Look for the reasons within yourself. It seems that all the mistakes have nothing to do with you.

Mediocre people always like to find external reasons, but are unwilling to examine their own problems; they can only see the dust on other people's faces, but not the stains on their own noses. But the strong are always adjusting.

themselves, improve themselves, and strive to build themselves into a person who is in harmony with the outside world. They pay more attention to self-reflection and improvement, knowing that as long as they are right, the world will be right. "The father of modern drama" Ibsen once confessed

Others: Your greatest responsibility is to mold this piece of material into a tool. This is actually the truth. Mr. Lu Xun, who spoke as sharply as a scalpel, once said: "I do dissect others from time to time, but more often than not I do it more ruthlessly."

Dissect myself."

Perhaps, only when "It's all my fault" becomes the words we often talk about, and when we learn to turn to ourselves, we will find that we have become more humble and peaceful, and it will be difficult for many things in the outside world to make us impulsive.

You have to lose your mind. It can be said that looking to others instead of others is a kind of wisdom, and it is also a virtue that each of us Chinese should possess. I believe that if everyone learns to seek others instead of others, the smoke between people will be better.

The less, the more love there will be.

Most of the reasons why injustices entangle oneself are due to oneself. For example, if one is cheated in business, the root cause is one's own gullibility; for example, if one fails to take the postgraduate entrance examination, the root cause is that one is not diligent enough in his studies... To treat a disease, you must find the source of the disease.

In order to be able to prescribe the right medicine, and to break through the dilemma, we need to find the root cause of the dilemma through self-examination, and then we can find a way to break through.

Self-examination also refers to self-reflection. Through self-reflection, people can understand and understand their own thoughts, consciousness, emotions and attitudes. If a person does not know how to introspect, he will not be able to see his own problems, let alone have the desire to save himself.

There are no people who never make mistakes, and there are also very few people who never make mistakes that have been made in the past. Regardless of whether they repeat the mistakes they have made in the past, even this spirit of constant reflection is very valuable.

The Song Dynasty writer Su wrote an article "The Puffer Fish Theory", which tells the story of a fish in the river who swam under a bridge and bumped into a bridge pillar. It did not blame itself for being careless, nor did it try to sell off its anger.

He had to open his arms and swim around the bridge pillars, but he became angry and annoyed that the bridge pillars hit him. He opened his gills in anger, swollen his belly, and floated on the water for a long time - motionless. Later, an eagle

The bird in the eagle's mouth found it and grabbed it. In a blink of an eye, the puffer fish became a delicious meal in the eagle's mouth.

This puffer fish accidentally hit a bridge pillar, but didn't know how to reflect on himself and correct his mistakes. Instead, he made others angry. He made the same mistake again and again, and ended up losing his life. He was really asking for death.

So, where should people reflect on themselves?

Zengzi, a disciple of Confucius, had a famous statement about self-examination: "I examine myself three times every day. Are I disloyal to others? Are I disloyal to others? Are I disloyal to my friends? Are I not good at teaching?" Zengzi told me that I should examine myself three times every day, and start from three times.

Check your thoughts, words and deeds in several aspects:

The first is to reflect on the job situation, that is, whether you are loyal to the job you have undertaken;

The second is to reflect on whether you keep your promises when interacting with friends:

The third is to reflect on whether you know what you do, that is, whether you put the knowledge you have learned into practice.

In short, we must deeply understand and analyze ourselves through introspection from various aspects such as ideology, emotional attitude, speech and actions.

Self-examination can change a person's destiny and opportunities, and it will have an effect on anyone: because introspection brings not only wisdom, but also a diligent attitude day and night and unprecedented motivation.

With introspection, you can dissect yourself, shake off the dust on your body, and return to a clean and clean self.

With self-examination, there is a fence in life. You will neither be seduced by the fog nor overwhelmed by the fragrance.

With self-examination, we can eliminate the false and preserve the true, turn chasms into paths, and constantly sublimate our thoughts and purify our sentiments.

With self-reflection, we will wake up and become self-reliant and self-strengthened!
Chapter completed!