what he wants most and will not regret it.

When she married into the Xiao family in the future, Lin Sanmei would soon find that not everyone has the same interests as her, and someone will inevitably attack her. What she needs to do at that time is what Ye Yuran wants to emphasize.

"Martial wife is a natural allies. Without the impulse of interest, you can rely on Master Xiao, but you cannot rely on him forever."

"If he has a concubine and a child in the future, then the future concubine and the child who are angry with the concubine will be your enemy. Even if you want to avoid it, the legitimate wife will never be able to live in harmony with the concubine, because your identity is destined to have conflicts of interest. At this time, no one will know which side Mr. Xiao will stand on."

"After all, your child is his flesh and blood, and the child born to the concubine is also his flesh and blood. For him, the palms and backs of his hands are all flesh. No matter how he helps, it is wrong, and no matter how he doesn't help..."

...

Ye Yuran tore away all kinds of problems that Lin Sanmei might encounter after marrying into the Xiao family.

In particular, the Xiao family in Luanzhou did not have the rule that "a man who had no son can take a concubine only after he had no son" in the Zhu family. Even if Mr. Xiao is clean now, if he wants to become an official in the future, no one can guarantee that he will not have three wives and four concubines.

Ye Yuran has never dealt with this issue, and she doesn't know how to teach Lin Sanmei how to deal with this issue. She just told her nakedly that some conflicts of interest are destined and cannot be avoided.

The reason why she set such rules for the Zhu family was to prevent "backyard disputes".
Chapter completed!