Chapter 81 The Struggle Between DINK and Anti-DINK (15)
Huang Heqi consoled him: "Mom, don't be so angry!"
Ren Li said: "Yes, Mom, don't be angry!"
He Qi's mother said: "Can I not be angry? Ren Li, you are not marrying a monkey that jumped out of the cracks in the rocks. You are marrying He Qi. He has good parents. His parents are ordinary people. Just hope
I can hold my grandson in my arms soon."
Ren Li said: "Mom, don't worry, He Qi and I will discuss it again."
He Qi's mother said: "Why are you not in a hurry? I still want to be a grandma soon, and your dad also wants to be a grandpa soon!"
Huang Heqi muttered: "You still want to be a grandfather? Once you have a child, you have to tire yourself out like a grandson."
He Qi's mother said: "What are you talking about? He Qi, think about how old you are, why are you still acting like a child?"
Huang Heqi said: "I really hope I never grow up in my life. Why are there so many people who are old and arrogant at a young age? Where has their youth and vitality gone? Why don't they let their children get tired?"
He Qi's mother said: "I said, if you give birth to the child, if you don't raise it, I will raise it."
Huang Heqi looked at Ren Li and didn't know what to do.
Ren Li said timidly: "If...for example, if you get sick or go on a trip, wouldn't it be up to He Qi and me to take care of you?"
He Qi's mother said: "If you are sick, only one of you can get sick, not two at the same time. For the sake of our children, your dad and I will not go traveling and will just stay at home."
Huang Heqi said: "What you said is nice. When the time comes, if you give up your son halfway, won't we still have to support you?"
He Qi's mother said: "Is it okay if I write a letter of guarantee? I will write a letter of guarantee and promise not to change the divination."
Huang Heqi looked at Ren Li and had no idea.
He Qi's mother said: "Now that we have talked about it, I don't want to waste any more words with you. Either you give birth as soon as possible, or you get out of here. I will treat you as my son, and you won't
Recognize me as mother!"
Ren Li and Huang Heqi looked at each other, dumbfounded.
Returning to the bedroom, Ren Li quickly closed the door and let out a long sigh of relief.
Ren Li said: "If this continues, I will suffer from 'prenatal depression' before I even get 'postpartum depression'. Why do they always force us to have children? Whether we have children or not is up to us."
matter."
Huang Heqi said: "They are bandits, domineering, arrogant and unreasonable. How about we give birth to one child and then send it to two 'bandits', who will work hard to raise the child every day. This is their 'bandit behavior'"
Well deserved punishment.”
Ren Li said: "When we give birth to a child, we have to take care of it ourselves. This is our obligation. If we don't care about the child, wouldn't we be a bastard?"
Huang Heqi said: "Then let's take care of it ourselves."
Ren Li said: "Do you know how tiring and painful it is to take care of children?"
Huang Heqi said: "You said that is our duty, just be tired if you are tired! Just be miserable if it is hard!"
Ren Li said: "Why do we have to suffer like that? Why do we have to suffer like that? If we don't give birth, we won't give birth."
Huang Heqi said: "Yes, if we don't live, we will never let their conspiracy succeed."
Ren Li was puzzled: "Conspiracy?"
Huang Heqi said: "Of course it's a conspiracy? Do you know why they have to force us to have children?"
Ren Li said: "Of course they want to have grandchildren too much."
Huang Heqi said: "They want to realize their ideals in our children."
Ren Li didn't understand.
Huang Heqi continued: "I play with a guitar all day long and sing in nightclubs. They feel embarrassed, say I am worthless, and look down on me. They want to train their grandson to be what they want according to their own ideas.
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Ren Li suddenly realized: "So that's what happened."
Suddenly, He Qi's mother shouted outside: "Have you discussed it? If you have discussed it, come out quickly!"
Ren Li and Huang Heqi were a little panicked. They timidly opened the door and walked out slowly, like elementary school students who made mistakes.
He Qi's father said: "You have to think about your mother and I's happiness in our old age!"
Huang Heqi said: "Who cares about Lili and I's happiness? If we have children, our beautiful life will be shattered. You can't just love your grandson and not your son!"
He Qi's mother pointed at the door and shouted: "Get out! Get out quickly, I don't want to see you again!"
Ren Li said: "Mom, don't be angry. He Qi and I will think about it carefully."
The next day, the three best friends took a lunch break in the lounge of the clothing company, drinking bitter coffee and pouring bitter water.
Ren Li yelled: "It's hard, hard, boring, annoying... They actually issued an eviction order. If I don't have children, I won't even have a place to live."
Fan Yunxuan said: "My mother-in-law also forces me to chant sutras like a monk all day long. It's very stressful!"
Wang Jiayi said: "The two of them are unyielding. In their eyes, nothing is more important than raising children. It seems that as long as they have children, they will be extremely happy, no matter what happens to the children in the future."
Ren Li continued to complain: "I couldn't stay in that house. As soon as I got home, my mother-in-law stared at me."
Fan Yunxuan said: "My mother-in-law has gone crazy. She is pressing harder and harder every day. She even bought a book and quoted from other sources. I am not even in the mood to design clothes."
Wang Jiayi said: "You are facing one enemy, but I am facing two. My husband and mother-in-law are in the same trench. Their common concept is that only when you have children, life will be valuable."
Ren Li said: "Why is it so difficult to choose your own lifestyle?"
Wang Jiayi said: "It's hard to be a human being, it's hard to be a woman, and it's even harder to be a DINK woman!"
Ren Li said: "Why don't they understand what kind of lifestyle is happy and what kind of lifestyle is suitable for them? Only we know best. What right do they have to interfere?"
Fan Yunxuan said: "Everyone agrees with the words 'Everyone has their own ambitions,' but when it comes to whether they should have children, they don't allow others to have their own ideas."
Wang Jiayi said: "'There are three types of unfilial piety, and the worst is not having children.' This kind of dregs has been accumulated in China for so many years. How can it be so easy to get rid of it?"
In the small park, there are many children playing happily. Some children are playing in the sand; some children are playing on slides;
Finally, grandma pretended that she couldn't find her, and the child came out from behind the tree and shouted: "I'm here! I'm here! Grandma is so stupid!"...
He Qi's mother, Jiajun's mother, and Haowen's mother sat not far away and watched.
Jiajun's mother said: "Look at people at our age, they all have grandchildren. It's really eye-catching!"
He Qi's mother said: "It's harder for my two bastards to make a child than to make a spaceship!"
Haowen's mother said: "If I can't hold my grandson in my arms, I won't be able to lift my head when I return to the village."
A pregnant woman came over with a beaming look on her face.
Haowen's mother asked: "Daughter, why are you so happy?"
The pregnant woman pointed to her belly and said, "I'm going to be a mother soon. Of course I'm happy."
After saying that, she hummed a little tune and continued walking. The three mothers-in-law looked at her back with disgusted expressions on their faces.
A young mother came over dragging a child.
Jiajun's mother said: "This child is really rare."
The young mother smiled.
Jiajun's mother said: "Auntie, let me ask you, why do you want to have a baby?"
The young mother said: "Why can't I have children if I have the ability to have children? Grass will sprout in spring, wheat will ear in summer, and fruit trees will bear fruit in autumn. This is the law of nature. Women grow from little girls to tall and graceful girls.
Then you become a wife and a mother, this is also the law of nature, why not give birth?"
He Qi’s mother asked: “Don’t you think it’s troublesome to raise a child?”
"My child brings me much more happiness than trouble." After saying this, the young mother took her child's hand and left with a smile on her face.
Another young mother came over with her child in her arms. The child was crying and the mother was coaxing her.
Jiajun's mother asked: "Don't you find it annoying to hear your child cry?"
This young mother said: "It used to be annoying to hear children cry, so I never wanted children. After turning thirty, for some reason, I fell in love with children as soon as I saw them and wanted to hug them, so I soon wanted my own child."
.Children are the continuation of life. What a pity it would be to have no children!”
Jiajun's mother said: "Why doesn't my daughter-in-law think so? My daughter-in-law said she didn't have children because she was responsible for herself. If you gave birth to a child, who would you be responsible for?"
The young mother said: "Of course I am responsible for myself. I have the ability to raise children, and I have to be responsible for my ability."
Haowen's mother asked: "Aren't you worried about raising children well?"
The young mother said: "I can't guarantee that my child will always be healthy and happy, but I will fulfill my responsibilities as a mother and face various risks and challenges with my child. No matter what happens in the future, I will never regret taking this
Children, because the role of mother will make me tolerant and strong. Children have taught me a lot..."
Haowen's mother murmured to herself: "Why don't my wife think so..."
In the lounge of the clothing company, Fan Yunxuan said: "The prerequisite for having children is that you must like children."
Wang Jiayi said: "Some people may not really like it. They just think that giving birth to a child is a natural thing, so they give birth to the child in a daze."
Ren Li said: "That's right, they think having a baby is just like eating, sleeping, drinking, and going to the toilet. It's something they have to do. Not giving birth to a baby feels like a weird thing."
Fan Yunxuan said: "No matter how big the interference is, we must keep a clear head and never follow the crowd."
Chapter completed!