One thing left a very deep impression on Xiao Fu Gua. That day when Xiao Fu Gua was writing, there was a minister who was as old as a grandfather and spoke very well. I don’t know what Kang Xi ordered with a smile. The old man suddenly knelt down and said,

His head banged against the ground, causing him to bleed, and he knocked himself unconscious.

At that moment, I was really scared to the point where my little Fu Gua dropped her brush. Her eyes were so wide open that she wanted to cry.

Later, Kangxi came over, hugged him, and took his hand to write.

Someone came in and dragged the man out, and someone brought a bucket to mop the floor. There was blood and water all over the bucket.

Everyone handled the scene calmly, no one showed the slightest expression of surprise on their face, everything went smoothly.

It was obviously a terrible thing, but in the arms of the calm and even calm and powerful Emperor Kangxi, everything became normal and firm.

This kind of thing is really important for the psychological growth of children.

For example, children are not particularly scared when they see mice.

If you, a mother, see the scene and scream: "Help the mouse!" while screaming and holding your child to avoid it, then in the child's heart, the mouse is very scary, and even when he grows up, he will be scared.

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If a tomboy throws his slipper over and the mouse runs away, and everyone continues to watch TV calmly and goes back to get a mouse cage and kills the mouse, when the child grows up, he may also think that mice are not that dirty.

Tiny little animals need to be exterminated, but they are nothing to be afraid of.

The same is true.

Although there is no need to stage extremely violent incidents in front of children, if emergencies occur, such as conflicts or bloodshed outside, you cannot control the situation. However, when raising children, no matter what, adults should try to stay calm.

Because children are imitating and learning.

Don't magnify fear and let your children learn.

Because of Emperor Kangxi’s strong yet gentle teachings, it didn’t take long for Little Fu Gua to go from fear at first to indifference later on.

Huang Mafa once said that writing requires a calm mind. If the mind is not calm, it will be useless to write anything.

This is a process of training your heart and your brain.

Not to mention Hongjin's level of buzzing, even if it's a little more exciting, Xiao Fugua can also control how much he sends.

Hong Jin said a few words, but Little Fu Gua didn't respond at all. He became a little angry and said, "Some people say you are as smart as a goblin, but I don't think you are that smart either. Goblins are not as stupid as you!"

Little Fugua draws the symbols seriously.

Xiong Cilu thought to himself, "Hey, now I know why Lord Long Live likes this child. This child's serious appearance is so annoying."

He can be regarded as the emperor's brother who has taught him a lot. To be honest, Huang's brother is almost always very smart. There are only some idiots like Lao Shi, and they have to compete with each other.

Most of them are very polite and polite, and there are not many who look as cool and grimace as Hong Jin during class.

Even the prince would not be able to speak in class.

I'm afraid that the gentleman hired by the prince is a little too spoiled, and it's a bad habit that can easily develop in small classes.

Hongjin was at home, and his husband supported him and doted on him and was even a little afraid of him. In his heart, like the prince, he felt that his husband was a high-level slave.
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