38, Section 2, the troubles brought about by favoring traitorous officials(2/2)
When Yelu Hongji learned about it, he was very sad. Yelu Yixin was worried that the matter would be exposed, so he simply refused to do anything and killed the princess again.
After getting rid of the queen and the prince, Yelu Yixin was still uneasy. He turned his attention to Yelu Jun's son who was still in his infancy. He was worried that Yelu Jun's son Yelu Yanxi would avenge his father when he grew up, so she
Yelu Yanxi must be eliminated.
It happened that one time, Yelu Hongji was going out hunting, and Yelu Yixin proposed to put the young emperor's grandson in the palace. Xiao Wuna, the envoy of the North Courtyard, had long been aware of Yelu Yixin's evil intentions, so he offered to guard the palace himself.
He was in the palace to prevent unexpected events. His words reminded Yelu Hongji, so the young Yelu Yanxi escaped.
After this incident happened, Yelu Hongji suddenly realized what had happened before. However, he did not want to admit that he had killed his wife and son with his own hands. At least he could not execute Yelu Yixin for this crime.
Finally, Yelu Hongji ordered Yelu Yixin to be killed on the grounds that he was trying to defect to the Song Dynasty.
However, at this time, the Khitan Empire was already in deep trouble, and there was a smog inside and outside the court. Just getting rid of one Yelu Yixin did not help at all, and it still could not stop the fact that the Khitan Empire was rapidly declining.
Life insights: Life is a process, and marriage is also a process. Where there is sunshine, there must be wind and rain. The question is whether we can still wait for the sunshine after the rain when the wind and rain come. This requires confidence in marriage and belief in bad luck.
It will pass, and tomorrow will be better. However, some impetuous modern people often do not have the patience to watch and wait from a distance. When their marriage is slightly unsatisfactory, they become resentful, dissatisfied, angry, vent, and crazy, so that they give their marriage a
A fatal blow.
This does not mean that we should tolerate the vulgarity of marriage, but that we should have a normal heart towards marriage. Perhaps in this calm situation, we can also enjoy the happiness and joy brought by marriage. This is also the case. Yes
Some people's marriages don't seem to have much sparkle. The men are careless and the women are careless. But after many years, it looks pretty good. This depends on the overall effect. On the contrary, if it is just based on time and place,
It feels like a marriage can break up in a minute.
The relationship between husband and wife after marriage not only does not require "early hearing", but also does not welcome "sightedness". In handling the relationship after marriage, hearing and vision need to deteriorate simultaneously. There is a Hong Kong lady named Lucy who likes to say
The spoken word is: "What did you say, I didn't hear it." However, just such a sentence brought double harvest to her life and career.
On the morning of Lucy's wedding, she was making final preparations upstairs. At this time, her mother came upstairs, put something in Lucy's hands, and then looked at her with an expression she had never seen before.
He said to her seriously: "I am going to give you some advice that you will definitely need in the future, that is, you must remember that in every good marriage, there will be some words that are worth turning a deaf ear to.'
After saying that, her mother put down a pair of gel earplugs in Lu Ku's hand. Lucy, who was immersed in the sound of good wishes, was very confused and didn't understand what her mother meant by putting the pair of ear plugs in her hand at this time.
But not long after, when she and her husband had their first dispute, she understood the old man’s good intentions. “Her intention was very simple. She used her life’s experience to tell me that when people are angry or impulsive,
, it is inevitable that you will say some unconsidered words, and at this time, the best way to deal with it is to turn a deaf ear and pretend that you have not heard it, instead of fighting back angrily." Lucy said.
But for Lucy, the impact of this sentence is by no means limited to marriage. As a wife, she uses this method to resolve her husband's sharp accusations at home and repair her love life. As a professional, she uses this method at the company
The method is to downplay the excessive complaints of colleagues and optimize her working environment. She confessed to herself: Anger, resentment, jealousy and self-abuse are meaningless. They will only destroy the beauty of a person, especially the beauty of a woman. Every day
Everyone may say some hurtful or unconsidered words at some point. At this time, the best way to deal with it is to temporarily close your ears - I didn't hear what you said...
It is certainly not easy to say that you have not heard something even though you have heard it, and to really achieve the state of "not hearing it", but it is precisely because it is not easy that you can distinguish the level of a person's emotional intelligence. You may not be able to
Chapter completed!