But it seems that God has arranged it freely. Goudan and Yu Feifei's family are completely separated, and not a single trace is left. Because the people who loved him and the people he loved are no longer there! Goudan's

All that is left in his life is his nothingness and loneliness.

Just when Goudan was desperate, Pan Yanyan appeared again and became the only life-saving straw before Goudan drowned. However, Goudan did not hold on desperately, but let his life disappear. But Straw did not want to give up the responsibility of saving people.

Straw also has love. It's just that Straw stays away when he sees that he is useless, but appears when Goudan needs him most.

After many twists and turns, Goudan and Pan Yanyan finally fell in love! God has lived up to Pan Yanyan’s more than ten years of waiting. After many twists and turns, the lovers finally came together. Everyone said that there is no confusion at forty, but Goudan feels that the closer he is to forty.

At the age of 18, there are more and more things he doesn't understand in life. In the past, he was careless and focused on working to make money and support his family. Now he gradually understands that career needs management, and emotions and family need management even more.

The misguided Goudan has learned to have a good relationship with his father-in-law and his mother-in-law, and he has learned that a girl not only needs to be well-fed and well-dressed, but also needs to be mentally satisfied at a high level. In name, there is no distinction between high and low in occupations, but in terms of social recognition, there is no distinction between high and low.

There is a huge difference. But Goudan understands that the profession can be despicable, but the character cannot be despicable.

In addition to work, Goudan spends at least an hour every day learning skills and cultural accomplishments. Goudan understands that whether a family can be truly harmonious, the cultural literacy, hobbies, and common language of the couple are very important. People can't be too much.

Selfishness and blind asking can only strain the relationship between husband and wife. Dedication to the family is actually a clever way of asking. In the family, while giving, you will receive more love and more rewards.

What makes Goudan deeply gratified is that he comes from a small rural veterinarian, and his mother-in-law, who is a county magistrate, and his father-in-law, a senior engineer, do not dislike his background. Goudan also knows that Chinese people value being well-matched, and Pan Yanyan’s parents

I also hope that my daughter will marry a high-ranking official or a wealthy family. But when her daughter has no hesitation to marry the person she loves, her parents can put aside their prejudices and support her. This is really commendable, so Goudan because

I am very grateful to my father-in-law and mother-in-law for this, and I will always admire the courage of my father-in-law and mother-in-law from the bottom of my heart.

At present, this person who is skeptical in the eyes of others, or looks at Goudan like a freak, never expected that three generations of a family can live together harmoniously. Two families, three generations, can live together without any resentment. Goudan understands

It’s because his father-in-law and his mother-in-law’s family are of high quality. But Goudan also understands that it’s because his family relationship is simple.

Goudan's veterinary shop is a small community, and he hears many family anecdotes every day. After two people get married, many family conflicts are actually not between the young couple, but between the parents.

In the middle, some things are difficult to deal with. If they are handled well, a temporary balance can be achieved; if they are not handled well, conflicts will erupt collectively, eventually causing the couple to part ways.

When it comes to divorce, almost all families will shift the responsibility to the other family. With this kind of unself-disciplined and unaware mentality, even if the children start a second marriage, the outcome will not be good. Goudan understands that people often

Conflicts between young couples, or between two large families, are called the running-in period.

In fact, from Goudan's point of view, this running-in period is actually about polishing off the edges of the young couple, and at the same time, the edges of the family. In family life, it is actually good to have no edges, as there will be no self-injury or

Hurt others. In family fights, there is no permanent winner. Some people say that between a father and his wife, either the east wind prevails over the west wind, or the west wind overpowers the east wind. Goudan doesn’t think so. If we can find a balance point, the family will always be in a stable position.
Chapter completed!