Junxuan's mother sighed and said, "How could I raise such a snobbish daughter like you?"

Fan Yunxuan was dissatisfied: "Mom, how can this be snobbery? As a fashion designer, spending time and energy on fashion design is what I should do."

Yunxuan's mother said: "It is your duty to maintain a good relationship with your mother-in-law and consider her feelings. Just like when you usually go shopping and chat with your best friends, you also need to spend time. Do you think it is a waste?

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"That's different. I'm very happy to be with them. This time is well spent."

"It takes time and must be spent to build a good relationship with my mother-in-law and harmonize the relationship."

"If I do housework meticulously, buy less clothes, shop less, and save all my money like my mother-in-law asked me to do, then what's the meaning of my life? It will be boring to death."

"You are no longer an adolescent girl. It's time to calm down. Marriage is a reality."

"I want to live a more interesting life. Is this wrong?"

"Of course this is true, but fun must also be based on reality. An interesting life must be lived day by day, and you cannot live without reality. The reality you need to focus on now is their feelings. You can't just think about yourself.

Happy, completely disregarding your mother-in-law's feelings, your mother-in-law

Your mother-in-law's feelings will directly affect your husband's feelings. If they all dislike you, your fun will turn into boredom, and your boredom will turn into a crisis. It's okay to pursue fun, but it's not okay to ignore reality. No matter what you do,

What, as long as you ignore reality, you are bound to have no good results."

Fan Yunxuan smiled bitterly: "Marriage is indeed not the destination of love, but the grave of love. People said this before, but I still didn't believe it. I didn't expect you to say the same thing. If I had known this was the case, it would be better not to get married and stay in love for the rest of my life.

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Yunxuan's mother said: "Love also needs to be reflected in the details of life. Even if you are in a lifelong relationship, you still need to care for each other and be considerate to each other. If you only care about yourself and don't consider others, no matter how solid the foundation is, the relationship will not last a lifetime."

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"I can only go back to work as a free nanny for them?"

"Housework should be shared among everyone. Your mother-in-law is busy in the kitchen and you are practicing yoga in the bedroom. Do you think this picture is harmonious? Will Jiajun be happy to see such a picture?"

"He didn't say anything!"

"He didn't say anything now, but as time goes by, he will definitely not be able to bear it. The more he tolerates it, the more likely he will explode with intense emotions."

"Mom, do people of your generation have a strong sense of crisis?"

"If you don't have long-term worries, you will always have immediate worries. Just like why did your mother-in-law nag you to save money? It's because she lived a hard life when she was a child. In the past, there was a lack of material. Many people didn't eat well, wear well, or have enough energy when they were young.

Don’t you have a sense of crisis? Mom rarely nags you before, but she nags you so much today because she sees the crisis in your marriage. Don’t be annoyed."

"Mom, when I was a child, you always encouraged me and cultivated my character of daring to think and do. Now, why are you starting to discourage me again?"

"I used to be young and arrogant, which was fine. Now I can no longer be as arrogant as before."

"It's better to be proud than to feel inferior, right?"

"Mom does not let you inferior, I hope you can be humble. If you do n’t learn to humble, you will inferior to your lessons."

"Oh, the amount of information today is too large, making me a little indigestion."

"Say a thousand ways and 10,000, in fact, you only need to grasp two points: First, if you care about your feelings with Jia Jun, you cannot ignore your mother -in -law's feelings.

Taking your mother -in -law as a free nanny, this is not in line with the principle of mutual benefit, to change it. "

"Mutuality and benefit? How to tell the marriage like doing business."

"Marriage is not doing business, but the principle of mutual benefit in business is also applicable to marriage. You can care for your mother -in -law and share it, and you will be replaced back to Jiajun.

After a long time, Jiajun loves you anymore, and it will inevitably have a micro -resignation. It is your feelings that will be damaged at that time. "

"But my mother -in -law asked this today, and it is annoying to ask for this tomorrow."

"How many requirements are there? Isn't it just cooking, saving money, and doing housework? Who is not this? Her requirements are basically a reasonable category. Although I have contact with her

Many, but I can also see that she is not the kind of unreasonable mother -in -law. "

"But I really hate cooking, she just let me cook."

"If one day, she doesn't want to let you do anything, and she doesn't want to tell you anything, that is, it's completely desperate for you. It is not terrible that you don't care about her, but it causes her not to care about you.

Terrible. "

"Correspondent Tong, don't be a lawyer, just go to be a marriage and family mediationman."

"Mom helped someone to fight so many divorce lawsuits, Mom said, all of which were summarized from a piece of blood and tears."

"Less blood tears? This topic is too heavy. Can we talk about something else? How do you plan to live this year?"

"Mom is also trying to discuss with you, how can I pass it?"

"How can you live, you are so rational, so strong, you have been at home alone!"

"How do you live? Have you planned to go out for vacation?"

"What kind of leave? I want to accompany my mother -in -law, I have to help her make dumplings according to your requirements!"

"Throw your mother no matter how you don't care?"

"What do you do? I am already the water you splashed out now."

"It's so white -eyed wolf."

Fan Yanxuan laughed: "My mother -in -law invites you to celebrate the Chinese New Year together, or not?"

"Mom originally intended to go to Hainan to walk, but now I think I need to stay. Talk to your mother -in -law while celebrating the New Year."

"You are not afraid that she will give you a Hongmen banquet? She will definitely take the opportunity to say that a lot of me."

"New Year's Eve, she won't."

"Why not? Are you knowing her or I know her? She is like this, with a small heart!"

"If she dares to say that my daughter is not good in front of me, that's not good, it makes me live a bad year, I will tell her to see the style of the lawyer in court."

"It's great, Barrier Tong, you must hit her flowers and flowers, I want to see her ash face."

"Mother -in -law is also a mother, you can't hurt me lightly, don't feel bad for her."

"Then I keep neutral, watching the two moms right, it must be more exciting than the Spring Festival Gala."

"Why did I raise you as heartless!"

Fan Yanxuan smirked at her.

Mother Xuan Xuan also said: "Taking advantage of the Chinese New Year, you have to blend and blending feelings with your mother -in -law."

Fan Yanxuan nodded: "Barrier," blending ', you use too accurately. My mother and I have your feelings.

So how do you say that the taste is different. "

Wu Xuan's mother said helplessly: "You child."

Due to the long distance, Wang Jiayi asked the boss to leave leave. After returning to her hometown in advance. After the boss agreed, she quickly grabbed the ticket and bought a ticket to Chengdu. She had to fly back to Chengdu overnight. Sun Haowen was very helpless, and sent her to the airport.

In the waiting hall, Wang Jiayi said, "Thank you for sending me."

This reminding Sun Haowen felt very uncomfortable. He asked: "How did I have become so inconsistent with me?"

Wang Jiayi also feels that the relationship with Sun Haowen has become a little bit of birth. This kind of child is estimated to stem from inner dissatisfaction. The house is the down payment from parents. For my father and mother, it is definitely a giant.

The style, almost emptied the bottom of the house, so that Sun Haowen should go back and visit his parents with herself, but Sun Haowen insisted on spending the New Year with her mother. She has enough life to live with her mother -in -law.

You can't bring your mother -in -law to Chengdu. In this case, you have to live each year.

Wang Jiayi said: "Taking advantage of the New Year, we all think about it, how can the differences be solved?"

Sun Haowen looked up at the lamp on the roof of the waiting hall, and said, "Jiayi, you look up and take a look at it."

Wang Jiayi looked up, "What do you see?"

Sun Haowen asked: "What did you see?"

"What else can you see? Isn't it a huge roof?"

"What's on the top of the shed?"

"Except for the lights is the lamp."

Sun Haowen continued to ask: "What are the characteristics of these lights?"

Wang Jiayi puzzled: "Sun Haowen, what do you mean?"

Sun Haowen said: "These lights are shining with each other, not squeezing each other. Mother -in -law and daughter -in -law should be like this."

Wang Jiayi did not expect that he pulled around and turned to the relationship between mother -in -law and daughter -in -law, and said: "The lamp is orderly, but the mother -in -law and daughter -in -law will cross the boundary from time to time. There is nothing comparable between the two."

Sun Haowen said: "The mother does disturb your quietness, but you must know how to compare your heart. If my mother lives alone, how can I let me go?"

Wang Jiayi said, "When we didn't buy a house, isn't she living alone in her hometown?"

Sun Haowen said: "Whether here or in my hometown, my mother is a selfless person. She never thought about buying a good clothes for herself. She never thought of making a bite of food.

How can I think of my mind that can make us live well, why can't you do so? "

Wang Jiayi said: "I don't deny that she is a good person. I don't want to let her live here because she destroys our feelings. Since she is here, is our previous warm and sweet? Is there?" Is there? "

"Jiayi, I understand, you have thought of the two -person world, and you need a private space, but except that I am your husband, I am still my mother's son. We can just think of your warmth and sweetness.
Chapter completed!