Chapter 321
People will use each other. This is true. There is no love for no reason, nor does it hate for no reason. Everyone understands this truth, but it is not the person involved, and they may not understand it. Without experience, they cannot know the deep meaning. Only those who have experienced it know the hardships of the road. Only when they fall can they know that the road is uneven and the mountain road is rugged, and they like flat roads.
After eating and drinking, everyone was very happy. The enthusiasm of Ren Guan’s family was unforgettable. Based on years of experience, Conan felt that they did not make false, but on the contrary, they treated guests sincerely. Everyone has flaws. Ren Guan’s flaw is that when Ren Guan’s old, he hopes to have more honors for future generations to learn from. His wife’s flaw is that when he is old, he cannot provide services that make Ren Guan happy. He can only use enthusiastic reception of Ren Guan’s friends or the person in charge to exchange for external affirmation and supervise Ren Guan’s casual acts outside. Even so, there are inevitably some small episodes. People’s hearts cannot be guarded, and they cannot be guarded.
Both of these two people are old and very diligent. For their daughters and their children, they have been working hard. The purpose is to make themselves rich, which can reduce the burden on their children, or have money in their pockets, and buy candy or snacks for their grandchildren, so that their grandchildren will not be looked down upon. In fact, they are all nephews, because Ren Chen gave birth to two daughters. Without sons, there would be no grandchildren, and even if someone was willing to pretend to be grandchildren, they were well grasped in this regard. There is no habit of favoring boys over girls here, and no one said anything about having a daughter, and people who gave birth to sons will not be particularly proud. These people have a very good mentality. Giving sons is fame, and having daughters is a blessing. They are all worth celebrating. The customs are very good, but there is no comparison. They are on their own hills, and they are all in peace.
People are afraid of old age, but people will definitely grow old. People are unable to do anything when they are old. People are most afraid of having no money. People who have no money are poor. When a person is old, poor and old, this person is suffering when they live. If you are in charge, you may have seen this clearly, so you work day and night. In the countryside, as long as you are willing to work, you may get rid of some necessary expenses and still have some surplus. If you refuse to work, there will be no surplus at all, which is 100% difficult households. The so-called difficulties are relatively just like water always flowing from high to low, day and night, and are determined to run to the sea.
After eating and drinking, he had nothing to do, so Dong Guanshi wanted to leave because Ren Guanshi didn't like playing cards. He followed the family motto and did not get involved in gambling. He knew that gambling was like two bowls, one of which had water in and the other was empty. He poured the water in the two bowls, and the water in the bowl disappeared. It was strange, and he didn't know where the water went. Of course, he knew very well that the final winner was the person who opened a casino. He would lose every gambling, and the person who lost was the person who came to gambling. If he couldn't see through it, he would be obsessed and his family would be destroyed in the future. This is an indisputable fact. Any gambler has a bad ending. No one who gambled will make a fortune, his family will not be prosperous, and his family will not be harmonious. In the end, it will be very lingering.
This is the mysterious thing brought by gambling. Unconsciously, the water disappears. Gambling is like this. It is a problem. No one wins after making money, and in the end they are losers. It wastes youth and time. All the beauty has nothing to do with the gambler. The gambler's heart is occupied by money and has no space to accommodate all other beautiful things.
Ren Chen understood this truth, and his ancestors also understood this truth. Over time, his ideas and practices have influenced the next generation. His son-in-law did not play cards, even if the people around him played cards, they did not play, let alone his daughter, the trend of women playing mahjong is also very popular. Unfortunately, when he comes to his daughter, it will be terminated. Of course, people's behavior is related to family tutoring and the surrounding environment. When the trend of gambling is prevalent, it will be difficult.
To avoid being affected. If you don’t like farming, you can only go on the road to bankruptcy. Gambling is a life that both sides suffer. Once you get involved, it will not be easy to get rid of it or get rid of it. It is very difficult, and it is harder to quit gambling addiction than to reach the sky. Because this is the fun of gamblers. Gambling will make gamblers happy, make gambling excited, happy and happy. The key is a sense of accomplishment that is particularly comfortable. Gambling eyes are particularly bright when gambling, and when doing other things, they appear dull.
Officer Dong said: "We are leaving. In two days, the water pipes may come. Please take care of it. Before the construction, hold a meeting for everyone to win everyone's understanding and support. If the project is completed, everyone will be easy to say. The project is blocked and not completed, and everyone will not look good. It will affect future projects and will also affect everyone's development. To be serious, other places will be renovated. Here may be renovated later or not. Other places will be active and behind. If this project is done this time, next time there will be a project, the first thing will be considered here. Whoever is active will start first, and whoever is not active will be behind will not start, or will not do it. Avoid being naughty and worrying."
Officer Ren said: "Don't worry, my little daughter is in the branch of the Shanxia Township Health Center. I also hope that there is water at the foot of the mountain and can be used normally. I don't want to do bad things. Of course, I don't allow others to destroy them. Don't worry, it's okay, and ensure that the project will go smoothly. Do more good things and accumulate more virtues. You will have good fortune. Do more bad things. People who are not moral will suffer. I understand this principle."
"I feel relieved with your words. OK, Mr. Ji, Mr. Yin, let's go. The host will be safe. Stay here to affect their work. When we leave, we will do our own business. We will not interfere with each other. This is the only way to do this." said Dong.
This is a kind of person who is a family-oriented person. At critical moments, it is still a family-oriented person. Work matters are easy to deal with, there are no problems, probably some irrelevant and no big deal. Others endure their pain, others' happiness, and no blessing to enjoy. No one is even willing to share. Only those who have teeth pain are clear. The person you see is always a bystander, and will not replace anything, nor will it help.
After drinking, they were very excited, but they could still hold on. Everyone got into the car one by one and said goodbye to Officer Ren. Of course they invited them to visit again. This was not a polite word, because Officer Ren liked to drink very much. Of course he was happy if there were guests. He was very happy to have someone to drink with him. He couldn't finish the bacon at his house and gave it to his daughter and son-in-law's house, but he still couldn't finish it. The old man had a bad tooth and didn't eat meat often. He hung it in the house for a long time.
Only when a visitor is coming, will you remember to eat. Drinking is even more boring. Drinking alone is boring. Only when two or more people drink together will you find it fun. No wine can make a meal, and drinking alone is not fun. It is better to find a companion, you can talk and drink some wine, a good life. Life is short for a few short years, and you won’t stop until you get drunk. Of course, you can’t get drunk when you drink, and you can’t drive after drinking. These are the rules. It is absolutely dangerous to drive after drinking, you are not responsible for yourself or others.
After the car started, it first went uphill. Because the servant was in the hillside, he went downhill all the way. It was not far from the large reservoir. When he visited the large reservoir last time, the officer Dong wanted to visit the officer. However, the time was limited at that time, so it was changed to today. This arrangement is more appropriate. Some people always have to meet, and the matter is done by humans. If there is no one, the matter cannot be done well. This principle is very clear. He is good at employing people and can do good things. If he is not employed properly, he has to do it himself. It is costly to the people and lose money, and he is very tired himself. For some people, his method is to coax things first, and then put pressure on it. It is easy to coax things well, and he can do it clearly. After doing things well, he will see the people clearly. Next time, he will deal with it. If he has something to do again, he will be familiar with it again, so why not do it?
There was a section of the road paved with concrete, which was very strange. The rest of the road was covered with rocks and mud. Conan asked curiously: "Staff from Dong, why didn't he connect to the cement road? But he paved the cement road in this place where there was no store behind the village in front of Buba?"
"You are not very familiar with the situation on the mountain. The villagers in this group are more diligent, but they are also jealous of each other, for fear of dying each other. This section of cement road was not used up when paving the cement in front of it. Some of them were left. They all wanted to lay their own yards. For fairness, if anyone gives them to anyone, they would make people say that Hou Guangxiang was unfair to do things, so they would simply dump the concrete here. Doing so would not let them talk nonsense. After all, they were doing the public utilities of the village group. Whoever talked again would arouse public anger. It would be easy to offend someone, and it would be difficult to offend everyone. Sooner or later, they would drowned in the sea of people's saliva.
The interests are very clear. People are afraid of words, not because they are afraid of truth, but because they are afraid of lies, and the lethality of lies is very great. People live and work in lies. No one can get rid of the sorrow of this world." Dong Tanshi told the story. It seemed that he was very clear about the villagers' dynamics and the worldly styles. Even if he didn't study, he still had this ability. Compared with scholars, he was not inferior to those of scholars. He was more than enough to become a master or professor. At least he was very ordinary in speaking and doing things. He had rich social experience. Even if he taught courses in this area, it was very rare.
"Oh, that's true. People have this idea, that is, they can't get it themselves, and it's also said that others can't get it. If others die of good fortune, they can't get it, but if others die of hardship, they can't get it." Conan said.
"You're right." said the Dong-Secretary.
"The hearts of people today are not as simple as those of the past. Even in this deep mountains and forests, it is like this." Yin Xianren said.
"Yes, people's hearts are not old nowadays. Let's talk about others, people everywhere are the same." said Dong. "I have traveled to many places and encountered this situation. I don't know why people's hearts are so deceitful."
Conan knew that what he said must be reasonable. Being deceived or being deceived is not ordinary. Maybe it is for experience to be used as an example. This experience can be managed for many years. Conan also needs to study hard. In terms of studying people's hearts, Dongguanshi can be said to have unique features, including Yin Xianren, who is also slightly better. Of course, people are unpredictable, so they don't test it, so as not to suffer. A thousand people have thousands of faces, and there are thousands of hearts, different, not the same, not the same heart, and there will be no same virtue, no same goal, the same step, no same frequency, and no resonance. These are complementary and indispensable, mutually influencing and mutual verification.
The car got off the mountain, walked across the flat road, and arrived at the entrance of the Baisong Hotel. When they got off, Yoon Hyun-in said, "Goodbye, Officer Dong."
Conan was very annoyed. This man asked him to call the village officials not to call him for work, but only to call him for the director. Now he calls him for work. This is a problem. It is called being lenient to himself and being strict with others. It seems that he has not many friends, and no one wants to make such friends.
Conan didn't say anything, and entered the house and found Liang Majiang again. He smiled and asked, "Why are you back?"
Conan said: "It's done."
"Okay, you guys are really doing practical things," said Liang Majiang.
Conan felt very surprised. Why didn’t he play mahjong? Conan couldn’t help asking, “Why didn’t he play cards?”
"No one."
"Why is there no one?"
"I'm all busy. I don't have any forests and land, so I'm the most leisurely." He said.
"Okay, it's rare to have some leisure time, you really can enjoy life," he said.
I heard that his family was originally on the mountain of the nearby village chief, and he was a son-in-law who was in the back door. Because he had many brothers and sisters, it was nothing to go out. In addition, there was no obvious inequality between men and women like that in the Han area.
He entered the Woman's family and then became a member of the Woman's family. The Woman's family had no son, but two girls. One of the two girls was married, and the other wanted to find a man to marry into the house. This matter fell on Liang Majiang. He had six brothers and sisters, including one brother, one younger brother, three sisters, and one family. Fortunately, he came to the house and gradually integrated into the Woman's family.
Liang Majiang didn't like to talk about his past and had nothing to say. Conan sat here and felt uncomfortable, so he said goodbye and went upstairs. Yoon Hyun-in also returned to his room and continued reading. He waited until the sun set and his stomach started to roar. Yoon Hyun-in went downstairs and started cooking.
If he doesn't do it, Conan will not take the initiative to do it. He is worried that the food will not be cooked well or tasteless, so he likes to give advice. This is not a good thing when it comes to Miss Liu's ears. Conan likes to be simple and does not like being criticized by the person in charge. This is not a good thing. If he gives the person in charge a bad impression, he will deduct points. That point is money and life root. If he gets a high score at the end of the year, he can get a better income. If he doesn't get a high score, or if he is deducted, his income will also decrease.
Yin Xianren also pursues simplicity when cooking. Conan likes simplicity. Even if the nutrition cannot keep up, it doesn’t matter. It’s best to eat less at night, so as not to be unable to bear it, which will be detrimental to the body.
While eating, Liang Majiang came to the kitchen, actually trying to see what they were eating. Of course, Conan was not easy to refuse, so he asked him to see that when dealing with boring people, he had to use boring methods.
Chapter completed!