Sun Haowen said angrily: "You want to have an abortion? That is the little life in your belly, how can you be so cruel?"

Wang Jiayi said: "I said that we are not suitable for having children, do you respect my idea?"

Sun Haowen said: "No matter what, you can't take human life lightly! Those are our flesh and blood!"

Wang Jiayi said: "You're not going, right? OK, I'll go." As she said that, she was about to walk out.

Sun Haowen stopped in front of her and said, "You are not allowed to go either! The child belongs to both of us, why do you make the decision alone?!"

Sun Haowen's voice was so loud that Wang Jiayi was shocked and looked at him blankly.

Haowen's mother in the living room was shocked when she heard Sun Haowen's roar. She looked at the bedroom door and wanted to go there, but did not move and continued to listen to the movement inside.

Sun Haowen relaxed his tone and said: "We have taken various measures, but we have not been able to prevent the arrival of the child, which shows that he is very willing to be our child. This is a gift given to us by God and cannot be ignored."

Wang Jiayi retorted: "You put it lightly, do you know how much a woman has to pay for her children?"

Sun Haowen said: "Pregnancy lasts only ten months, and it goes by in the blink of an eye. I won't miss much for you. When the child is born, my mother and I will help you carry it, so I won't be a burden to you. Jiayi,

Now that you're pregnant, just let it go and don't worry about it anymore. In fact, you have always wanted a child in your heart, and the child will definitely make you feel fulfilled and happy."

Wang Jiayi said: "We have argued too much on this issue, and I don't want to hear you talk about it anymore."

Sun Haowen said: "Okay, if you don't want to listen to me, then you listen to the child. You touch your belly. Although he is still young, you can feel his life before he has time.

When he calls me 'Mom', he will be destroyed by you. Ask him, will he agree?"

Wang Jiayi sat on the edge of the bed and was stunned.

Sun Haowen continued: "He is still young now. When he gets older and stretches his hands and feet in his belly, think about how wonderful that feeling will be. I have been looking forward to the child's first cry for a long time. It must be

It’s very touching. I even imagined our children as toddlers..."

Wang Jiayi interrupted him: "Stop talking, I want to be alone."

When she went to work the next day, Wang Jiayi's mind was always heavy. She still couldn't make up her mind whether she should have this child or not. She was a little reluctant to let it go; but she was afraid that she would not be able to raise it well and would be sorry for the child if she kept it. Fan Yunxuan was here

While busy with her work, she would glance at Wang Jiayi from time to time. She had already seen her thoughts from Wang Jiayi's expression. She did not disturb her. She really needed to think about this problem alone.

Finally, it was noon. After eating, Wang Jiayi went to the lounge for a lunch break as usual. She didn't drink coffee, but just sat quietly. Ren Li took two cups of coffee and came over. One cup was handed to Wang Jiayi, and the other was

Put it in front of yourself.

Ren Li asked: "Did you tell your husband when you got home?"

Wang Jiayi was silent, stirring the coffee in front of her with a spoon.

Ren Li asked again: "What's his attitude?"

Wang Jiayi said: "What kind of attitude can he have? What kind of attitude can he have with his old-fashioned ideas of passing on the family lineage?"

Ren Li said: "Why do women have to sacrifice themselves to satisfy men's desire to continue the family line? You can't compromise. The belly is yours. If you insist on not wanting it, no one can do anything to you."

Wang Jiayi said: "If I don't give birth, they will hate me forever."

Ren Li said: "If you give birth, will they be grateful to you for the rest of their lives?"

Wang Jiayi said: "How could it be? They would think that it is my obligation to have children. Since I am fulfilling my obligation, how can I be grateful?"

Ren Li said: "So, if you give birth, you won't get any benefits; if you don't give birth, you will be blamed. Alas, being a woman is really difficult."

Wang Jiayi asked: "Then tell me, am I born right or not?"

Fan Yunxuan's voice came over: "There is no right or wrong in choice itself." After saying that, she sat next to them and continued: "There are only suitable and unsuitable ones."

Wang Jiayi looked at her curiously and asked: "To be more specific, what does it mean to be suitable...not suitable?"

Fan Yunxuan said: "If you give birth to a child that is suitable for you, it is right; if you give birth to a child that is not suitable for you, it is wrong; if you do not give birth to a child that is suitable for you, you will definitely regret it in the future."

Wang Jiayi asked: "Tell me, am I suitable for giving birth, or am I not suitable for giving birth?"

Fan Yunxuan said: "You have to ask yourself, do you have the desire to raise a child? If so, then have a child; if not...", she pointed at herself and said, "If you are like me, then don't have a child."

Wang Jiayi hesitated.

Ren Li looked at Fan Yunxuan with an unconvinced look on her face, then turned to Wang Jiayi and said: "This is not just a question of desire, but also a question of whether you can afford it. If you can bear the pressure of having to work for your children for a lifetime,

If you can face the reality of quickly turning into a yellow-faced woman, then give birth, otherwise, don’t give birth."

Wang Jiayi looked at Ren Li, who had a determined look on her face.

Wang Jiayi turned to look at Fan Yunxuan again. Fan Yunxuan said with a smile: "Lili is right. It is not easy to give birth to a child, and it is even harder to raise a child. It is even more difficult to stay young after becoming a mother. There is not enough money."

Be mentally prepared and you can’t have children casually.”

Wang Jiayi said: "I want to continue to stay young."

Fan Yunxuan said: "Once you have a child, your self-needs are insignificant compared to the responsibility of raising a child."

Ren Li said: "The responsibility of raising children is too great. If you feel you can't afford it, don't take it."

Fan Yunxuan said: "Either give birth as soon as possible and recover early; or make it clear to your family, Sun Haowen, as soon as possible and not give birth at all. This matter is either black or white, there is no middle ground."

Wang Jiayi said: "I can't explain it to him."

Ren Li said: "If you continue to break up, you will suffer chaos. He is so indifferent to your feelings, why do you have to compromise yourself? You must strengthen your attitude."

Wang Jiayi said: "The problem is, I haven't completely thought about it yet, should I give birth or not?"

Fan Yunxuan said: "Ask your heart whether you want children or not."

Ren Li said: "Whether you want to have children or not depends on what kind of life you want to live. If you want to be happy and happy every day, don't have one; if you want to be miserable and tired every day, have one."

Fan Yunxuan said: "I think you should give birth?"

Wang Jiayi asked: "Why?"

Fan Yunxuan said: "Because you like children. If you don't have children, you will regret it sooner or later."

Ren Li said: "How did you lead her astray? It doesn't matter whether you like children or not. What's important is that we have to live a relaxed life. Once we raise a child, don't plan to take it easy in this life."

Fan Yanxuan said: "Our opinion is just a reference, the road under your feet has to go by yourself."

Wang Jiayi said, "I just don't know which way to go now?"

Ren Li said: "Of course, you have to follow the way to relax and happy, and life is short. Why should you find a sin for yourself!"

Fan Yanxuan said: "Everything has two sides, which way is more in line with your wish, which one is to choose."

Wang Jiayi said: "My way is not that I am walking alone, but the whole family. My choice is not entirely my business."

Ren Li said: "Do you mean, if you don't have a child, it is difficult for your family to save it?"

Wang Jiayi said: "It's okay not to be pregnant, but now she is pregnant. If I go to the fetus, my marriage and I may be in the end. He will not forgive me."

Ren Li said angrily: "Why do men look like an unexpressed animal? Do you have to have a cub? For his own cubs, can you even have a wife?"

Fan Yanxuan said: "Like other male animals in nature, men have tried to leave their offspring and try to inherit their genes. Their instinctive longing is exactly what we do not want children to have children.

Sadness. "

Wang Jiayi said, "It's not a big deal, it's a big deal to divorce him."

Ren Li and Fan Yanxuan were stunned and said in the same way: "Divorce?"

Fan Yanxuan said: "Is divorce solving the problem?"

Ren Li said: "I don't want to leave a man from his future generations. It is difficult to find more than three legs. After getting married, can you guarantee that the second husband can with you?"

Wang Jiayi said: "My marriage with him is a chicken rib, it is tasteless, and it is a pity to abandon it."

Ren Li said: "We are a bit far away now."

Fan Yanxuan said: "It's biased, it's biased. Actually, on the question of whether or not for children, any suggestion of our suggestions is not as good as your own thoughts.

That voice tells you to, you want it; tell you not, just don't want it. "

Wang Jiayi said: "My voice is telling me, I don't want it now, maybe I would want it in the future ..."

Fan Yanxuan said: "That's it called Bai Ding. Bai Dingneta. Bai Ding should be early, don't stick to your mind, don't stick to it, it is not good for you and your children."

Wang Jiayi picked up coffee to drink. Fan Yanxuan stopped it and said, "Before deciding to give up completely, don't drink coffee anymore, this thing is not good for the fetus."

Wang Jiayi looked at Fan Yixuan, and looked at Ren Li again, and asked, "Have you ever done a B -ultrasound?"

Ren Li said: "Do it during the medical examination, check the heart, liver, spleen, lungs and kidney."

Wang Jiayi said, "Have you ever seen the child in the stomach?"

Ren Li and Fan Yanxuan laughed.

Fan Yanxuan said: "Where can I go to see if I have no children?"

Ren Li said: "I see stones in my kidneys."

Wang Jiayi said, "I saw ... When I was doing a B -ultrasound, he lay quietly in my stomach. He belonged to my child. How can I bear to abandon him? My child, lying quietly in me quietly
Chapter completed!