Gou Shuhan stopped and turned around, without saying a word for a moment.

Zhang Gang stood behind and stopped. He waited for several seconds, but he didn't see Gou Shuhan talking.

Looking up, through the lights in the emergency department hall, Zhang Gang vaguely saw Gou Shuhan's wife standing at the door, as if she was looking at him and Gou Shuhan.

Or, he just looked at her own husband.

Zhang Gang suddenly felt that what Gou Shuhan said before made sense, and it was important to bring his wife back. At least now there is a wife who can look at him like this.

Although Gou Shuhan's wife is tall, her own wife is not worse than his wife's.

The so-called carrots and cabbages have their own preferences.

But Zhang Gang was a little surprised that Gou Shuhan stood up to find his wife and followed him to walk. What's going on?

Forget it, it's not good to walk back at this time.

Let's go and have a look, go in and take a walk, and then come out to smoke.

Otherwise, it would be very uncomfortable to hold it in the hall and not let it smoke.

Gou Shuhan coughed lightly: "Let me say that, if happiness can be filled with a cup, my wife and I are full of cups now, so I never asked her to have happiness, and she never asked me to have happiness because happiness is full."

Zhang Gang took two steps and stood side by side with Gou Shuhan. He felt that this sales speech sounded nice and had a bit of literary style.

Happiness is filled with cups.

This metaphor is really good!

Seeing Zhang Gang coming forward, Gou Shuhan walked forward.

Zhang Gang asked his inner doubts: "Brother Han, then what do you mean, I just need to fill my wife's cup, right?"

Gou Shuhan walked slowly and replied: "Yes, but you don't know how to fill it up."

Zhang Gang felt amazing, and he guessed it all. He shouted excitedly: "I'm going, I'm going to ask you, how to fill it up, you guessed it, awesome!"

Gou Shuhan smiled tiltedly, Zhang Gang couldn't see this smile. Gou Shuhan himself knew that he had told many friends about the concept of "cup happiness" over the years. After hearing Gou Shuhan said this, they always thought that filling the other party's cup could solve the problem.

Some people even chased and asked how to fill it up.

Gou Shuhan thought of this and replied: "This is not a question of how to fill the other party's cup."

Zhang Gang frowned and asked, "Isn't it a problem of filling it up or a problem of pouring it out?"

Gou Shuhan smiled and replied: "It's a question of filling, but not how to fill it. You have a cup and your wife has a cup, which is as big as you. Your sense of happiness is full, and hers is full. Your cup is smaller than hers. You are satisfied. She still has expectations. What do you think?"

Speaking of this, the two of them have already walked to the door of the emergency department.

Zhang Gang wanted to continue asking, and seeing that he had already walked to the door, Gou Shuhan's wife seemed to have something to say at the door, so she swallowed the words that were in her throat.

Gou Shuhan's wife is tall, dignified and elegant, and has the charm of a mature woman.

Too high!

Zhang Gang sighed that we Hunan girls are shy, cute and graceful.

It’s actually nothing for Lin Xiaojuan to find Gou Shuhan.

My mother and Aunt Hua were chatting with her two old men. They were very busy and chatting, and they were all spitting out, so they almost poured the white wine on and put the food on them.

My daughter Gou Xiaosu was very quarreling and restless, like the three-year-old child who touched her hands everywhere. In order to make Gou Xiaosu stay quiet, Lin Xiaojuan took out her cell phone and played cartoons for her.

As a result, she became bored. She could still see Gou Shuhan chatting with Aunt Hua’s son at the entrance of the hall. Later, when the two of them walked away, she always felt empty when she looked at the door.

The coldness in Hunan and the coldness in Qingdao are both cold, but they are different.

Qingdao has a typical temperate monsoon climate and marine climate characteristics, so it is wet and cold in winter, but there is heating indoors, so it won’t feel too cold indoors. There is less heating in Hunan. There is air conditioning in the hospital, but it is too dry. Lin Xiaojuan walked to the door and didn’t see Gou Shuhan and Aunt Hua’s son, so she looked around and searched for it.

Seeing Gou Shuhan and Aunt Hua’s son coming over, she smiled politely and asked, “What are you talking about? So exciting.”

Gou Shuhan replied with a smile: "What else can you talk about? Men just talk about their wives."

Lin Xiaojuan didn't believe what he said, but she couldn't help but feel happy and said, "Oh, what's there to talk about with my wife?"

Through the contact just now, Zhang Gang still had a good impression of Gou Shuhan and his wife, so he said, "Actually, it's about me. My wife quarreled with me and ran away. Brother Han is teaching me how to coax me back. That sister-in-law, do you quarrel on weekdays?"

While Lin Xiaojuan was speaking, she took a few steps toward the hall and said, "We don't quarrel, we only have cold wars. Sometimes it gets colder than the weather outside. Look at the other side, there is a row of empty chairs there. Don't stay outside, you can sit there and chat."

Zhang Gang and Gou Shuhan followed Lin Xiaojuan's eyes and there was a row of benches empty on the other road at a right angle to the bench area where Gou Xiaosu and the others were sitting.

The two places are fifty or sixty meters apart.

Not far, but not close either.

It would be comfortable to sit inside and chat with air conditioners and blow the heating. But Zhang Gang wanted to smoke outside before, and there was no smoke in the hospital.

Now that Lin Xiaojuan said this, he was embarrassed to say that he actually wanted to smoke when he was outside.

The husband didn't smoke, so he took someone else out to get cold and was not very kind.

Gou Shuhan didn't think so much. After hearing what Lin Xiaojuan said, he took out his cell phone and looked at the screen.

It has only been half an hour since I took my first bite of rice, and it has only been more than an hour to fill two hours. Aunt Hua’s meal time is not too different, so you can go there and sit there.

"Okay, just go there and sit there."

Gou Shuhan said as he turned toward the other side, preparing to move his body.

Seeing that Lin Xiaojuan had no intention of going with the past, Zhang Gang asked, "Sister-in-law, let's go and chat for a while. Brother Han is talking about the cup to me. Oh, no, he is talking about happiness and cups, let's talk about it together!"

Lin Xiaojuan replied with a smile: "I'm looking at my daughter, you go and talk. He has a lot of theory. Don't take some words too seriously. People should live according to their own wishes."

Zhang Gang felt that Gou Shuhan's wife was polite and looked quite good.

Gou Shuhan smiled and said, "What do you think of me? Can't I act?"

Lin Xiaojuan smiled: "You have never been in love a few times and teach others how to get married."

Gou Shuhan didn't look back and said, "The doctor has never died. It's different to save lives and heal the wounded. Many things don't have to be experienced by myself."

Lin Xiaojuan stood there without moving and said, "I can't tell you, I'm back, you guys talk."

Zhang Gang said: "Bao, babe, you're not going to say anything, sister-in-law, I'll take over Brother Han and continue to learn from him."

Lin Xiaojuan smiled and said, "You guys can chat, remember to see the time. Wait for two hours, don't forget all of us."

Zhang Gang said: "Okay, sister-in-law."

Gou Shuhan said, "I've set the alarm clock, don't worry."

After saying that, Gou Shuhan raised his legs and walked over, and Zhang Gang followed.

The two sat down, Gou Shuhan looked back at the place where Lin Xiaojuan was standing just now, and she had already walked away.

Because it was a corner, the two of them stayed in this place and could not see where Lin Xiaojuan and the other four sat.

Zhang Gang's mind kept echoing what Gou Shuhan said just now.

After sitting down, he asked, "Brother Han, I just thought about the size of the cup you mentioned. I can understand it very well. You said that my wife's full is not full, and I understand this, but when the two people have the same size, if the cup is as big as I am, she will be full. According to your statement, it is equivalent to saying that my happiness index is her happiness index. This is a bit confused. Why do two people have the same size cup? If the two people's ideas are not consistent in some places, or their views on happiness are inconsistent, what's the use of this cup as big as it is, right?"

Gou Shuhan has been a little hunched in recent years. He has visited a doctor. The doctor said that hunchbacks are common in adults, and doing more stretching exercises can play a certain role in improving them. So he recently developed a habit of leaning back when sitting down, raising his chin, and stretching his back as much as possible.

Zhang Gang saw Gou Shuhan leaning against the back, but did not answer, so he continued, "Brother Han, I am just a rough man. What you said before, the rough man's speaking skills are definitely not as good as you. What I meant just now..."

Gou Shuhan spoke and said, "I understand what you mean. In fact, this theory was summarized by myself. Every time I talked about it, my own understanding was deeper. What I want to say is that the cup is as big as a cup, which refers to the degree of two people's view of happiness. This cup is not used to pretend to be happy, but to measure happiness."

When Gou Shuhan said this, he raised his head back and stretched his body.

He continued: "Everyone has a different view on happiness. For us, marriage is actually like a cooperative entrepreneurship, but entrepreneurship is a clear settlement between brothers and brothers. In other words, the form of cooperation between marriage cannot settle accounts, or, once it reaches the stage of settlement, basically, the marriage problem will be big."

"But if we understand a few principles in the process of looking at marriage, we will naturally feel a lot of happiness."

"1. Everyone's happiness is different, but we can achieve the unity of the level of perception of happiness."

"How to unify it? For example, you think eating a piece of biscuit is happiness, but I just don't like eating biscuits, right? Then, can I change it to me, and I'm also happy to drink a sip of milk tea? If I can think so, then in the future, if you eat a piece of biscuit, it's a good idea to drink a sip of milk tea. Isn't that right? Of course, I can't eat a piece of biscuit, and you eat abalone, or even a Western meal, then this is definitely not the same, right?"

Zhang Gang frowned and couldn't understand it very much. He replied, "You are so profound. I'm confused. It seems that I have touched a threshold, but if I think about it carefully, I still can't understand it."

Gou Shuhan: "It means that the couple must have different views and understandings of happiness, but as long as they exchange equally, they can balance harmoniously."

Gou Shuhan glanced at Zhang Gang, who was still frowning and thinking, and guessed that he still didn't understand. After thinking about it, he was indeed not simple enough.

"Let me do this, I'll give you a few examples, the examples of my friends around me, maybe you will understand after you finish talking about them."

Zhang Gang was happy and said, "That's great. Tell me something I can understand, haha."

Gou Shuhan said: "If you want to talk about my friend, you must first talk about myself..."

...

As for me, when I married my wife, I did not receive the blessings of the woman's family.

Speaking of which, you, Zhang Gang, are much better than me.

I suffered a lot of mental torture back then.

My wife is from Qingdao, Shandong Province. She has been in love with her for several years, but her mother forced her to break up with me. Among them, she has been separated for more than two years.

I have been waiting for her for more than two years, just like your wife was waiting for you back then. Let’s see, everything in this world is sometimes coincidental, and sometimes it is very interesting.

You are the woman waiting for you, and I am waiting for the woman.

At that time, I met a friend named Ade, who I called him Dege.
To be continued...