Goudan means that no matter what they learn, they must be willing and liked by the children. The reason why Wen Xiaxuan and Pan Yanyan are opposed to Goudan is because they think the children are too young and do not know how to choose. But Goudan believes that,

The most important thing is to meet the instinctive needs of children. He thinks that when the child is hungry, let him eat, and when the child is sleepy, let him sleep. If the child does not want to go to tutoring classes, he can play freely at home. The process of playing will make it easier to learn things and interest him.

is the best teacher.

Goudan believes that if a child is willing to learn to play chess, whether it is chess, Go, military chess, chess or simple checkers or backgammon, it will be beneficial to the development of the child's intelligence. If the child likes to dance, go and practice dancing, even if it is a boy

Liu Yichao. In Goudan’s opinion, interest is the best teacher.

Pan Yanyan has always believed that there is a generation gap between her mother and Goudan, and of course there is a purchasing agent between her children. In Pan Yanyan's view, purchasing agents are not only between two generations, there is a generation gap every three years. But Goudan does not

Thinking this way, he believes that there are differences in thinking between people, and age is related. People's consciousness is naturally different in different times. However, Goudan believes that age is not the main reason for the differences in understanding between people.

Even among people of the same age group, the differences in thinking are sometimes worlds apart. Although Gou Dan’s education level cannot be compared with that of college graduates Wen Xiaxuan and Pan Yanyan, Gou Dan recognizes the difference in education and family living environment.

, regional differences are the main reason why everyone knows different things. Sometimes the generation gap is even bigger than these differences.

Goudan believes that if a family lives together for a long time, they will influence each other, and the generation gap will gradually narrow and smooth out during the running-in process. On the contrary, it is the regional differences of the same period and the collision of different ideological trends that will make the gap between these things wider.

It is getting deeper and deeper. For example, the differences between North and South, and the differences between Eastern and Western concepts will always exist and will never disappear. People's inertial thinking is not willing to seek common ground while reserving differences, but prefers to highlight each other's contradictions.

There are many people who know themselves and others well. There are very few people in the world who feel that everything they do is wrong. Even if sometimes they have perceived their mistakes, inertial thinking will make people go further and further down the wrong road. Most people

Sometimes they like to blame each other and let each other follow their own ideas. But for people who have lived in hell for a long time, once you drag them into heaven, they will not be able to live anymore, or they will be very uncomfortable.

But the biggest advantage of Wen Xiaxuan, Goudan and Pan Yanyan is that all three of them are kind people, and they are all people who know their mistakes and can correct them. Although the ideas of the three people often have different degrees of difference, in the end they are always the same.

A high degree of harmony and unity. The three people will never be separated from each other because of differences in ideas. Interestingly, every time there is a dispute, big or small, in the family, the relationship between the three people will be better than before.

Sometimes Goudan feels a little unbelievable, but when he calms down and thinks about it, everything will be figured out, because whether it is Wen Xiaxuan, Pan Yanyan or Goudan, their starting points are good, and they are all for the betterment of each other.

It is for the betterment of the family. Seeking common ground while reserving differences is the greatest magic weapon of their family.

The daughter of a county magistrate and a senior engineer, who is a college graduate from the police academy, can marry a rural girl with only an elementary school level, which is a miracle in itself. This shows that Pan Yanyan's family is different from other families.

They can accept the occurrence and existence of things that are simply not allowed in the world. Living with such a family, Goudan feels that this is a blessing, and he is content from head to toe.

Gou Dan understands that the reason why this family is harmonious is that there is a good leader in the family. Growing up in the countryside, Gou Dan has an inferiority complex caused by the environment. In fact, although he lives in the countryside, when his parents are still alive, Gou Dan

Dan feels that his childhood was very happy.

The unexpected death of his parents completely changed Goudan's family, and also Goudan's life. Originally, a pension of 300,000 yuan could allow Goudan, who had lost his father's and mother's love, to complete his studies and find a job.

He had a job, a wife and children. But his grandma doted on his uncle, who gambled and played like a little widow, and quickly squandered all the money his parents had given their lives for, so Goudan had to drop out of school and stay at home.

Goudan, who entered the society early, suffered countless bullying and looks down his face, which made his young and sensitive heart develop a deep inferiority complex. The wealthy family was full of wine and meat, and there were people who were frozen to death on the road. He wandered alone in the county and big cities.

On the street, Goudan sees rich people eating well, drinking spicy food, and holding seductive women in their arms every day; while those who pick up garbage, clean, and work on construction sites have neither enough to eat nor clothing to keep warm.

In the cold winter, I actually saw a homeless man freezing to death next to a ruined temple.

Goudan wanders outside all year round, doing nothing for half of the year. Even if he finds some odd jobs, the longest one does not last more than a month. Therefore, Goudan’s life is one of eating one meal without finishing the next, and the real life within a month is

There was not much time to eat. The embarrassment of life made Goudan's inferiority complex worse and worse.

The turning point in Goudan's life was when his uncle introduced him to study veterinary medicine with his master. On the way to the county town, Goudan saved his future master's wife by chance. Because the master, who was in his forties, went to study with a master who was only three years older than Goudan.

Goudan feels that this world is really incredible and unfair.

After accidentally rescuing the master who was molested in a car, Master Dong Xu left Goudan behind without saying a word. Because he saved the master, Yu Feifei was particularly fond of Goudan and took the same careful care of him as she did the master.

Not only does the mistress prepare delicious food for Goudan every day, but she also cares for him like her own mother.

Goudan, who lacked the warmth of family, developed attachment and a different kind of affection for his wife, because after all, they were both young people in their early twenties. Originally, the family could have been maintained like this, and Goudan could have learned and become independent.

The portal. Following the master as he walked through the villages and alleys to treat the animals of various households, Goudan accidentally discovered that the master had slept with the left-behind women in the village, and there were more than one, more than a dozen.

This made Goudan very confused and angry. Master was young and beautiful, and the woman who slept with Master was not only older than Master, but also incomparable in appearance and figure. Because Master treated Goudan very well, and Goudan was very fond of him.
Chapter completed!