You can't have your cake and eat it too.

Life is this kind of dilemma, it will always be like this.

always like this.

All I have to say is, no matter where you are heading, whether you stay or leave, if you think it is worth it, then do it and don’t regret it.

Think twice before you act. Don’t ask about the outcome, just seize the day.

[Chinese food takeout restaurants are increasing rapidly in New York. In order to increase their competitiveness, some owners have to extend their business hours, which invisibly provides convenience for robbers. They said helplessly: "Who is willing to risk their lives? Not just to make more money."

In New York, these Fuzhou people who came to the United States through various channels generally kept the money they earned due to language barriers, heavy debts, or lack of legal status, and most of them did not dare to say anything even if they were robbed.

, giving criminals an opportunity. In recent years, there have been no less than 10 cases of people in Fuzhou being killed while delivering food. Among these victims, the oldest was in his 60s and the youngest was only 18 years old.

In the United States, regardless of the nationality of the parents, as long as the child is born in the United States, he or she can automatically obtain U.S. citizenship. And some of these American babies will have to start a period of four or five years from birth.

"Living independently", they are American "dolls" who were sent back to their hometown in Fujian.

Since they do not have time to take care of young children, generally speaking, Fuzhou parents who work hard in Chinatown, New York, will entrust relatives back home or use special channels to send their children back to their hometown 3 to 5 months after their children are born. Of course,

Before this, you must first obtain the child's birth certificate, and apply for a U.S. passport and a Chinese travel permit for him. These babies who are several months old are fostered in the homes of grandparents, grandparents or other relatives until they are about 5 years old.

to be with my parents in the United States.

These "dolls" eat milk powder and snacks mailed back from the United States, but lack close contact and communication with their parents. Therefore, they are often extremely attached to their kindergarten teachers. Some children even pull on the teachers' clothes and call them "mom".

Ni Falin, chairman of the Federation of Returned Overseas Chinese in Touzhen, said that "Doll's" parents are far away from home. In order to make up for their emotional debt to their children, they can only provide better conditions for their children materially. For example, there is a yellow plum fish in Lianjiang.

, it costs tens of dollars per pound, but no matter how expensive the price is, the elderly will buy it for them to eat. Because the elderly are too doting on their children, and there is a gap between the children and their parents after they return to the United States, it can easily lead to various

The emergence of educational problems and family problems. Chinese-language newspapers in the United States often appear in reports about Chinese children being corporally punished by their parents for disobeying discipline, which eventually led to the deprivation of custody rights.

Parents who entered the United States from Fuzhou through various legal or illegal channels did not hesitate to owe huge debts and risk their lives to come to the United States just to honor their ancestors and benefit future generations. However, such a result can not help but make people feel sad and sad.

have no choice.】

Life is full of difficulties and dangers.

Material is the most realistic problem,

But it's by no means the only problem.

Syrian refugee who spent 55 days smuggling to the UK says he is lucky to be alive

Soulmate on the cloud

10-25 18:14

[Later on the 23rd, a Syrian refugee who had entered the UK hiding in a similar type of truck publicly recounted his experience, which attracted media attention.

According to the "Mirror" report on October 24, in order to escape the war, a Syrian man, Ahmed Rashid, entered the UK by hiding in a freight truck in 2015. The whole journey lasted 55 days. He said that he had been in a refrigerated freight truck.

I stayed there for at least 2 hours. Although I was lucky to survive, the experience was very painful.

There was a large amount of frozen meat in the compartment where he was hiding. Once the compartment door was locked from the outside, no one would care whether the people in the compartment were dead or alive. Rashid said that he clung to his companions and had a difficult time.

for several hours.

"Two hours later, some people began to cough due to the low temperature. Gradually, people were frozen. Knocking on the door would probably not get any response." Rashid said that the car was so cramped that the driver in the cab could not hear them at all.

The sound of banging on the door.

"The smuggler just puts the people in the carriage and transports them out. He doesn't care where we end up." Rashid described the human smugglers as callous and ruthless.

According to his description, the most difficult place to pass in the process was the French port city of Calais with strict security checks. As long as they passed this level, they could enter the UK by freighter and start a new life in an unknown city.

Rashid is a graduate majoring in English literature. With his skills, he gradually established a foothold in the UK and settled down.

After the news came to light in the UK that 39 people were found dead in a refrigerated truck, Rashid felt the same way and tweeted with emotion: "This is a heartbreaking tragedy. These are people with lives, dreams, hopes and ambitions."

.”

At the same time, he recalled his experience four years ago. He said that those desperate screams seemed to be in his ears.

"I will never forget the eyes of those who were with me. There was no air, no sunshine, only the smell of death. At this moment, I realized how lucky I am to be alive."]

A glimmer of hope, added in quotation marks.

It's because leaving one's hometown is not a choice that must be made.

Moths fly into the flame.

These people risk their lives to try.

Regardless of whether it's worth it or not, I wish you good luck.

(There is a movie called "The Sound Machine")

In Fujian, Vietnam and Syria, the situation is different.

Syria is a man-made disaster concocted by some major powers. If we don't leave, there may really be only a dead end.

On the one hand, the war has never stopped.

on the other hand.

Even if it seems peaceful, there are still wars without smoke.

Humanity still has a long way to go...

When I opened the browser, I accidentally discovered a short film about Xiaoliang's movie commentary, Happiness.

The protagonist is a mouse who comes from the countryside to the city.

Losing and finding yourself.
Chapter completed!