Sun Haowen said: "Since neither of us is perfect, why should our children live in a perfect world? If we can accept imperfect ourselves, we should be able to accept imperfect children. In the future, we will also have to accept imperfect children.

Let the children accept this

It’s an imperfect world. Spending money lavishly all day long, having clothes on hand and food on hand, mouth open, carefree, is that kind of life called perfect? ​​That’s called abnormal! We encounter small setbacks, small difficulties, and small tribulations in life.

, I’m so sad, that’s normal!”

Haowen's mother said: "What I said is true. People who have never been hungry don't know how delicious white flour steamed buns are; people who have never been cold don't know how warm that cotton waistcoat is; people who have never suffered hardship or fatigue

, he doesn’t know how to cherish a happy life. When a person lives, he encounters this thing today, and he encounters it tomorrow.

When you get to that problem, you try to find a way to solve it. If you solve it, you will be happy. If it is not solved, you will feel uncomfortable. You will be happy for a while and feel uncomfortable for a while. This is how every family lives. They are always unhappy and unhappy.

Well, there’s no point in being happy all day long. Do you think that’s the truth?”

Sun Haowen nodded and said in the dialect of his hometown: "What my mother said is really exciting!"

After saying that, both Sun Haowen and Haowen's mother focused their eyes on Wang Jiayi's face. Wang Jiayi also looked at them, thoughtfully.

Guo Jiajun went to work after eating the nutritious breakfast prepared by his mother early.

Fan Yunxuan walked out of the bedroom in her pajamas.

Jiajun's mother said to Fan Yunxuan: "Don't eat toast today. I have prepared dumplings for you. They are your favorite dumplings stuffed with mutton."

After a period of struggle, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have figured out each other's bottom line, and now they have reached a certain balance. Each makes his own breakfast and each eats his own. Fan Yunxuan eats her toast and milk, and her mother-in-law cooks

She didn't dare to get her hands on the steaming millet porridge and poached eggs that came out. They were prepared by her mother-in-law for herself and her precious son. Without her

Of course, it’s not that her mother-in-law won’t let her eat. She won’t eat even if she is told to eat. Eating breakfast made by her mother-in-law means that she will have to make breakfast for her in the future. If she doesn’t make breakfast for her, wouldn’t it be taking advantage of her?

, Playing a rogue? Not only is her mother-in-law mentally unbalanced, but she is also feeling sorry for herself. But she doesn’t want to think about it so early, let alone cook porridge or omelette. As a lawyer,

As a daughter, she will inevitably be influenced by her mother's behavior style and have a strong sense of pursuing fairness. What her mother pursues is legal fairness, and in her family life, her pursuit of fairness will inevitably be reflected in housework.

.She cannot easily accept what her mother-in-law does for her. If she accepts it, she must repay it accordingly. This is fair.

Now, her mother-in-law suddenly and kindly wanted to cook dumplings for her, which meant that the balanced relationship they had established before was about to be broken. Once the balanced relationship was broken, it would be difficult to maintain the peaceful state, and she couldn't help but become alert. What's more, today, her mother-in-law

What was prepared was not the usual millet porridge, but delicious dumplings stuffed with mutton, which raised her alert level even more.

Fan Yunxuan quickly said: "Mom, why are you cooking dumplings for me today?"

"Don't you like to eat? From now on, just tell mom what you want to eat." My mother-in-law said with a smile.

Fan Yunxuan understood her intention, smiled and said, "Mom, you are doing it to have your grandson as soon as possible!"

Jiajun's mother said: "Junxuan, you are a smart child. You should know what is the most important thing in a woman's life?"

"Mom, everyone has different values. What is important and what is not important also varies from person to person."

"As long as you are a woman, the most important things at any time are these two. First, you have achieved your goal of finding a good man; second, you should have a good child. These two things are the most important things in a woman's life.

The most important thing is that no matter how big other things are, they are secondary."

"Mom, now I should focus on clothing design."

"What if you design more clothes and less clothes? No matter how good your clothes are, life without children will be incomplete."

"Life without children is imperfect; but life with children cannot be perfect either."

"We don't pursue perfection. We just need to know when to do something. Get married when it's time to get married. If you do it, you have to have children when it's time to have children..."

"Mom, today is a diversified society. There are people who are willing to get married, and there are people who are not willing to get married. There are people who get married and want children, and there are people who get married and don't want children. There are also people who got married and found their life boring and then got divorced.

Everyone has the right to freely choose their lifestyle."

"It's not that Mom doesn't understand this truth, but you have to figure out which way of life is good and which way is bad. Don't be in your thirties or forties. If you regret it and want a child, can you still have one?

?”

Fan Yunxuan smiled and said, "Mom, don't worry, I won't regret it."

Jiajun's mother was surprised: "What? You mean you don't want to have children?"

"Mom, once a woman gives birth to a child, the focus of her life has to shift to the child, and she has to revolve around him all day long. The topic of chatting with friends also becomes the child. I can't stand that kind of life."

"Now you go to the gym, beautify, and party as soon as you get off work. If you have children, it would be great to spend all that time with them!"

"I don't want children, I just don't want to give up these things."

Jiajun's mother was a little sulky: "Aren't children more important than those trivial matters?"

Fan Yunxuan retorted: "Mom, this is my way of life. If I give up, I won't even know who I am. I don't want to be a child slave."

Jiajun's mother said angrily: "I am living with you just for yourself? How selfish!"

Fan Yunxuan said: "Mom, this is not selfish. Everyone should have their own pursuit in life. There is nothing wrong with that."

Jiajun's mother mocked: "The pursuit of life? Humph, I think this is hedonism."

"Focusing on one's own quality of life and hedonism are two different things."

"I don't see any difference."

"Hedonism is the pursuit of a luxurious life. I don't want children because I am unwilling to sacrifice personal happiness."

"What? You won't be happy if you have a child? You are already in your twenties, and you still can't talk about six! Only when you have a child can you be happy! If you don't have a child, how can you talk about happiness?"

"Mom, now is no longer the age of unconditional sacrifice for future generations. I have been holding my belly for more than half a year, struggling to give birth to him on the bed, and then worrying about him endlessly. I feel tired just thinking about it.

."

"To put it simply, it's just lack of love, evasion of responsibility, and selfishness!"

"Mom, I donate to Project Hope every year. Is this lack of love? Whether I have love or not is related to my own quality and has nothing to do with whether I have children. When it comes to responsibility, I am very responsible for my career and family. It does not mean raising children.

Children are responsible! If you have a child and don’t have the patience and time to take care of him, is that called responsibility? You can’t simply think that I am evading responsibility. Maybe I have a deeper understanding of responsibility than you. Choose a DINK lifestyle

It is a prudent choice and a responsible choice.”

Jia Jun's mother looked at Fan Yixuan, as if she was stunned, staying there with stunned. The anger in her heart was rising, but she tried her best to restrain herself, pressed the anger and pressed, and worked hard to say in peace.

: "Can't you always think about it, you have to think about it in the future. When you are old, if you have no children, don't you be alone?" Don't you regret it? "

Fan Yanxuan said: "Mom, old, no children, you can also live a variety of life. Nourishing flowers, fishing, and looking for friends to chat, isn't it good?"

"People eat grains of grains, there will be a disaster with a disease ..." Jia Jun's mother said more and more anxious.

Fan Yanxuan interrupted her: "I bought medical insurance."

"Can insurance be bought, can you buy family relationships? Isn't it uncomfortable without a child? Isn't it pity?"

"If I arrange my life colorful, I won't feel uncomfortable, let alone feel pitiful."

Jia Jun's mother said angrily: "Wu Xuan, if you don't want a child, which one do you get married?"

Fan Yanxuan said in a peaceful tone: "I get married because of love, not to pass on to the seizure. Do you marry a daughter -in -law, just to turn her into a fertility machine?"

"Xuan Xuan, don't meant me. Women are not fertility machines, but only women can have children. If Jiajun can give birth, what else can I work with you?"

Suddenly, the door opened, Guo Jiajun came in.

Guo Jiajun said: "Suddenly getting the news, President Wang has to open a new mine again. Several equipment suppliers are staring at this big customer. I have to go to Shanxi quickly to avoid being snatched by others.

Prepare the suitcase. "

Guo Jiajun said, changing his shoes, put the official document on the table, and hung his jacket on the hanger.

Jia Junmao looked drumped. Fan Yanxuan was silent.

Guo Jiajun saw that their emotions were wrong, and asked, "What's wrong?"

Jia Jun's mother hummedly and said, "Ask your daughter -in -law."

Guo Jiajun understood that they must have been unhappy because of whether the child's problem had happened. He said, "Xuan Xuan, I have been thinking about this problem on the way back. People, if the heart is very strong, it must be because he can pick up it.

Some responsibility, such as the responsibility of raising children. "

Fan Yanxuan said: "It is also a responsibility to design clothing well."

Guo Jiajun said: "That's right. In addition, I am still thinking that if a person lives in a certain state for a long time, even if it is very comfortable and free, but for a long time, he must try to try not to try not to try not to try not to try not to try not to try not to try not to try not to try not to try not to try not to try not to try not to try not to try not to try not to try not to try not to try not to try not

Lifetime, want to do something else. Once you do it, your vision will become more open, and even regret it. Why don't you jump out of the original state of life earlier?
Chapter completed!