Guo Jiajun said: "The reason for moving is not sufficient and I cannot agree with it."

Fan Yunxuan said: "I think the reason is very good. There is no room for two tigers in one mountain, and there cannot be two mistresses in a home. She said that she is the mistress of this home, and I admit it, but at least, in this bedroom, I am the mistress

Right! What kind of behavior is she disposing of my things without my consent? This is infringing on my sovereignty. She is an elder, I can’t afford to offend her, but I can hide. So, we need to buy

A house of our own."

"It is indeed her fault that she threw things at you. But it is also excusable. After all, she has no education and does not have much awareness of respecting the sovereignty of others. She is not doing this against you, she is just

I thought your piece of art was weird, with a bare butt, and it looked unsightly to her, so she threw it away. Similar things happened not only between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but also between husband and wife. There are many conflicts due to different aesthetic values.

. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live separately when there is a conflict, and husband and wife live separately when there is a conflict. If this were the case, there would probably be very few couples in the world who could live together."

"You call this sophistry. Are conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law the same thing as conflicts between husband and wife?"

"What I mean is that conflicts occur everywhere, between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and between husband and wife."

"The relationship between husband and wife has been tempered by love, and their values ​​​​are consistent. Even if there are conflicts, it is easy to tolerate and understand because of the emotional foundation. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are different. There is a big gap in values ​​and no emotional foundation.

They all feel that they are right, just like oil and water, no matter how much they are stirred, they cannot get together and must be separated."

"It is normal for you to have a gap in values, but this gap is not so big that it is incompatible with each other. You have exaggerated it. You are just a little different in your living habits. To put it bluntly, you are unwilling to do housework.

, my mother is relatively conservative in her thinking and thinks that women should do housework. She just complains to you from time to time, and that’s all it does!”

"It's not a big deal, but she keeps nagging in my ears like Tang Monk all day long. Who can stand it after a long time?"

"My mother is old and her thinking has been solidified. It is difficult for her to change her mind. You should be more tolerant. Why are you so stubborn? Pretend, pour the rice into the pot, add some water, and insert

If you turn on the electricity, doesn't it count as cooking? It's not difficult, why are you so resistant?"

"You also wish that I would take over my mother's job and cook, wash and wait for you all day long, right?"

"I don't mean that. I just think that we are young people, so we need to think more clearly and don't compete with the old people all the time. Even if it's just pretending, cooking dinner occasionally and making her happy, she won't be that big to you.

Is it a stereotype?"

"I always thought that you and I had similar positions, but now I understand that you are boiling a frog in warm water and trying to trick me into something little by little. Essentially, you two are the same, forcing me to do something I don't want to do."

Things to do.”

"Yunxuan, I'm not forcing you. I'm just asking you to show off occasionally to ease the conflict between you and my mother. Mom is devoted to us, and we have to be considerate of the old man."

"I think she should have her own life and not put all her thoughts on her contribution to the younger generation. Look at her now, all she thinks about all day long is how to make you eat and drink well, what to prepare for you for breakfast, and what to prepare for dinner.

What to prepare for you? She has nothing else on her mind except these. She has fulfilled her obligation to raise you, and now she has no obligation to continue to take care of you unconditionally."

"But I have an obligation to repay my mother. This kind of repayment is not only material, but also spiritual. She lives with me and sees me eating well and dressing well every day. This is very important to her.

It is the greatest spiritual comfort. If they live separately, it will be a mental blow to her."

"To put it this way, I have to move back to my parents' home to live with my mother. According to your logic, if my mother can't see me and doesn't know whether I'm eating well or whether I'm wearing warm clothes, that's a negative impact on her mentally.

It’s a blow. From now on, every girl should stop marrying and move out of her parents’ home, which will be a mental blow to her parents.”

"Your mother's situation is different from mine. My great mother-in-law, who is the famous lawyer Tong in China's legal community, is a person who cares about the world. Like you, she is also a person who doesn't take housework seriously at all.

She is my daughter. If you are not by her side, it will not be a blow to her."

"That's right, my mother raised me to push me into a wider world. If I get tired of being around her all day long, that will be a blow to her. You should really let your mother and I learn from each other.

Learn, when it comes to letting go of your children’s lives, let it go as early as possible.”

"There is no way to learn this. My mother is not as knowledgeable, as broad-minded, and open-minded as your mother. Character determines destiny. People with a temperament like my mother have a typical housewife mentality. Your mother is career-oriented.

They don’t belong to the same type, and no one can learn from the other.”

"Your analysis is very accurate, but the problem is that my mother is not satisfied with the role of a housewife. She insists on being a teacher and makes me her apprentice. She will not give up until she teaches me to be a housewife. So.

, I must escape from her clutches and move out.”

"My mother is getting older day by day, and her life will become more and more inconvenient. We moved out, and she is all alone. I have to think about her all day long outside, and my work is affected. Don't worry about these trivial things.

Things are more serious."

"This is really not a trivial matter. It is terrifying to think about it."

"Yunxuan, I noticed that your personality has changed a bit. In the past, you didn't take big things seriously. Now, is it worth thinking about this little family matter?"

"My parents warned me at first, but I didn't take it seriously, but now, I think they were right."

"What did they say?"

"They told me that my mother has been a widow for many years and you are her most important emotional support. She doesn't want you to live separately from her because she can't live without you as her emotional support. But as long as she lives with me under the same roof

, she will inevitably start a battle for your affection with me. Even if I can cook, cook, and do all the housework well, to her, I am also an enemy, and I will always have to be squeezed by her."

Guo Jiajun joked: "Then you can't move out. She will definitely be reluctant to let you move out. If you move out, who will she take advantage of?"

"Hey, did you marry me into your family just to cash in on your mother?"

"If my mother runs against you, you can run against me. You can run against me even more and I will never let you suffer a loss."

"I discovered that in this family, mother-in-law is actually easy to deal with. The real difficult opponent is actually you."

"Why am I a rival? I am at best the helmsman."

"helmsman?"

"Our family is a ship. If you want to go in this direction, my mother wants to go in another direction. I have to steer the rudder in the middle. If there is any slack, our ship will hit the rocks."

While Fan Yunxuan and Guo Jiajun were arguing endlessly, Wang Jiayi and Sun Haowen were also at war.

Wang Jiayi said: "I don't object to her continuing to stay in Beijing, but she cannot live at home."

Sun Haowen asked in confusion: "Where can I live if I don't live at home?"

"Rent a small house outside. The ideal living situation for young and old people is just a bowl of soup away. Living under the same roof is not suitable at all."

"If you ask me to move out, my mother will feel very sad."

"Is she uncomfortable? I'm still uncomfortable! With her here, our lives can't get back on track at all. Let's rent her a small house nearby, and we can visit her at any time. Even in your hometown, young people

People don’t all live with old people, right? What’s wrong with her?”

“The rent is very expensive.”

"The rent is expensive, but I would rather tighten my belly than give myself a free and enjoyable space."

"Tighten your belly? Can you really give up all entertainment activities and only eat noodles with clear soup every day? This is Beijing. The rent, even if it is only one bedroom, in this area, can't afford 4,000 yuan a month? This is our point

You have to pay off your salary, pay off your mortgage, and live a petty bourgeoisie life. Do you think this is realistic?"

These words made Wang Jiayi calm down a little, but it was really unbearable. She asked: "When will she return to her hometown?"

Sun Haowen said: "Let's talk about it after we find Lingzi."

"This Lingzi is not old, but she is really big-hearted. She has not taken the initiative to contact you for such a long time? If she is never found, will your mother have to live here forever?"

Sun Haowen said: "Even if I find her, I won't worry about my mother being all alone in her hometown."

Wang Jiayi was shocked and asked: "You mean... your mother wants to live here forever?"

"I have not decided yet."

"Then think about it!"

"Mom is alone in my hometown. If she gets sick..."

"She's in such good health, so it's unlikely that she'll be seriously ill. If she's really in bad health and can't take care of herself, then consider taking her over."

"Why bother? It's a toss-up."

"We have only been married for a short time, and we are already burdened with all kinds of heavy burdens. What's the point of getting married? If I had known this, it would be better not to get married!"

"My mother is in such good health, she is not a burden to us, at least not now."

"She has affected our normal life. What I need is a relaxed, harmonious, warm and romantic world for two people. Since she came, she has occupied our living room and even when she enters this bedroom, she doesn't know how to knock on the door.

Just open the door and come in."

"I told her about this issue, and she has paid great attention to it now."
Chapter completed!