Chapter 125 What kind of man is worth entrusting for life (1)
The blind date turned into a farce, Wang Jiayi was very disappointed, and the three of them chatted while walking.
Wang Jiayi said: "What I am looking for is a prince, why are all I encounter frogs?"
Fan Yunxuan said: "As the saying goes, hope is like fire and disappointment is like smoke. Dating is like smoking. If you have to smoke, you must be prepared to be choked."
Ren Li said: "These people I contacted are definitely big guys with a big heart. Unexpectedly, they are all donkey dung eggs with a smooth surface."
Wang Jiayi said: "So, there are many who are not as good as them?"
Ren Li said: "Of course. The photos are crooked and cracked, and I can tell that they don't agree with you just by looking at the profile, so I will directly screen them."
Wang Jiayi said: "Have all good men gone to the moon?"
Fan Yunxuan said: "The real protagonist can't appear from the beginning, there must be a few supporting characters to warm up the scene."
Ren Li said: "Yes, let's just treat it as practice. But isn't this method too deliberate? It's not romantic at all. I think we should change the method."
"In what way?" Wang Jiayi asked.
"Let's find a natural way, such as a chance encounter." Ren Li said.
"Meet by chance? You can't find it even if you try hard to find it. How can it be so easy to meet by chance?" Wang Jiayi said with a frustrated look.
"Fate is a wonderful thing. If you look for it deliberately, you may not be able to find it. Inadvertently, it may appear suddenly." Ren Li said with excitement.
"Okay, I will create a chance encounter soon. When I meet a man, I will bump into him and pretend to be careless. Then we can get acquainted." Wang Jiayi said.
"Sister, do you call this a chance encounter?" Ren Li said, "Do you call this a throw-in-your-love attitude? It's too vulgar! It's too clumsy! Good men will be scared away by you, and bad men will pester you endlessly. Coincidence
The essence is to let nature take its course and fate
The secret is to let nature take its course. If you want to make a chance encounter equal to fate, the key point is to let nature take its course. Hitting someone's arms is called deliberately causing an accident. It is impossible to develop a deliberately created accident into a story of letting nature take its course.
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"Then how did we meet by chance?" Wang Jiayi asked.
Ren Li said: "First of all, you must determine your goal. What kind of man do you think is suitable for you? Then, you must frequent places where such men often hang out. For example, if you want to find a big boss with a successful career, you can also
You have to have good taste and not be the kind of vulgar nouveau riche. You have to pay more attention to business gathering places, such as charity fund-raising parties and company anniversary celebrations. You have to organize these activities.
You can sneak in, then hold the red wine, find the target, slowly approach, accidentally spill the red wine on him. Don’t worry, business elites with status and status will not argue with you, but you must be sincere
Apologize, then take the initiative to introduce yourself and leave your business card. If he is also interested in you, he will either exchange business cards with you or take the initiative to call you. This is called a chance encounter."
Wang Jiayi looked surprised, "No wonder I like watching movies so much and learning routines from them!"
Ren Li said: "Although it is a routine, it is very practical and effective. For another example, if you want to find engineers, you can go to restaurants and coffee shops in front of scientific research institutes and software development companies. If you want to find engineers
University professors need to visit colleges and universities frequently. If you want to find a doctor, you should pretend to be sick and go to the hospital for more visits."
Fan Yunxuan said: "Lili's idea is right. The problem is that Jiayi doesn't know what she is looking for."
Ren Li said: "So, you must first determine your goals and figure out what kind of man is the most reliable and worthy of being entrusted to you for life."
Wang Jiayi suddenly understood: "Yes, let's follow this idea. Let's first decide what kind of man we are looking for, and then we can meet him by chance."
Wang Jiayi happily led her two best friends back to the house she had just rented, and began to discuss what kind of man was most worthy of being entrusted to her for life.
At this time, Ren Li was even more excited than Wang Jiayi. Normally, Fan Yunxuan and Wang Jiayi would protect her in the company, because in the clothing company, she was a receptionist with a humble position, and was often bossed around by those arrogant fashion designers.
She did this and that, and now, she can actually give Wang Jiayi advice like a love expert. Her sense of value has soared rapidly, and she can't wait to throw out all the love experiences she has learned from movies, TV series, and romance novels.
Ren Li said: "If you want to determine what kind of man is worth trusting for life, you must first eliminate the most unreliable and least worthy of trust."
Wang Jiayi humbly asked for advice like a primary school student: "What kind of man is the least worthy of trust?"
Ren Li said: "The most unworthy of consideration are those men who are romantic. They are like butterflies. They have this sister and that sister all day long, and they are always surrounded by warblers and swallows. Such a man can get away as far as he can.
How far away? There are also those who are involved in pornography and gambling
No matter how handsome he is, even if he is a big star, even if he has multiple villas and yachts, you cannot marry someone who has drugs and other bad habits. Don’t think that he will change if you marry him. It’s impossible. He has a tendency of domestic violence.
You can't marry, domestic violence is a disease,
It is difficult to cure. You cannot get married because you worry about trivial matters endlessly. Such people are often narrow-minded, like to do evil in secret, and are vengeful. They treat you well on the surface, but you can't say they will do any harm behind the scenes.
When you are with this kind of people, you
It’s terrible that you don’t even know who your opponent is after being plotted against. There are also people with evil intentions. People who are only interested in small interests can lose their conscience when it comes to big interests and have no regard for the life and death of others. Such a scumbag would rather stay single all his life.
, don’t marry either.”
Ren Li was frothing and gushing, and Fan Yunxuan and Wang Jiayi on the side were very surprised.
Fan Yunxuan said to Wang Jiayi: "I didn't expect that our Lili is actually a love expert."
Wang Jiayi said: "It's really hidden, and I know a lot."
Ren Li said with a proud look on her face: "Do you think those movies and TV series are for free? Do you think those romance novels are for free?"
Fan Yunxuan nodded, "I always thought you were a simple little girl. It turns out that we were deceived by your appearance. Only today did we know that you are very scheming!"
Ren Li snorted: "What does it mean to be as wise as a fool? That's me. I'm the kind of real master who hides in the city in martial arts novels."
Wang Jiayi said: "Are you born in the Year of the Monkey? Give you a pole and you dare to climb up."
Fan Yunxuan said: "What Lili said is quite right, but a man's temperament can only be understood after getting in touch with him. The top priority now is to figure out what kind of people Jiayi is suitable to be in contact with."
Wang Jiayi turned on her computer and clicked on the blind date website, where many men took the initiative to contact her. She clicked on one to check the other person's situation.
Wang Jiayi pointed at the computer screen and said, "How about this? A doctor from a well-known large hospital."
Ren Li looked delighted: "It's good to marry a doctor. You don't have to spend money on medical treatment."
Fan Yunxuan said: "You just can't have a conflict with him, otherwise, he can make you unable to get out of bed without violent means."
Ren Li said: "Yes, doctors can kill people invisible. They can cure you when you are in a good mood, and they can also make you sick when you are in a bad mood. Why is it a bit creepy!"
Wang Jiayi clicked on another one and asked: "How about this? A great and glorious people's teacher, and also an outstanding municipal teacher."
Ren Li said: "What a great teacher. I'll help you with housework during the winter and summer vacations, and you can also tutor your children."
Fan Yunxuan said: "Teacher is a glorious profession, but you should chat with him less. Due to professional habits, his hands will keep waving in front of you like a fly swatter."
Ren Li said: "This is easy to handle. Keep an arm's length distance from him when chatting."
Fan Yunxuan said: "To be rated as an outstanding teacher at the top level, he must be a person with strong principles. Once a conflict occurs, he will tell you the facts and reason, and will never admit mistakes to you easily. Even if it is a trivial matter, he will tell you the truth. If there is a conflict, he will teach you a few hours of lessons in a serious manner. If you don't compromise, he will never leave the get out of class."
Ren Li clicked her tongue several times and said, "It lacks interest in life compared to Sun Haowen. Jiayi will definitely not be able to stand it."
Wang Jiayi clicked on another one, "How about this one? Sales manager. On the contrary to a stable and disciplined profession like a teacher, he doesn't have any of the drawbacks of a teacher."
Fan Yunxuan said: "He does not have the shortcomings of the teacher, but he does not have the excellent qualities of the teacher. It is probably wishful thinking to want him to go home on time like the teacher."
Ren Li said: "That's right, sales manager, socializing is definitely indispensable. He has wine parties every three days. He is eloquent and hypocritical. His special skills are that you can't judge what he said to you at all.
Which sentence is true and which sentence is false?"
Wang Jiayi said: "So, I should find a doctoral student who has not been exposed to society?"
Fan Yunxuan said: "If you stay in the ivory tower for a long time, you will often have a higher understanding than the sky. It seems that you can know everything and understand everything. You can talk passionately about your ideals and ambitions. Once you enter the society, you will encounter setbacks.
, he will throw himself into your arms and cry, telling you how innocent he is and how everything is someone else’s fault. This is equivalent to finding a brother for your Beibei."
Ren Li nodded: "Well, that's right, someone who knows nothing about society is not suitable to be a husband."
Wang Jiayi said: "This won't work, and that won't work either. I'll just go to the temple to find a monk."
Ren Li said: "The monk is good, the monk is not bothered."
Fan Yunxuan said: "It is a good thing not to be attentive to others, but if he is not attentive to you, then why are you looking for him?"
Ren Li said: "Yes, people talk about Amitabha all day long, how can anyone say the words 'I love you' with an ordinary heart?"
As Ren Li spoke, she clicked on a person and said with a smile, "What do you think of this person?"
Wang Jiayi said: "This is great. You don't have to go to Xi'an to see the Terracotta Warriors and Horses. They look like unearthed cultural relics."
Ren Li said: "I am an out-and-out archaeologist."
Fan Yunxuan said: "Hi, archaeologist, the older you are, the more interested he is in you."
Chapter completed!