Chapter 127 What kind of man is worth entrusting for life (3)(1/2)
Fan Yunxuan said: "A good man, first of all he must know how to respect you."
Ren Li echoed: "Yes, if he doesn't respect you, he can't say he loves you."
Fan Yunxuan said: "He must also know how to care and considerate you."
Ren Li said: "Yes, if you are thirsty, he can bring you your favorite drink; if you are hungry, he can prepare delicious meals for you; if you are tired, he can rub your shoulders and back; if you are sick,
He has to be able to stay by your side at all times."
Wang Jiayi said: "Do you want him to listen to me in everything?"
Fan Yunxuan shook her head and said: "He should listen to what should be heard, and he should have the courage to put forward his own opinions."
Ren Li said: "It depends on the starting point. If he goes against your starting point for your own good, it means that he truly loves and protects you."
Wang Jiayi said: "He thinks it's for my own good, but if I don't think so, there will inevitably be a quarrel. Maybe if we quarrel, the relationship will fade away."
Fan Yunxuan said: "If he is a person who knows how to tolerate tolerance, he will take the initiative to give in. Even if he knows that you are wrong, he will be patient and coax you."
Ren Li said: "You can't marry someone who can have a cold war with you for a long time over a trivial matter, and who always has a long face."
Fan Yunxuan said: "Lili is right, being open-minded and understanding are the essential qualities of a good husband."
Ren Li said: "Such men usually have better personalities and are responsible."
Fan Yunxuan said: "Responsible, filial, and grateful, these are also the standards of a good husband."
Ren Li said: "A good husband should stay at home with you when he has nothing to do. He should not go out and have sex with some friends. Men who are willing to accompany you and help you with housework are more worthy of marrying.
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Wang Jiayi said with a look of surprise: "Lili, this is so funny coming out of your mouth. Will your He Qi help you with the housework?"
Ren Li said: "If he doesn't do it, he is lazy."
Wang Jiayi said: "You are not diligent either. Are you talking to me on paper? You are still chatting so enthusiastically about things that your husband cannot do."
Ren Li said: "You are different from me. My He Qi has a lot of problems, I admit. What you want to marry is a perfect husband with no problems. Of course we have to talk to a higher level."
Fan Yunxuan said: "The world is not complete, let alone a husband? There is no such thing as a perfect husband, only a man who suits me."
Wang Jiayi said: "I think the one in your family is perfect. He is handsome, can make money, has a big house and a good car, and he also knows how to respect you, appreciate you, and love you."
Ren Li nodded, "I think so too. My brother-in-law is indeed perfect. Jiayi will probably find her according to her standards."
Fan Yunxuan smiled and said: "He seems to be a pretty good person, but he has a big problem."
Ren Li asked curiously: "Tell me, tell me, what's wrong with him?"
Fan Yunxuan said: "His biggest problem is that he loves to show off, is arrogant and self-righteous. He thinks he can do everything well and has to bear all the hardships by himself. He is already exhausted, but he still pretends to be energetic.
Brag to me about how beautifully he does everything."
Wang Jiayi said: "Why does it smell like Versailles?"
Fan Yunxuan said: "What I said are all facts."
Ren Li said: "How dare he pretend in front of you? You are so sharp-tongued that you can't beat him into a meat pie?"
Fan Yunxuan said: "I won't hit him! When he brags, I pretend to be a little girl who doesn't understand anything to satisfy his vanity. This can alleviate his anxiety in the business world.
The effect of tiredness is just like when we go out shopping and chat when we are tired from work, it can soothe the body and mind."
Ren Li's eyes widened in surprise, "Hey, I have to learn this trick from you. The one in my family is better at bragging. From now on, I won't hit him anymore."
Fan Yunxuan said: "It is extremely unrealistic to hope that your husband will have no flaws and that your marriage will have no flaws, just like hoping that there will be no shadows in the sun."
Ren Li said: "Yes, people who have this idea are stupid. People who get divorced because of this idea are even more stupid."
Wang Jiayi looked at Ren Li.
Ren Li said: "I didn't scold you."
"You are just scolding me!" Wang Jiayi said angrily.
Ren Li smiled and said: "I scold you just to make you sober up. You and that Sun Haowen got divorced so hastily. You left him..."
Wang Jiayi interrupted her and said, "I can't live without him, right? No one wants me, right?"
Ren Li waved her hands hurriedly and said: "No, no, that's not what I meant. I mean, of course you can live a better life if you leave him. But, if he leaves you, he will only have his slender head and clumsy mouth."
Yes, who would still want to be with him? How will he live his life in the future? How about you pity him and continue to make do with him? "
Wang Jiayi said: "Why should I make do? I don't live to make do. Others can pursue happiness, so why do I raise the white flag to marriage and life so early? Why can't I work hard to pursue happiness?"
Fan Yunxuan and Ren Li looked at her and then at each other.
Fan Yunxuan said: "Don't give up and don't give up. This is a positive attitude towards life."
Ren Li said: "A positive attitude is a good thing, but if the goal is too high, it is a bit unrealistic."
Wang Jiayi retorted: "The goal is high? Where is it too high? What I want is actually very simple. In terms of image, he should be thinner and quieter. It is best to wear a pair of glasses, be knowledgeable and elegant. Every morning, he can use The sweet kiss wakes me up from my sleep. When I go to work, he can drive me to the company first, and then go to his unit. After get off work, I am cooking in the kitchen, and he can chat with me. When eating, I Will eat what he likes
If I feed him something to eat, he will also feed me my favorite food. After eating, we will sit on the sofa together, watch our favorite TV, listen to our favorite music, or turn off the TV and speakers and stare at each other.
, feel each other's love. When I am angry, he knows how to coax me and make me happy. When I am sad, he will wipe my tears and say to me: 'It's no big deal, I'm here!' This is it.
The husband of my dreams.”
"Wow!" Ren Li exclaimed and said with wide eyes, "If you encounter such a man, you must hide it, otherwise, I will definitely fight for you, even if I risk my life."
Fan Yunxuan said: "This is also the man I dream of, but unfortunately, I have never seen him."
Ren Li said: "A man like this comes out every two thousand years, how can it be so easy to see him!"
Wang Jiayi looked unconvinced, "Why are we getting married? Isn't it just to have someone who can blend in with our hearts and stay with us? If he can't do this, why should I marry him?"
Ren Li said: "The problem is, it's hard to find such a person! Even if you finally find him after searching for him, he may not necessarily belong to you!"
Wang Jiayi said: "It all depends on fate. For this fate, I am willing to wait, and it will be worth waiting as long as I want."
Ren Li teased: "You really shouldn't be impatient for a good fate. You really need to wait. If you wait and wait, maybe you can really see the back of fate..."
Wang Jiayi said: "Okay, just go ahead and ridicule me as much as you want. No matter how much you ridicule me, I will never change my mind. Even if I become a 'love fighter', I will continue to move forward and never find true love."
, I vow not to give up!”
Fan Yunxuan said: "The courage is commendable and admirable."
Ren Li said: "The characteristic of a love warrior is that he can not only face failure while moving forward, but also continue to move forward despite failure. I support you!"
Although Haowen's mother is uneducated, she is also a person who knows how to reflect. Although her daughter-in-law moved away from home because she had an quarrel with her son, it must have something to do with her. She often chats with her son in her hometown dialect, and her daughter-in-law must have
I feel left out. I always cook Shanxi cuisine, and my wife must not be used to it. Although
She also learned to cook a few Sichuan dishes, but they were definitely not authentic. This honest old lady did not know at this time that her daughter-in-law had divorced her son. She believed what her son and his wife said, thinking that they were only temporarily separated.
She didn't want her daughter-in-law and son to be separated for too long, and she wanted to find a way to help her son win back his wife's heart.
Wang Jiayi stopped living and dining with them. Sun Haowen thought that his mother would cook him authentic Shanxi cuisine. Unexpectedly, his mother cooked Sichuan cuisine every day. She told Sun Haowen that he must learn to cook authentic Sichuan cuisine.
Let Jiayi eat happily.
Sun Haowen understands his mother's painstaking efforts, but he and Wang Jiayi have divorced. No matter how good she cooks Sichuan cuisine, Jiayi will not come back to eat it. In order to prevent his mother from being sad, he cannot tell the fact about the divorce and must find other reasons.
Convince your mother that you don't need to worry so much.
Sun Haowen said: "Mom, some people will not appreciate it no matter how much you do for them. The more you do, the more mistakes you will make."
Haowen's mother said: "The human heart is made of flesh, not stone. How can you not appreciate it?"
Neither Haowen's mother nor Sun Haowen are used to eating spicy food. Every meal was so spicy that they burst into tears.
Sun Haowen wiped his tears and said: "Mom, don't bother, it's useless. If she doesn't come back, she won't come back!"
Haowen's mother said: "What if we don't come back? What should Beibei do? As long as we treat her well enough, she will come back."
Sun Haowen said: "Mom, you are the elder, there is no need to be condescending to her."
Haowen's mother said: "Hey, what do you mean by being humble? This is called having a big-picture concept. In the village, the village chief often said on the loudspeaker that we should have a big-picture concept when doing things. When we encounter problems, you step back and I give in.
, can the problem be solved. Why did you two separate? Isn't it because neither of you is willing to be humble? Couples should make concessions to each other, especially if you are a man, you must be humble."
Sun Haowen said: "She is like the emperor's daughter, always aloof. The more humble I am, the more she takes it for granted. In her eyes, I will always be a farmer, so I am not qualified to marry a noble princess like her."
Haowen's mother said: "A couple can't live a carefree life like this. When you go to the market to buy vegetables, you can't ask for a pound, and he will weigh you a pound, either a little higher or a little lower. The same principle applies to a couple's life.
My son, I always care about who is more humble and who is less humble, and my life is not good. When Jiayi comes to breastfeed the child, you should say more good things and behave well. As the old saying goes, people's hearts are changed, and loess is turned into gold.
Listen to me, that’s right.”
After the endless coma, Shi Yu suddenly stood up from the bed. Please,
He took a deep breath of fresh air, his chest trembling.
Confused, confused, and all kinds of emotions came to my mind.
Where is this?
Afterwards, Shi Yu subconsciously looked around and became even more confused.
A single dorm?
Even if he was successfully rescued, he should be in the ward now.
To be continued...