Chapter 54
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Guo Jiajun said with a wry smile, "I didn't expect that you already know my mother so well."
Fan Yunxuan shushed and said, "Stop talking and continue listening. We will get to the point soon."
In the kitchen, Jiajun’s mother said: “Before his death, his father always asked me to find a wife like me for his son. He believed that his son would be able to live happily only if he married a wife who knew how to do housework and could take care of the whole family.
will be happy."
Yunxuan's mother thought to herself: "I've been pulling you here and there, but I finally have to pull it on my daughter." But at this time, she didn't mention her daughter's fault, and she could only agree, "Yes, who married you?"
A good wife who does her job like this will be happy. However, times have changed, and it is really hard to find young girls nowadays who can do what you do."
Jiajun’s mother said: “Before Jiajun knew your family Yunxuan, I actually found him a few good girls, and Jiajun also went on a date several times, but none of them caught his eye.
Jun always has no feelings for others."
Yunxuan's mother said: "This matter depends on fate."
Jiajun's mother said: "Yes, ever since Jiajun met your family, Yunxuan, he seems to have lost his soul and he likes Yunxuan."
Yunxuan's mother smiled: "Yunxuan also told me about their affairs. When he chased Yunxuan, he used all kinds of tricks. He was really attentive."
Jiajun’s mother said: “If you don’t tell me, our two families are destined to be together!”
In the living room, Fan Yunxuan muttered in a low voice: "This Tai Chi fight is not over yet."
Guo Jiajun whispered: "It's better to do Tai Chi than Shaolin boxing. I hope they don't need to practice any moves and have a quiet New Year's Eve dinner."
Fan Yunxuan said: "How is this possible? When a mother-in-law meets her mother, even if she doesn't scold or pinch her, she will definitely use hidden force frequently."
In the kitchen, Jiajun's mother said: "Jiajun has never let me worry about anything since he was a child. He has always been very reliable in his work. When I thought about it, the girl he fell in love with was definitely right! Facts have proved...
"
Speaking of this, Jiajun's mother paused. The next words are the most critical, which directly determines Yunxuan's mother's next attitude. Fan Yunxuan and Guo Jiajun in the living room also listened with their ears pricked up. The most nervous one
It was Guo Jiajun. He said silently in his heart: "My dear mother, please don't be confused!"
Jiajun's mother pretended to glance at the living room accidentally and saw Fan Yunxuan staring at her.
Yunxuan's mother said in a calm tone: "My mother-in-law, you don't want to talk half-heartedly."
Jiajun's mother said: "It turns out that Junxuan is indeed a good girl."
Guo Jiajun's hanging heart dropped. Fan Yunxuan said to herself: "If I weren't here, it would definitely not be this version."
Yunxuan's mother said: "I know that this child, Yunxuan, will definitely fall far behind your expectations."
Jiajun's mother said: "Everyone has their own personality, and it is impossible to be the same. However, the contrast between Yunxuan's personality and mine is really huge."
Yunxuan's mother said: "Society is changing. Different eras have different concepts. This is not entirely a matter of personality differences."
Jiajun's mother said: "No matter how the times change, the general trend is still that men take the lead outside and women take the lead inside. Once a woman gets married, she has to support the family. She can't expect men to do all the housework!"
It finally started to spit fire out, and Yunxuan's mother felt that it was time to put out her own water.
Yunxuan's mother said: "Today's working women are very independent financially and personally, and many of them are unwilling to spend time worrying about their parents. Today's young people are under great pressure at work. For the sake of career prospects, they put more effort into
It is understandable to put too much thought into work. If your job goes well, your income will naturally be guaranteed. You can't put all the financial burden on men, right? If that were the case, wouldn't all the books written by women in the workplace for so many years be in vain?
Read it."
Jiajun's mother said: "There are indeed benefits to studying more. It is indeed not easy to work hard in society like a man. But parents can't just rely on studying a lot to understand nothing.
.”
Junxuan's mother said: "Junxuan is really lacking in this aspect."
Jiajun's mother became more energetic and said, "You can learn if you don't understand. She has no intention of learning now."
Junxuan's mother said: "Times have changed, and people's way of life has also changed. In the past, men worked hard outside, and women were busy with home affairs. But now it is different. Girls also have to work hard outside, especially Junxuan.
I work as a fashion designer, and I have to retouch pictures when I go home. It's quite similar to my job as a lawyer. In order to prepare for a lawsuit, I have to check various laws and regulations, and I have to be busy for a while when I get home."
Jiajun's mother said: "The living conditions are so good now. We don't have to change the gas or make briquettes. We just buy some food, cook some food and mop the floor. It's much easier than when we were young and it doesn't take much time."
Junxuan's mother retorted: "This is not just a matter of time, it is mainly a matter of interest. Junxuan will definitely follow me in this regard, I don't like to do those things in the kitchen. Either her father
His father doesn’t think there’s anything inappropriate about doing it or eating out. When you’re young, you still have to put your career first.”
Jiajun's mother said: "I think marriage is more important than career for girls."
Yunxuan's mother said: "Yes, marriage is indeed very important. But in today's society, girls also need to have a career of their own. Only women who are not dependent on men will live more calmly and confidently. However, this
It is not inconsistent with marriage. Confidence and calmness will naturally make a woman's temperament elegant. With Jiajun's arrogant attitude, women who lack this kind of temperament may not be able to catch his eye!"
"Beautiful!" Fan Yunxuan, who was listening to the conversation between the two mothers, applauded her mother in her heart. These words were spoken politely, which not only protected herself, but also naturally drew Jiajun out.
Shield, the implication is: "Your son likes this one, do you care about it?"
Fan Yunxuan judged that her mother, who always liked to be polite before fighting, had begun to counterattack. As a lawyer, her mother would definitely use her superb art of argument to turn her mother-in-law's repeated attacks into retreat. In order to prevent her mother from having
With no worries, in order not to embarrass Jiajun too much, she pulled Jiajun into the bedroom.
Guo Jiajun, who didn't know what was going on, asked, "Why don't you listen?"
Fan Yunxuan said: "Finally, there is a sense of swordsmanship. If I were not there, my dear mother-in-law would definitely be more arrogant in front of my mother and say that I did not do this well and that I did wrong. We have to give her full vent.
opportunity.”
Guo Jiajun said: "My mother is not as ignorant as you said. At most, she just points it out."
Fan Yunxuan said: "I have been doing it for so long, so I must do it well. Moreover, if I do it in front of my mother, she will feel very accomplished!"
Guo Jiajun said: "What sense of accomplishment is there?"
Fan Yunxuan said: "My mother is a lawyer, and she is also a well-known barrister. She cannot compare with my mother in terms of social status. Now that we are together, she has to find a balance. She has to praise you and me.
She is suppressing her to prove that she is better at educating children than my mother. By the way, she will also hint that my mother is here to put pressure on me and force me to submit. Do you know what the outcome will be?"
Guo Jiajun asked: "What's the ending?"
Fan Yunxuan said: "She will definitely shoot herself in the foot. Not only will she fail to meet her expectations, she will also make herself disgraced."
Guo Jiajun was a little anxious: "Then let's go back. At the critical moment, we can still relax the atmosphere."
Fan Yunxuan said: "We can't go back! Only when we are not here, they can show their full potential. It was still a bit tepid just now, and they must not have had enough. Only when we are not around, they can show their ancient talents."
"How can you bear it? There is a conflict between two of the closest people, and you can actually sit back and watch it!"
"Change will only occur when there is conflict. We have to give our old queen a chance to grow and progress. She won't listen to anything I say as a junior. If my mother says the same thing, maybe it will have an effect. Take advantage of this
Chances are, my mother will help your mother deeply understand the meaning of these four words."
Guo Jiajun looked at her with a puzzled expression.
Fan Yunxuan continued: "Advance with the times. My mother is a model of advancing with the times, and your mother is a model of stubbornness. Concepts need to be collided, and only after the collision will there be changes. The inherent mindset is very difficult.
It’s terrible. It should be changed when it’s time to change.”
In the kitchen, the competition between the two old people continued. Regarding the issue of Yunxuan not liking to do housework, Jiajun's mother failed to tell Yunxuan's mother, so she lost the game. In order to regain face, she planned to use Yunxuan
Talk about "luxury" and "hypocrisy".
Jiajun's mother said: "My mother-in-law, don't we often talk about 'family tradition' on TV now? Our family tradition is hard work and simplicity. Although the living conditions are relatively good, I still think it is quite shameful to be extravagant and wasteful.
Isn’t it also said in the ‘Xinwen Lianbo’?”
Junxuan's mother said: "Diligence and simplicity are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, and every family should promote them."
Jiajun's mother said: "But this kid, Yunxuan, doesn't know what's going on. She has no idea how to spend money. She buys one set of clothes after another, and any one of them costs 1,800 yuan. She and
I said that she is a fashion designer and she wants to keep up with the trend. She buys clothes for design, which I can understand. But I think that if she is such a spiritual designer, she will not be able to do it if she goes to stores more.
If you have an idea, why do you have to buy it back?"
Yunxuan's mother smiled: "My mother-in-law, I am a lawyer, not a fashion designer. I work in different professions. I really don't understand the things about clothes. But according to what I know about Yunxuan, she still does things the same way.
She has some brains. She buys a lot of clothes, which seems to be quite expensive, but if she can design more clothes that are in line with the trend, the money she earns back should be more than what she spends. Otherwise, she will be unable to make ends meet.
Of course, it is wrong to spend money lavishly, and I am also in favor of diligence and frugality. In this regard, I am like you, I don’t spend a penny more than I should. But on the other hand, I am
Think about it, this is an era of diversity, everyone has his own values, we cannot think that what others do is wrong just because we don’t like it. If others do not infringe on our own rights and interests, and do not violate the law and public order and good customs,
We should respect other people’s wishes, don’t you think?”
Chapter completed!