Chapter 115 Divorce (4)
Sun Haowen said: "Don't you do so impulsively?!"
Wang Jiayi said: "No more impulse, my happiness in the second half of my life is completely destroyed."
"The impulse is the devil!"
"The impulse is also an angel, which can save people from the abyss of pain."
"The abyss of pain? Are you living in the abyss with me? Is it so serious? Why do you have the abyss of pain?"
"Our marriage has become more and less love."
"I can't feel love, that is your illusion, just like a person living in a honeypot feels sweet."
"Hum, don't you stick to your face, honeypots? Is there a honeypot like you?"
"In this world, there is no problem with no problem at all. The key is that if there is a problem, we have to find a way to solve it. Don't divorce if you can't move!"
"Fundamentally, there is a difference in north -south and urban and rural differences in our life background. There is only one way to solve these differences, that is, assimilation. It is either that you are assimilated by me or you are assimilated by you. This is to solve all kinds of us.
The premise of the problem. But we can't solve this premise, because no one can assimilate anyone, and the other series of problems cannot be solved. In this case, why do we have to stand together? "
"This is just your understanding. The difference between the North and the South, the difference between the urban and rural areas, and other problems. These are not a principled problem at all, it is just some small contradictions in daily life. Other people may also be able to do it.
When you encounter similar trouble, others can overcome, why do we have to take the step of divorce? "
"Even if it is a small contradiction, if it cannot be resolved, it can also torture people to give birth. Haowen, I know you are a man with a heavy affection and marry any woman, you will not talk about breaking up easily.
We will only get more and more painful, and we will become more and more painful. We are "from love and grievances', and when we have not reached the resentment and hate", hurry up and be separated. It is really time to hate each other.
It's even more painful. "
Sun Haowen saw tears in Wang Jiayi's eyes. It seems that this is not impulsive. She has thought of it.
The sad tone asked: "My love for you, in your heart, is there no weight at all?"
Wang Jiayi said: "Since you love me, don't bind me in the name of love, I long for freedom now."
The last trace of hope was completely shattered, Sun Haowen turned into the office hall.
The hall was empty, they did not need to line up, they sat directly in front of the clerk. Until this, Sun Haowen saw that Wang Jiayi did not know when the divorce agreement was formulated. The agreement stated that the house belongs to Wang Jiayi.
There is no objection, because the down payment is from others. But the child also belongs to Wang Jiayi, and Sun Haowen does not agree. The child is more important than his heart and liver. He is reluctant to leave the child.
Otherwise, he would not agree to divorce. Wang Jiayi used the house as a bargain. As long as Sun Haowen promised to let her raise her child, she would rather give the house to Sun Haowen.
Sun Haowen's disdain, "You just give me a Jinshan, and I can't let my children live in an environment without father's love."
Wang Jiayi said: "If we go to court, such a young child will definitely be brought up by me."
Sun Haowen retorted: "If we go to court, in our situation, the judge will not rule out divorce at all!"
Wang Jiayi had no choice but to agree to let Sun Haowen raise the child in order to get a smooth divorce.
Seeing that they finally reached an agreement, the clerk inside said: "With a divorce, you can pursue new happiness, but the happiness of your children will not be complete."
These words touched a sore spot between the two of them, and they both felt sad at the same time.
The clerk continued: "You must be careful when divorcing, otherwise you will be irresponsible to yourself and your children."
Sun Haowen said: "The most fundamental problem between her and me is that there is a deviation in the understanding of happiness."
The clerk said: "There are inherent deviations in the thinking of men and women. It would be strange if there were no deviations in thinking! If you get divorced because of some deviations, then there will be no couples in the world who can grow old together. I think you should go back and start a new life."
Think about it carefully."
Wang Jiayi said: "A man who doesn't understand love, and a mother-in-law whose thinking, words and deeds are still stagnant in the last century, can I still live with them under the same roof? Sun Haowen, don't have any illusions anymore, I'm sure
I must and definitely tell you that this marriage must be divorced, it must be divorced!"
The clerk turned his attention to Sun Haowen, and Sun Haowen let out a long roar: "Leave——"
The sound was so loud and long that people could not believe that it came from the mouth of the always gentle Sun Haowen. He seemed to be venting all the anger and helplessness in his heart through this roar.
Two divorce certificates with photos of the two of them were stamped with steel seals.
The two divorce certificates were pushed in front of Sun Haowen and Wang Jiayi with both hands of the clerk at the same time.
The two of them walked out of the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau feeling lost.
Sun Haowen said: "Jiayi, we are all too impatient."
Wang Jiayi said: "The fate between people has a time limit. Perhaps, the fate between us is destined to only be so long."
Sun Haowen sighed and said, "Okay, give me a week. I will look for a house. Once I find a good house, I will move out."
"Only your dead salary, after paying the rent, drink the northwest wind!"
"I can't afford to rent a good house. I can still manage by finding a shabby tube house."
"Forget it, don't move, I'll move out. I can't let my precious daughter live in Tongzi Building with you."
"Are you moving out? You don't want the house anymore?"
"The property rights of the house are mine, and you can continue to live there. I do it for my daughter."
"Where are you going to move?"
"There are several houses in our community that are for rent. For the sake of my daughter, I can only continue to live in our community. Every day I go to breastfeed the child on time and stock up on milk. I also prepare milk powder and complementary foods.
.I believe in you, you will not let your children go hungry while I am away."
"In this case, why bother moving out?"
"Continue to be together? If we don't know, how can I find a new home?"
Sun Haowen nodded helplessly, "When looking for a new home, you have to find a real one. It doesn't matter how much or how little money you have."
Wang Jiayi had a wry smile on her face, "We're already divorced. It's not your turn to worry about what I'm looking for."
"Didn't you say that we can be friends instead of husband and wife?"
Wang Jiayi smiled and nodded, "Yes, friend, we will be friends from now on."
"But on the surface, we have to continue to be husband and wife."
"What's the meaning?"
"My mother is a well-known matchmaker in eight villages. Every time she helps a couple get married, she is so happy that she can't sleep for two nights. If the couple she helps get married gets divorced, she will
She was so upset that she couldn't sleep for two nights. If she knew we were divorced, she would have suffered from insomnia."
Wang Jiayi nodded, "You should have thought carefully. If she knew that we were divorced, she would definitely not understand and would have to find ways to get us to remarry. For my own safety, I will not tell her the truth."
Wang Jiayi took a taxi to the company and sat in front of the computer. She was as calm as water on the outside but turbulent inside. Although she was determined to divorce, she felt deeply lost after the divorce. She enlightened herself and said: "The original life pattern was suddenly broken.
No one will be happy if you leave him alone. But if the old is not gone, the new will not come. Happiness requires courage to strive for. Wang Jiayi, come on! Only if you leave Sun Haowen, you will have a better life."
She had no intention of designing clothes and browsed the rental information on the website. There were several houses for rent in Junmei Community where she was located. She contacted them through the contact information left on the website. Finally, she decided to meet the two after get off work in the evening. Meet with a contact person who offers a lower price to view the house.
Fan Yunxuan in the cubicle next to her was either listening or watching, mastering all her actions. After Wang Jiayi finally calmed down, Fan Yunxuan asked: "How is your relationship with that silly goose in your family now?"
Wang Jiayi said: "Okay, great, we treat each other as guests. Hey, after get off work, come with me to look at houses. I want to rent a house in our community."
"Rent? Why rent?"
"Didn't you hear what others said? Happy besties need their own space."
"Stop talking nonsense and tell me honestly what's going on? Don't say that renting a house is just for our party."
There were other colleagues around, and Wang Jiayi did not want to announce the divorce to the public among her colleagues. She said, "We will discuss it in detail after work."
After get off work, Wang Jiayi and Ren Li drove home as usual in Fan Yunxuan's car. Along the way, Wang Jiayi communicated with the two homeowners on the phone and determined the time to meet.
Ren Li was very puzzled. As soon as Wang Jiayi put down the phone, Ren Li asked: "You want to rent a house? Why do you want to rent a house?"
Wang Jiayi said: "When we gathered to chat before, we either went to a bar or a disco. It was noisy and noisy and cost a lot of money. How boring! I decided to find another location that is quiet and spacious."
Fan Yunxuan said: "You should save money, the rent in our community is not cheap."
Ren Li said: "That's right. Just stop doing Tai Chi and tell me honestly, what's going on?"
Wang Jiayi was silent.
Ren Li said: "I guess you can't stand living under the same roof with your mother-in-law and want to send her out."
Chapter completed!