Tolerance is easier said than done, because it is easy for everyone to see the shortcomings of others, but it is difficult to see their own.

As long as you have a tolerant heart, there will be many people around you who want to take advantage of you! Or like you! In short, whether it is kindness or tolerance, you must have a certain degree. Another thing is...

You must be a strong person. Only a strong person can be tolerant. A weak person can only be bullied and unable to resist.

Yuan Wense's strength lies in the fact that the people she tolerates are all included in her protective circle, not too many. Otherwise, with a modern person's mentality, eight out of ten people in the ancient aristocratic circle would be the Virgin.

Another point is that the trouble they caused is not beyond her ability, Yuan Wense can still solve it for the time being.

...

Yuan Wense had never been to the palace of Empress Dowager De.

It stands to reason that the concubine is also an elder, and as the Crown Princess, she should be respected as well. However, Yuan Wense has been respecting the fourth concubine and staying away from her all these years, and she did not change this habit after becoming the Crown Princess.

She found that the benefits of doing so were not too many, so she did not intend to indulge the four of them.

The two met, greeted each other, sat down, and talked and laughed.

It was rare for Empress De Fei to have the opportunity to see Yuan Wense up close like this, especially on her territory.

This opportunity was rare, so Empress De Fei chatted with Yuan Wense, secretly recording Yuan Wense's voice, the way she spoke, whether her voice changed when she smiled, relaxed, or became alert, her eyes, and some minor expressions.

Concubine De said, and several other concubines and sisters asked if the grandson wanted to pick a few princesses that he liked and let the concubine take care of the eyes. If so, let the concubine or the crown prince take the first step.

Just pick them out and tell them their names so they can keep them.

Yuan Wense quickly pushed the matter aside and said: "No, Xiao Fugua has been serving Huang Ama all day long, and he doesn't care about this matter. After all, age is there, and in the hearts of children of this age

I haven’t thought about these things about catching monsters. It’s just that the grandson is very curious and hasn’t watched the show, so she just wants to experience it. It’s true that you ladies love her so much.”

Concubine De did not mean to be aggressive. When Yuan Wense said no, she raised it high and lowered it gently, and the matter was over.

Empress De Fei is not a particularly witty or humorous person, but she speaks in a gentle and tolerant manner, making people feel comfortable when getting along with her.

The two of them talked back and forth for half an hour. Yuan Wense took her leave. Empress De Fei saw off the guests with a little regret, and the guests and hosts enjoyed themselves.

...

When Yuan Wense came back, Xiao Momo greeted him with a little panic on his face: "Empress~~"

Yuan Wense patted her hand: "It's okay."

The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law entered the house and Yuan Wense said: "Empress De Fei can get the wrong meaning. She knows that you are just going to have a look and don't mean anything special, so she feels relieved."

Xiao Momo lowered his head, with tears in his eyes, and said for a while: "Mother, am I stupid? I know that if I go, others will have a chance, but I... I don't want to, but I can't control it.

live……"

Yuan Wense taught with a smile: "Everyone is stupid sometimes when they are young, but with our status, we cannot commit such stupid things again and again. Although a virtuous reputation is good, in the end
Chapter completed!