Chapter 56
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Yunxuan's mother said: "Today's young people are more individual, and it is not possible to listen to what mothers say. Have times changed? Even the concept of 'good wives and loving mothers' is also changing. History
The wheel of the wheel is moving forward. If you feel that you are too strong and have to turn back, and force today's young people to do things according to the standards of good wives and mothers like our elders, then you will definitely get screwed."
Jiajun's mother looked very embarrassed. This was her last trump card. She wanted to take the opportunity of today's gathering to reshape Yunxuan with the help of her mother-in-law. Unexpectedly, her mother-in-law's power was not used. Instead, she was defeated by her mother-in-law.
It's embarrassing. From now on, if Yun Xuan doesn't become more arrogant in this family, how can this be done?
Although she won a complete victory, Junxuan's mother was not happy at all. Obviously, her mother-in-law still lives in her own mindset and will not change, and Junxuan will not change either. So, this means the previous contradiction
If it continues, her daughter's happiness will inevitably be interfered with by her mother-in-law, which makes her involuntarily worried.
The atmosphere at the dinner table was awkward. The sound of firecrackers was loud outside, but the house was in a state of silence.
Guo Jiajun hurriedly adjusted the atmosphere, picked up a mouthful of fish, chewed it, and said, "Well, this fish in sauce is really delicious. Only my mother has this skill." He said to his mother-in-law, "Mom, try it quickly.
The fish in sauce that mom made tastes amazing."
Yunxuan's mother agreed: "Okay, let me try it." She also took a bite of the fish and said, "Well, it's so delicious! I usually go to some famous restaurants to eat, it's so delicious.
I’ve never eaten fish before!”
"Really!" Guo Jiajun sneered. He secretly glanced at his mother, whose face was still ugly.
Guo Jiajun said: "Yunxuan, you should also try this fish to see if it is as delicious as our mother said." As he said that, he gave Fan Yunxuan a piece of fish.
Junxuan picked it up with chopsticks, put it in her mouth, chewed it, and praised: "It's so delicious! I need to eat more." As she said that, she picked up a few pieces of fish and put them in the bowl.
Jiajun's mother remained silent and looked ugly.
Junxuan's mother knew that her words had made her angry. If she wanted to alleviate this embarrassment, she had to start from the place where Jiajun's mother was most proud. So, she said: "In today's society, some men know how to love their wives.
But he doesn’t have a career and can’t make money. Some men have big careers and are busy working all day long, but they don’t know how to care for their wives. People like Jiajun, who have careers and care for their wives, no longer
Seen more often."
When her son was mentioned, Jiajun's mother immediately became interested and said proudly: "My son has always received a very orthodox education since he was a child."
Yunxuan's mother quickly struck while the iron was hot: "This is all because of your good teaching."
Jiajun's mother said: "Oh, don't say that. The main reason is that Jiajun has a good nature, a kind heart, and is very sincere in his dealings with others. This is what he has."
Taking advantage of the heat, Yunxuan's mother quickly continued to praise: "So, my daughter is really marrying the right person when she marries your son. For this reason, my mother-in-law, I should give you a toast."
As she said that, she raised her wine glass. Although Jiajun's mother was a little timid, she still understood the things about noodles. She also raised her wine glass and clinked glasses with Yunxuan's mother with a half-smiling expression.
Fan Yunxuan was not very happy. Her mother has always been very proud, so when did she become so humble and do something small? My mother-in-law can't tell me, so she just loses face. My mother is highly qualified and well-educated, so she only cares about your face.
Your posture is so low. What do you call this? It's called "weak control", it's "emotional blackmail"! The words "selfish", "immoral" and "hateful" flooded from Fan Yunxuan's heart to her expression.
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From her daughter's expression, Junxuan's mother has sensed her daughter's thoughts. As a lawyer, she often makes arguments in court that are overwhelming to her opponents, but this is not a court, this is her daughter's husband's family. It doesn't matter who is right or wrong.
It doesn't matter who has a high profile or a low profile. The daughter's happiness is the most important. Whether a daughter is happy or not depends not only on the daughter's man, but the daughter's mother-in-law also has a vital influence that cannot be ignored in her daughter's marriage life. In order to
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For her daughter's happiness, she must give her mother-in-law face. Whether it's flattering, soft-talking, or being humble, these are all strategies - strategies that can make her daughter live comfortably in this family. As a daughter-in-law,
A lawyer, she is very rational, so rational that she lacks human touch, because laws and regulations come first; but as a mother, she must be humane, as long as it does not involve issues of principle, for the happiness of her daughter, she
You must be able to bend and stretch.
The meal was finally finished, and everyone was unhappy, especially Fan Yunxuan who was the most depressed. Ever since she was little, she has been very happy every Chinese New Year. Dad, mom and myself, the happiest and warmest time for a family of three is often
During the Chinese New Year. This year,
This is the first time that we have not been able to reunite as a family. My father is in the UK and he is already a little sad. My mother and I are celebrating the New Year at her husband's house. We are neither happy nor happy. We can't talk casually and we can't laugh casually. What kind of New Year are we spending?
?A year like this is worse than nothing.
Guo Jiajun could see Fan Yunxuan's thoughts from her face. He had just gotten married and was celebrating the New Year at her husband's house for the first time. Guo Jiajun felt very guilty. He asked Fan Yunxuan to rest and took the dishes by himself.
Kitchen. Normally Fan Yunxuan washes the dishes every day under the intimidation of her mother. Today, the dishes must be washed by him.
Jiajun's mother took out a stack of red certificates from the bedroom. Fan Yunxuan couldn't help but roll her eyes when she saw them.
Junxuan's mother didn't know what was going on and asked, "My mother-in-law, what is this?"
Jiajun's mother said: "When the Chinese New Year comes, I like to take out these things and look at them. They are red and festive."
As she said that, she opened the certificates one by one and read them. Yunxuan's mother realized after seeing what was written inside. It turned out that these were the honorary certificates Jiajun had received since he was a child: three good student certificates, outstanding class cadre certificates,
Mathematics competition award certificates, English competition award certificates, sports competition award certificates, etc. - from primary school to university, there are a lot of certificates for all ages.
Fan Yunxuan quietly put on her coat and walked out. She wanted to get some fresh air outside.
Her mother-in-law had already shown off these certificates to her, and now she showed them off to her mother. My mother had already acknowledged her son's excellence, but she still didn't think it was enough. She wanted to further prove to her mother that her son had been excellent since he was a child.
, you are excellent at all stages of life, these certificates are proof. It’s funny, who needs to see the proof?
?I can choose your son to be my husband, and my eyesight is the proof. Besides, the awards he received can only show that he was a good student in the past, but will a good student definitely be a winner in life? Jiajun will survive in the future.
There is a long way to go, and he will inevitably encounter various unexpected things in the process.
Can you handle everything well? Many facts have proven that children who were good students when they were young are not necessarily better able to cope with setbacks when they grow up than those who were so-called "poor students" when they were young. They have better abilities, emotional intelligence, psychological quality and learning.
There is no necessary connection between bad and bad. If the number of certificates can determine success in life,
Then my husband’s current achievements should be greater than those of Jack Ma, but the actual situation is that Jack Ma’s company is one of the world’s top 500 companies, and my husband’s company probably needs to add a “billion” before the word “strong” in “Top 500”
, 50 billion strong. Haha, Fan Yunxuan finds it funny that her husband’s company is actually one of the world’s 50 billion strong...
After thinking about it, Fan Yunxuan followed the elevator to the first floor. The fireworks outside the building continued to sound, and she walked outside the building. At this time, she never thought that Wang Yuesheng would appear next to her...
In the house, in the kitchen, Guo Jiajun was still washing dishes. He didn't know that Fan Yunxuan had gone outside. The sound of running water washing dishes and the crackling of firecrackers outside the window covered up the sound of Fan Yunxuan opening and closing the door.
In the living room, Jiajun’s mother was still enthusiastically introducing to Yunxuan’s mother the rewards her son had received at various stages: “Look, this is what my son got in fifth grade, this is a good student ID card, and this is for participating in a math competition.
, first prize, oh, that makes his teacher happy. And this, he won second place in the 100 meters in the sports meeting. You said this kid is not only smart, but also in good health..."
Yunxuan's mother said to her heart: This is only the fifth grade. If you keep talking like this, it will be dawn by the time you finish talking about his college days. She said with a smile: "My mother-in-law, you really raised a good son.
Later, when I am old and have nothing to do after retirement, when I am walking outside, I will talk to my old sisters
He said, my uncle has been good at reading Tang poetry and Song poetry since he was a child. From elementary school to middle school, he has always been a good student and graduated from a prestigious university. In the university, he was not only an outstanding class cadre, but also received scholarships every year.
My old sisters will definitely envy me for finding a good uncle."
Jiajun’s mother said: “Ever since he was a child, Jiajun has always been liked by his teachers and envied by his neighbors.”
Yunxuan's mother sighed and said: "My Yunxuan is far from your precious son. When he was in kindergarten, he was always naughty every day and never memorized any Tang poetry or Song lyrics. From elementary school to middle school, he never became a good student.
, on the contrary
I was often criticized by teachers. When I got to university, my grades were mediocre. Apart from being good at designing pictures, I couldn't do anything else. Alas, I have raised such a daughter, I accept it, and married such a daughter-in-law, you have to accept it too, right?
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As she said that, she looked at Jiajun's mother with a smile. Jiajun's mother didn't know whether she should laugh or not, or what to say. She didn't understand at all. What did her in-laws mean? She was modest and didn't teach her.
Chapter completed!