Chapter 5652: The wish of the best mother-in-law 952
Yuan Wense tried his best to keep his attitude gentle, but he still continued firmly: "The same father is still a legitimate concubine. The identities of different fathers and different mothers are thousands of different, so they must be put on the same scale.
In the end, it doesn’t matter to the little red envelope, and it doesn’t matter to us either. It just hurts the child.”
The old lady's eyes narrowed slightly: "You tell me."
"First of all, there is no comparison between the status of these two children. Who is Xiao Hongbao? His father is the dean of Tongjia Academy. All his senior brothers are capable people. His godfather is Prince Xiao Ning, who he treats as his own.
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Even if we raise this child like a little red envelope and raise this child's heart, is it possible that we can still ask King Xiao Ning to take another godson? Is it possible that people outside can also regard him as a godson?
Are they treated the same as small red envelopes?
Our own family can treat them the same, but after he goes out, socializes, and meets people, can we still ask his companions to treat him like this?"
This is indeed a very real problem, and the old lady remained silent.
"Put a person in a position that is not suitable for him, and the future is destined to be a tragedy.
Even though his mother is gone, he still has his father's family. These people will all be vassals in the future. These family relationships and backgrounds have been with him since he was born. How can he compare with Little Red Envelope."
At this time, Dad Yu, who was still soft-hearted, had completely sided with his daughter-in-law: "This makes sense. It would be better if this child is the direct blood of the uncle and the old man. He is just a grandson. His mother is like that, and his father is even more.
If you raise your household registration too high, you will surely fall hard in the future."
Yuan Wense continued, "Xiao Hongbao's background is already more noble than him. What's more, this child is lovable and the crowd he associates with is higher than our family. A few days ago, his father and I didn't go out, so he invited
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The young princes who are waiting for the palace come to invite you. You said that the little red envelope has gone, and they can treat each other with courtesy. If this child goes with him, can they do the same? When the time comes, he will be bullied, beaten and scolded, who can correct him?
If you try to reason with him, will it make sense?"
The third master said to his daughter-in-law: "That's what the old lady said."
His emotional intelligence is not very high. Although he wanted to save himself from the situation, he got a big look from the old lady.
"At home, we can give them equal food and clothing, but in this way, there is no distinction between high and low. Because of this, the status of the little red envelope in our family has been lowered and he has been promoted, but the screwdriver below,
Who will truly obey him in their hearts? Of course, there are also people left behind by my uncle who will fight for him and want to hug his master. From now on..."
The old lady knew that what Yuan Wense said was true, but she still felt very unhappy.
As I get older, I have always been a controlling person, but I have become more and more paranoid.
Just like my uncle, I have relied on myself all my life. When I get old, I will never learn to rely on others.
If something happens, I will just take care of it myself, and I won’t feel comfortable if others come out to point fingers.
Even if you know what others say is right.
And from the old lady's point of view, this granddaughter-in-law did it on purpose.
Because this granddaughter-in-law is so good at talking and understanding people's hearts, she must know her thoughts. Even if she feels something is wrong, she could have used a more tactful approach, but she didn't.
Chapter completed!