Chapter 213 Ruoruo's Stooges Group(1/2)
While my father and mother were busy, Feng Ruoruo also started a kindergarten day.
In the morning, I first did some simple morning exercises with the teacher and stretched out one limb.
Next is the time to play games.
When everyone was playing games together, Feng Ruoruo accidentally discovered that Liu Zihao was not very lively today.
When playing games, Liu Zihao is always the most active, and he always likes to show his power while playing games.
But today, Liu Zihao seems powerless to play games with everyone, and he no longer has the usual sense of activity.
After the game was over, Teacher Fang asked the children to return to the class and sit down to rest. Feng Ruoruo, Yang Xiaoxi and Chen Yaofei came to Liu Zihao together.
Feng Ruoruo asked curiously: "Liu Zihao, are you unhappy today? Are you sick?"
Liu Zihao raised his head and saw Feng Ruoruo. Yang Xiaoxi and Chen Yaofei stood in front of him. The little boy hesitated for a moment and turned his head and said, "I'm not sick."
Seeing that Liu Zihao was very fierce, Yang Xiaoxi unhappily pulled Feng Ruoruo and Chen Yaofei to leave.
"Ruoruo, let's go, Feifei, he said he was not sick, and he was so fierce that we wouldn't play with him."
Feng Ruoruo continued to ask seriously: "Liu Zihao, are you really not sick? You seem unhappy. Why is that?"
Liu Zihao raised his head, pretended to be fierce and said, "Don't worry about it."
Seeing that Liu Zihao was so fierce, Yang Xiaoxi was dissatisfied and said, "Who cares about you? If you hadn't gone to Ruoru's house to have snacks together yesterday, we wouldn't have come to play with you."
In Yang Xiaoxi's heart, if you go to Feng Ruoruo's house to have snacks, you can all be considered friends.
Of course, those who didn’t go were considered friends, but Yang Xiaoxi thought that it would be better for everyone to go to have snacks together.
But Yang Xiaoxi did not expect that Liu Zihao had eaten dim sum and not only did not have a better relationship with everyone, but was still there to rape himself and Ruoruo. The little girl was very dissatisfied with Liu Zihao and turned around and wanted to pull Feng Ruoruo and Chen Yaofei away.
After hearing Yang Xiaoxi's words, Liu Zihao said in a pissy manner: "I don't want to play with you either."
Yang Xiaoxi was very angry and said to Feng Ruoruo: "Ruoruo, let's go, he won't play with us."
Chen Yaofei also whispered: "Let's go, Liu Zihao doesn't want to play with us."
Seeing that both of his good friends said it, Feng Ruoruo stopped insisting, but said to Liu Zihao: "Liu Zihao, if you are unhappy, you have to say it out loud. Xixi said it out loud. If you are unhappy, you will not be unhappy."
Yang Xiaoxi asked strangely after hearing this: "Have I said it?"
Yang Xiaoxi, who is a little confused, has long forgotten what he said before.
But Chen Yaofei still remembered that he nodded and said to Yang Xiaoxi: "Xixi, what you said to me and Ruoruo."
Yang Xiaoxi nodded and said, "Okay, but Liu Zihao is unwilling to say it."
After the three little girls were preaching in person, Liu Zihao finally couldn't hold back. The little boy said, "It was just that I went to Ruoru's house for snacks yesterday. I went home with my grandmother late, and my grandmother was scolded by my mother."
Hearing this, Feng Ruoruo exclaimed: "Oh, how can your mother scold your grandma?"
Yang Xiaoxi continued: "Your mother doesn't respect the elderly. Teacher Fang said that we should respect the elderly, how can we scold grandma?"
Chen Yaofei thought for a while and said softly: "Your mother is your junior, so you shouldn't scold your grandma, it's not good."
After Liu Zihao heard the words of the three girls, the little boy became even more unhappy: "I know it's not good. My mother did something wrong. I said she was, but she didn't admit it and even hit me."
Finally, the real reason why Liu Zihao was unhappy in the morning was because he was beaten by his mother yesterday.
Yang Xiaoxi thought about it and said, "Then your mother is even more wrong. She did something wrong and refused to admit it. How could she hit you?"
Chen Yaofei said, "Then were you doing something wrong, or saying something wrong? That's why your mother beat you?"
In the hearts of children, they will feel that parents beat children must be because they did something wrong, or said something they shouldn't say, such as saying something swears.
Liu Zihao thought for a while and said, "I did nothing wrong. I protected my grandma at that time, and then told her that if she talked about grandma again, I would ignore him."
Speaking of this, Liu Zihao's face was full of grievances: "Then she hit me."
Feng Ruoruo was a little indignant when he heard this: "Your mother is wrong, she has done something wrong, how can she hit you?"
Chen Yaofei said: "But it is not right for Liu Zihao to say that he ignores his mother?"
Yang Xiaoxi said again: "Liu Zihao said 'his mother would talk about his grandma again' and he ignored his mother."
Yang Xiaoxi's words made the children stunned. It seemed like saying tongue twisters, which really made the children a little dizzy.
Even Yang Xiaoxi, who said this, felt a little confused when he savored it.
After a moment of silence, Feng Ruoruo said: "Then, mom shouldn't beat Liu Zihao casually."
When Liu Zihao heard Feng Ruoruo's words, he felt that his heart was open and that Feng Ruoruo was very kind and stood with him.
Of course, the child did not have so many thoughts. Liu Zihao thought in his heart that Feng Ruoruo was helping him, and it was his side: "Feng Ruoruo, you are so nice, you will talk to me."
Liu Zihao suddenly praised him, and the children were a little surprised.
Feng Ruoruo was stunned for a while, then quickly said, "No, I think your mother shouldn't hit you. You just helped grandma and told her not to talk to grandma and did nothing wrong."
Liu Zihao nodded in agreement: "Yes, I did nothing wrong, my mother hit me, she was wrong, it was her mother who did it wrong."
It is always simple for children to view right and wrong. Anyway, it is either right or wrong.
Now that Feng Ruoru and Liu Zihao are told, Yang Xiaoxi and Chen Yaofei also think that Liu Zihao is right, and then his mother beat him is wrong.
But when it comes to the right or wrong, the children are worried again.
Yang Xiaoxi pouted and said, "Then Liu Zihao's mother is wrong. What should we do? Do we have to tell Liu Zihao's mother?"
Chen Yaofei thought about it and said, "Or, let grandparents talk to Liu Zihao's mother."
Yang Xiaoxi immediately rejected: "No, Liu Zihao's mother scolds his grandmother, it's so fierce. Feifei, don't let grandparents go, grandparents will be scolded."
I have to say that Yang Xiaoxi is relatively sober. Although she can't say "you shouldn't participate in other people's housework", she knew that she couldn't let Feifei's grandparents talk about Liu Zihao's mother.
Feng Ruoruo thought for a long time and thought of a solution: "We can tell Teacher Fang."
Tell Teacher Fang that it made several children stunned.
Liu Zihao was a little scared and said, "You shouldn't tell Teacher Fang, right? Tell Teacher Fang, my mother will definitely be even more angry. I might be beaten by her when I get home."
The little boy said this, obviously he had similar experiences.
Feng Ruoruo said boldly: "We can tell Teacher Fang that Teacher Fang will not let your mother hit you."
Liu Zihao asked in a little puzzled question: "Will Teacher Fang tell my mother?"
Feng Ruoruo said confidently: "Yes, you did not do anything wrong. Your mother shouldn't hit you, so we told Teacher Fang that Teacher Fang wouldn't let your mother hit you."
After Feng Ruoruo's strange "inference", Liu Zihao was successfully persuaded (spoofed) and nodded and agreed to tell Teacher Fang.
After lunch, a few children ran over and pulled Teacher Fang to tell this matter while they were taking a break before taking a nap.
Teacher Fang first heard the four children chattering, but he didn't understand what was going on?
Sometimes it was Liu Zihao who was beaten by his mother, sometimes it was Liu Zihao's mother wrong, and sometimes it was told that Liu Zihao's mother would not hit him.
He was confused and Teacher Fang could only tell the four children not to say: "Don't talk together, you can talk one by one, explain the story to the teacher first."
The second time was when Liu Zihao said it himself, this time it was relatively simple, and Teacher Fang understood it all at once.
Liu Zihao was at home yesterday and saw his mother quarrel with her grandmother. His mother scolded her grandmother. He stood up to speak for her grandmother, but she was beaten by her mother.
Things are indeed very simple, but Teacher Fang was a little overwhelmed after hearing this. As a kindergarten teacher, she should not care about such things about children’s family and is not qualified to care about them.
Especially the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, this is a historical problem. Teacher Fang really doesn’t know how to deal with it?
So Teacher Fang could only persuade Liu Zihao: "Liu Zihao, many times, adults quarrel, not like you see, you are still children, don't participate in adult quarrel."
When Feng Ruoruo heard Teacher Fang say this, he couldn't help but say, "But Liu Zihao was beaten by his mother."
Teacher Fang thought for a while and said, "Liu Zihao's mother beat him because he was involved in adult affairs. He may not know whether his mother and grandma are right or wrong, so he stood on grandma's side and said to mom, this is what he is wrong."
Before waiting for a few children to speak, Teacher Fang said to Liu Zihao seriously: "So, Liu Zihao, you must remember not to participate in adult affairs casually. If you are still children, you don't understand many things."
After listening to Teacher Fang's words, the little boy was obviously dissatisfied: "I don't understand. My mother scolded her grandmother because her grandmother took me to Ruoru's house for snacks. She was late to go home, but her grandmother had already apologized, but her mother kept talking about her grandmother."
As he spoke, Liu Zihao's voice was a little choked, his little face was full of grievances, and he seemed to be about to cry.
Teacher Fang was stunned by the words, and in a daze, he felt that the children in front of him all looked like five-year-olds at all.
But if you think about Liu Zihao's words carefully, you won't actually feel that something is wrong.
From the perspective of a child, Liu Zihao doesn't understand the "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law friction", nor does he know that grandma and mother may have conflicts.
He was very intuitive. Yesterday he went to Feng Ruoruo's house with his grandmother for snacks, but he ended up going home late. Then his mother was unhappy and kept talking about grandmother.
Liu Zihao felt that his mother shouldn't keep talking about grandma, so he stood up and spoke to her.
So in the view of right and wrong of children, they will feel that they are not wrong. Why do mothers beat themselves?
Teacher Fang is really in trouble now, and I don’t know how to explain this issue to Liu Zihao?
After thinking for a long time, Teacher Fang could only say: "How about this? If you wait until the kindergarten is over in the afternoon, if Liu Zihao's mother comes to pick you up, the teacher will tell your mother that she will not hit you casually."
When Liu Zihao heard the teacher say this, he immediately became satisfied and nodded: "Well, thank you Teacher Fang."
Feng Ruoruo then added: "Teacher Fang, Teacher Fang, you have to tell Liu Zihao's mother that she can't scold Grandma Liu Zihao."
When Teacher Fang heard this, he saw that the four children were all looking at him seriously and felt a little angry.
In the end, in order to let the four children go to bed, Teacher Fang had to agree: "Okay, Teacher Fang told Liu Zihao's mother that she would not quarrel with his grandmother in front of Liu Zihao in the future."
To be continued...