I thought about it and said, "Shen is always like this. I have been dating my girlfriend for four or five years. Her parents may not have known I existed when I was in college. But now I know that we have been talking for so long. Yesterday her dad Mom came and mentioned that she wanted to buy a house. I had also thought about buying a house and getting married before, but for some reason I suddenly became confused again last night."

Mr. Shen said: "Oh, what a confusing way, tell me."

"It's just that I suddenly feel that I haven't thought about getting married yet. Moreover, I still owe more than 300,000 yuan because of my father's illness and death. I must pay off the debt first and then consider starting a family. But I have The order of starting a family and starting a career is a bit confusing. Should I start a family first or start a career first?"

Mr. Shen laughed after hearing this: "Xiao Gou, do you like your girlfriend?"

I answered without hesitation: "Of course I do."

Mr. Shen asked again: "Then do you love your girlfriend?"

I answered without hesitation: "Of course I love you."

Mr. Shen said: "I think you must be full of love, but you are still a little bit behind in love. Who will chase the other between you and your girlfriend..."

Before Mr. Shen finished speaking, I rushed to answer: "When I was in college, we couldn't talk about who was chasing whom. I had a crush on her, and she proposed to be my girlfriend."

Mr. Shen said: "Don't rush me. It doesn't matter who chases whom first. What matters is who cares about whom more now."

I was about to answer, but I thought about it and held back.

Mr. Shen said: "Hey, that's right. Don't be too eager to express yourself, especially when it comes to love and marriage. Starting a family and starting a career, which comes first, starting a family or starting a career. Everyone's situation is different. I think. When you meet your loved one, you start a family first. When you meet a noble person, you start a career. Before you meet a noble person, you start by establishing yourself. Before you meet a good person, you start cultivating yourself. What do you think you are in now?"

I said, "Well, my girlfriend is my beloved, and Mr. Shen, you are my noble one."

Mr. Shen laughed loudly: "You, your butt hurts again. I'm not worthy of being a noble person. I'm lucky if you don't call me a bitch."

I hurriedly said: "No, no, no, Mr. Shen, you are indeed my noble man. I thank and respect you from the bottom of my heart. Although I usually get carried away with my talk, but in my heart, Mr. Shen, you are my respected leader and follower." Brother!"

Mr. Shen smiled again: "Come on, tell me how much respect you have?"

I laughed: "First of all, I respect you 100%. More than 100% depends on my monthly income. Because Mr. Shen, you make me rich. I respect you 200% or 110,000% every month. It just depends on how much you want, haha..."

Mr. Shen looked at me and said, "Although you speak very truthfully, you also speak truthfully. Well, do you still have any doubts about starting a family and starting a career?"

I pushed the brewed tea in front of Mr. Shen and asked Ah Yue, who was busy at the desk, if she wanted to have a drink too. She came without refusing.

He picked up the tea cup and took a sip and said, "Oh, Teacher Gou can make tea."

Mr. Shen said: "Okay, the tea is here, let's finish the work quickly."

Ah Yue walked away again.

I said: "Mr. Shen, do you need to buy a house first to start a family? Do you need funds to start a business? Regardless of what I plan to do in the future, I have to set aside some funds. This is what I am worried about now. If I use the money to buy a house after paying off the debt, If I buy a house, I may not be able to start a career in the future, and now my girlfriend’s parents may want me to buy a house soon. I am worried about this.”

Mr. Shen: "Hey, I think you're not worried about which comes first, but you don't really want to buy a house. The two things don't conflict, just like eating and eating. Do you know?"

I said: "Mr. Shen, please make it clear."

Mr. Shen: "You are hungry. You eat first when there is food. If there is food, you eat food first. Is it possible that you have to stay hungry until all the food is ready? Isn't that what a fool would do!"

I said, "It's okay to wait a while."

Mr. Shen waved his hand and I poured him another cup of tea.

Mr. Shen said: "You have to know that if you are hungry for a long time, you will get hungry. Xiaogou, your phone is ringing. Oops, please note Sister Juan, your girlfriend."
Chapter completed!